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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

 

I broke up with my selfish boyfriend, now I've met a great guy, but I had sex again with my ex, he thinks we are back together, what do I do now?

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26 November 2007 (F age 36-40 - Ok well....I was goin out with my boyfriend for 5 years, I broke up wih him about 2months ago to go out with a guy who I have known for 7 years who i have always been very good friends with and dated for a few months in school. My ex doesnt know dat im with this guy and would ... (264 words

I find myself angry and stressed at everything.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5987 days ago

26 November 2007 (F age 36-40 - Lately I find myself angry and stressed at everything. Things wind me up and I feel very tense all of the time. I am so irritable with people and seem to bitch a lot about things. I dont know what's wrong with me. Life is good, everyone I love is healthy and well. I used to be ... (162 words

Break...

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26 November 2007 (M age 30-35 - I'm 18 and have been dating my girlfriend for 4 months now, and she proposed taking a break. This came about because she was afraid of the what ifs that she was missing. What should I do?... (37 words

I'm divorced with 4 kids, I've fallen in love with a girl who lives in London, she's not happy with her boyfriend,am I just dreaming?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5988 days ago

26 November 2007 (M age 51-59 - there is a girl i have been chatting to for two years now online, and i get on really well with her, if i was to write a dream girl spec she would be it. She is sexy, funny attractive, inteligent everything i could want and more. She even works in the same industry as me so we ... (276 words

Confused and need help.

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26 November 2007 (F age 36-40 - I'm confused and don't know what to do, my ex and I have a little boy together, when he was born we got on well but as the year has passed we have got worse and been arguing a lot, we end up saying horrible things to each other and I feel he does not spend enough time with our ... (118 words

I've fallen in love, but I'm still married, what should I do?

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26 November 2007 (F - I have been seeing a wonderful man for the past two years and living with him for the past one year. We are both musicians, and love doing the same things in life. He has three wonderful kids, and I am close to them. We have a great sex life and I feel like I am the happiest ... (441 words

We were drifting apart, then we sparked up again, now he's proposed, but there's another man on the scence, I don't know what to do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5982 days ago

26 November 2007 (F age 41-50 - I have been in a relationship for nine years. It took me a while to decide I had fallen out of love because I do feel for this guy and we have bought a house together and have a cat. I hadn't left him because we were in so much debt I didn't see how I could afford to move out. ... (216 words

I cheated on him, and he beat me, how do I move forward?

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26 November 2007 (F age 51-59 - in june i made a very bad choice in my life..having been with the same man for 25 years.. a man i love so very very much ..mostly good years, not always happy years.. bickering, fighting and alot of silence .. now i see it was my life before and it could have been better.. i ... (241 words

I like my cousin's bf! What do I do?

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26 November 2007 (F age 36-40 - i have a big problem, me and my cusin were like best friends, shes beein going on about a boy she meet at work she told me soo much about him and i was happy for her, but the other day i meet him by the end of the night my cuzin asked me if i thought he was good for her i said ... (101 words

Sex is getting boring--how do I tell her that?

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26 November 2007 (M age 30-35 - I've been with my girlfriend for a little over 9 months now, we have sex on a semi regular basis, but im getting bored of the same old positions, ive asked her if we could try different stuff (non freaky things) but she doesnt seem intrested.. i don't like to say im getting ... (77 words

How sexually charged are older women?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5989 days ago

26 November 2007 (M age - Do women over 55 enjoy sex or is it something they do to keep their man happy. I want to continue dating a woman thats 57. I've had a few dates with her and sex has not been discussed, not yet anyway, I don't want to embaress her. I plan to talk about it with her, but its too ... (156 words

I only last 2 minutes at most, what is average for guys?

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26 November 2007 (M age 36-40 - When i have sex with my girlfriend i only seem to last under 2 minutes... i make up for this in other ways and she loves our sex life but im ashamed that i dont last longer. what is the adverage time in mutes it takes a guy to reach an orgasm? ... (56 words

I'm shy-how do I learn how to have more self confidence?

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26 November 2007 (F age 30-35 - I need to learn how to be more open around guys,I get soo shy,it doesnt make any sense to me when i see other girls flirting and i cant do it! I think im afraid of rejection,or maybe im just a shy person.How do i learn how to have more self confidence? ... (52 words

I've fallend for my best friend, but he's gay, what can I do?

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26 November 2007 (F age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, I am crazy about my best friend who is a boy, by the way and i was recentley at his house and we nearly ended up in bed together, and i told him that I really like him but he told me he is gay. I feel so confused and I still think about him all the time. What shou... (67 words

Fallen for my best guy friend but I'm not his type! How do I cope?

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26 November 2007 (F age 36-40 - Hi I have a horrible feeling i've fallen for my bestfriend every1 automatically thinks we're a couple anyhow, and he is amazing but i know his ex's and i know what he likes in girls and while he's not shallow he's not into girls like me, just doesn't find how i look attractive ... (131 words

Questions about 'massages'..

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26 November 2007 (F age 30-35 - What advice would you have for massaging? Can the receiver be clothed? How should the one giving the massage be dressed? Can clothing be removed as part of the massage? If so, how? Where on the body should be touched by the giver? Are there some places that are most ... (114 words

I was his rebound , but there is more to it, how can I convince him we should be committing to each other?

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26 November 2007 (F age 51-59 - Im stuck as to what to do can anyone give me some sound advice. I met this guy 9months ago and well we hit it off straight away and everything is gr8. Well i say gr8 he knows i love him but he wont say it back to me. The basis of the story is that he was married and would you ... (235 words

He's too bushy down below, how can I bring this up with him?

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26 November 2007 (F age 36-40 - Hi. My bf's hair down there never bothered me, but lately i've noticed that he hasn't really been trimming it like he used to and it's getting really thick. I really don't have a problem with hair, it's just that when i go down on him i'm constantly getting it stuck in my ... (106 words

How do you write a love letter to a guy?,we've never made love, can I put this in the letter?

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26 November 2007 (F age 36-40 - I want to write my boyfrind a love letter. What advice would you have regarding writing love letters? What are cute or sexy things to say? How can I say them? We have not had sex and I would like to and I think we are ready. Can I mention this desire in a love letter? ... (69 words

He loves me, but does he really like me?

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26 November 2007 (F age 41-50 - I've been with my man for five years we have an ok relationship. My problem is that I dont think that he likes me very much, I mean I know he loves me but I dont think that I am his favorite person to be around. I say this because he is always gone he only likes to have sex ... (80 words

How do you play hard to get, when you like a guy?

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26 November 2007 (F age 30-35 - How do you play hard to get, whist still hinting that you like him??... (14 words

I'm 40 and he's 20 years older. My family say he's too old. Is there a future here?

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26 November 2007 (F age 51-59 - I am 40 just filed divorce and I met this man 20 years older than me. We go dancing every Saturday night and have sex whenever we are together. All my families and friends do not like what I am doing. And they think there is no future as he is too old for me. I was in an ... (111 words

Should a newlywed man still keep pictures of his ex's on his computer?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5923 days ago

26 November 2007 (F age 41-50 - I am newly married and my husband keeps pictures of him with previous girlfriends on his computer. Do you think he should get rid of them? We are married now so I don't see why he needs them anymore.... (41 words

She's dating other guys a week after telling me she loved me! Advice?

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26 November 2007 (M - Hi Wonder if you can help My ex fiance asked me to get back with her on a date to date basis at the beginning of November. We met up and ended up spending the night together. We agreed to meet each other the folowing week. However, I was drunk the following Saturday and tex... (318 words

Should I leave him for messing me around or go back to him?

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26 November 2007 (F age 30-35 - Hiya ... Me and my recent boyfriend have broken up i was only with him for a short period of time but i cant figure out why he finishd with me .. I know my ex before was trying to split us up but he swore down it was nothing to do with him .. he didn phone me at all ... (148 words

He broke up with me-what can I do to get him back?

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26 November 2007 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend recently broke up with me (he said he wasn't ready for a long term relationship). The problem is I want him back because I still love him. I'm worried that if I don't do something we won't be able to stay friends and we will just stop talking. What can I do to get ... (58 words

I'm getting threatening calls from strangers who claim to know me, saying they're going to beat me up! What can I do?

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26 November 2007 (F age 30-35 - Hii .. i keep getting prank phone calls of an annonomus number they keep threatenin me to batter me for a reason that isn even true makin excuses up to pick on me and stuff .. im so scared in case they jump me . they o my name were i live and my oold skewl i went to .. they ... (146 words

I feel a connection...should I ask her out??

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26 November 2007 (? age 30-35 - OK, this might sound really stupid, but I would like you to advise me on what to do at school. I'll try and be as brief as possible but here is the situation: There's this girl I like in my class, who I think might like me. I'm not sure but I have a feeling there is a connecti... (100 words

She dumped me last week but she keeps flirting with me! I'm being torn apart!

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26 November 2007 (M age 30-35 - i dont understand why a girl i know is flirting with me, i thought she didnt like me. she dumped me last week!... please help me im being torn apart... (30 words

He makes me feel secure and wanted, but when I think about his age I wonder if I have taken a good decision. He's 18 yrs older.

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26 November 2007 (F age 51-59 - I am 45 and my husband is 50 just divorced and I met this man 18 years older than me. He has been supportive throughout my divorce. He has just recovered from colon cancer when I met him. He's got no children. He said I am a huge boost to him and make him feel really good. ... (159 words

I've got such a great guy...so why do I want something more??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5965 days ago

26 November 2007 (F age 36-40 - I'm a 20 year old female and mother of a 4year old. I'm not with my son's father as we split when he was about two years old. Shortly after that I started dating someone else who my son sees as a father, well things didn't work out either, he went to the military and found more ... (284 words

Certain things he said whilst breaking up have really hit me hard; I'm afrad that if I lose him, no one else will love me.

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26 November 2007 (F age 30-35 - Hello, Im just looking for some advice really from someone who might know what im going through. Ive been with my boyfriend for 19 months now, im 18 and he's 22, and ive always been happy with him and love him to pieces, and ive made some mistakes in the past, mainly jus... (380 words

Recently she cant get through the day without me...any advice??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5988 days ago

26 November 2007 (M age 41-50 - Strange situation here... i need to know what if anything there is i can do and what could of caused this. Well my wife and i have been together since we were 16 we love each other very much. Just lately she has become very attached to me and the other night admitted she can'... (330 words

How do anorexic people exercise?

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26 November 2007 (? age 30-35 - hi. Im doing a school project on eating disorders, and i was just wondering, how much do anerexic people usually exersise? thankyouxxx... (22 words

I'm stressing about leaving school, but I don't leave til 2009!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5561 days ago

26 November 2007 (F age 30-35 - ok i am 14 in year 10 and stressing about leaving school in 2009.i really dont want to leave school thinking i might not see some of my freinds again really upsets me how can i get over this i shouldnt have to worry about this for like a year yet!... (51 words

Diets to help lose weight?

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26 November 2007 (F - Hi whats the best type of diet to loose weight? How much exercise do you reccomend. and How many calories. Thanks. Im starting the gym soon also.... (29 words

My bf thought I was joking when I refused intimate contact as we had been talking about it, and he raped me. Please help me.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5987 days ago

26 November 2007 (? age 26-29 - hi im 13 and i was raped by my 13 year okld boyfriend and think i might be pregnant i know he was only joking around and he thought i was joking when i said no because i had been talking about it please help me.... (46 words

I'm having a secret relationship with my half brother's half brother!

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26 November 2007 (F age 36-40 - i hav been seeing my half brothers half brother for a few months and we hav fallen for eachova wot do we do it has all been a secret so far????... (31 words

We're in love and I want to date him again! Will sex bring us together?

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26 November 2007 (F age 30-35 - In Febuary, I met a boy who I fell head over heals for.. Ever since that day my really close friend and I have been through hell and back. We went out for about two weeks and couldn't stand eachother! We both knew we were better friends. But ever since that day we have been ... (174 words

Scared my bi best friend will make a move on me...

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26 November 2007 (F age 30-35 - Me and 2 of my bestmates strongly think that our other bestmate is a bi-sexual but what im worried about is they they both say she fancies me. I'm fine with gays but its different when its your friend. At the moment her voice is just pissing me off. I dont no why but she seems ... (333 words

How long after conception would it take to affect your period?

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26 November 2007 (F age 36-40 - Hey, I was just wondering...... On thursday i had unprotected sex..we thought it would be fine as my period was due on sunday and we didnt think there would be much risk so close to my period.... Anyway Now I'm late...only by one day mine. But I was just wondering how lo... (85 words

Me and my ex are still in love, but she has a boyfriend and "doesn't know" about getting back with me!

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26 November 2007 (M age 30-35 - Hey, I've split up with my gf after being with her for 3 months...I felt the relationship was not going anywhere and we now remain friends, my ex I was with nearly 2 years, me and her have been chatting and ive been going round there and talking and going for walks an... (103 words

Tips on "woman on top" and other positions except missionary?

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26 November 2007 (F age 41-50 - Okay. I had not had sex in over a year until recently. This is with a new partner. Please give me tips on being on top and other positions besides missionary. I know it sounds silly, but what do I do?? ... (45 words

Torn between my ex and a new guy.

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26 November 2007 (F age 36-40 - I have recently split with my partner and there is this other guy i like i have been seeing him for about a month now but i still have strong feelings for my ex and i dont know what to do? My ex wants to give it another go and i dont want to hurt anyone, my ex doesn't know i h... (91 words

Is he playing with me? - he "forgot" to say he lived with somebody else and already had a child. He says he loves me.

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26 November 2007 (F age 41-50 - Hi! I was with this person who wanted to me intimate right away with me after a few dates. I said no. After a while he would call me a few times then one day I stopped calling him. six month later he chased me down after a month we became intimate. I asked him if there was ... (352 words

I cannot be close friends with my ex whilst I still love her. I would love to have her back, do I talk to her about this and how?

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26 November 2007 (M age 36-40 - Hi there, I'm a 22 year old guy who has just split from his second ever, and longest, relationship. I basically have rarely if EVER really liked a girl enough for a relationship, I cannot stand someone who is easy or who has had many sexual partners. I have only had 2 ... (797 words

I realise I was wrong and I just want her back...

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26 November 2007 (M age 36-40 - It's been three weeks since my ex and I broke up. In the time apart, I've learnt to appreciate my freedom and I've realised how wrong I was to put so much pressure on her. I should've understood her wanting to settle into uni. I made things work for a year when I was at uni ... (105 words

Should I cut my losses with a guy that doesn't want to commit?

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26 November 2007 (F age 41-50 - Should I cut my losses? S and I have been dating for several months now. I'm 26, he's 31. We have fun together, we spend a lot of time together and I love him. We do have little quarrels but as a whole it is a great relationship. The only problem is, I want to settle down soon, ... (192 words

His dads told him to not date anyone. But I really like him. Help!!!

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26 November 2007 (F age 30-35 - there's this guy whom i really love ,n i thought that even he loved me, we even kissed but he dint propose me neither did I..but now since many days we haven't spoken he's trying to ignore me when i asked the reason , he said that his dad had read sum sms which i'd sent n told ... (97 words

Help! I'm going "Password" crazy! How can I remember them all!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5504 days ago

26 November 2007 (M age - Can everybody please help me on this one? Everybody. I have so many different passwords and PINs. Mobile phones, PC access, websites, bank accounts, email, Paypal. I'm way the past the stage of being able to remember them. I thought it a good idea to record them after changing ... (198 words

My boyfriend acts like a spoilt brat and only cares about himself during sex. What can I do about this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4018 days ago

26 November 2007 (F age 36-40 - Hi, i wonder if you can help. I'm a 21 year old female and my partner is 28. we have been dating for 2 years and are living together in his appartment above his family home in his country. (greece). Its very hard for me here as its a small island and he sems to know everyone ... (555 words

Should I keep trying with him even though he doesn't return my calls?

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26 November 2007 (F age 41-50 - please help.i meet this guy coming up to 2 weeks so far its been good,ive been round his house 3 times and stayed over night the thing is he wants sex and deep down i want it two but not just yet, anyway this weekend i went away on a day trip and he went out with his mates,on ... (150 words

She's giving me mixed signals. What should I do?

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26 November 2007 (M age 51-59 - dear all. thank you for helping me out in the past. but this one i can't get my head around. theres a lady that i like. we met. physical attraction was ok, but everything else was spot on. i have never laughed so much in my life, felt so at ease. its like there have been thi... (195 words

I lied to my long distance boyfriend....

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5948 days ago

26 November 2007 (F age 36-40 - hi, i just turned 18 not too long ago and im in a long distance relationship with someone, but i lied about my looks a little, i sent a real picture, only one and it was with really good lighting, im not ugly or anything its just i lied about my weight a little, im 5 10 almost ... (225 words

How can I get a popular boy to notice me?

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26 November 2007 (F age 30-35 - this question is from my friend because she dosnt have a page on dear cupid: im 15 and i have a huge crush on this popular boy, he dosnt really know who i am, how can i get him to notice me?... (42 words

How can we play with his perineum to make him feel good?

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26 November 2007 (F age 41-50 - I've recently been made aware of the perineum on the male and how it can enhance sexual pleasure. I've done some research and learned that it's right above the prostate and that stimulation of this organ can itself produce an orgasm. My question: What tips and suggestions ... (106 words

Question for mothers... What are some of the earliest symptoms of pregnancy?

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26 November 2007 (F age 36-40 - I have a question for the mothers out there. What are some of the earliest symptoms of pregnancy? I was expecting my period this weekend and have not had any signs of it yet. I can't remember the exact dates of my last period, so I'm not sure yet that I have missed it. I had ... (121 words

Does my size say I'm ready?

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26 November 2007 (M age 30-35 - well i am 16 years old turning 17 in 2 months, and i was a late bloomer in puberty, and i had to take testosteron shots to actually get moveing in puberty, its been almost year since the shots started, and i feel im ready of sex with my girlfriend, and she wants it really bad, ... (120 words

Is there a better way of approaching than asking if they want a drink?

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26 November 2007 (M age 41-50 - when i approach agirl in a club or pub i usally ask if they want a drink , it hardly works and cost money . is there an more succsessfull way because im single and i dont want to be... (40 words

I like parties, and love guys! But my mom is worried about me. What can I do to comfort her?

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26 November 2007 (F age 30-35 - i am a wild teenager. i like to party and i love guys. my mom is scared im gonna turn out like her and shes a 32 year old lady on parol who just got out of prison. but i have tried every drug in the book and i dont like either of them,so you would think thats enough to show ... (182 words

I fallen for a musician who played in our town, now I'm thinking of moving near him, how do I tell him I'm interested in a relationship?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5939 days ago

26 November 2007 (F age 36-40 - O.k., basically I met the guy of my dreams and he lives a long way away from me. I am almost 23 and he is 26. We met the first time in person when he and his band were on tour and played a show where I lived about 7 months ago. We keep in touch online mostly and sometimes on ... (182 words

I can't help not trusting my boyfriend! Any advice?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5444 days ago

26 November 2007 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I love eachother very much but I can't help not trusting him. I am admittedly a control freak. Since my last boyfriend betrayed my trust several times I really have trouble trusting anybody now. I have been keeping this under control, however, until the other ... (254 words

How can a woman love, yet cheat time after time?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5959 days ago

26 November 2007 (M age 41-50 - I am wondering if someone could enlighten me? Would be nice to get female answers. Why would a woman cheat time after time,go through the same denials and say the same things,yet swear her love,accuse her boyfriend of cheating,show violent jealousy,and not let go,only to cheat ... (48 words

I've got two babies, and I'm married to an alcoholic, how can I escape this mess?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5932 days ago

26 November 2007 (F age 41-50 - I have been married for just about three years, and they have been the worst years of my life. My husband is an alcoholic, and very verbally and emotionally abusive. He gets drunk EVERY day. He drinks in the shower, any where he can. I find liquor hidden all around our ... (241 words

I admitted while we were broken up, his friend kissed me. He forgave me, but his friend is denying the whole thing! It's a mess! Help!

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26 November 2007 (F age 30-35 - Recently my ex, as we got back together only today, found out that his best friend had kissed me one day at school when he wasn't around. I actually told him, because I didn't have the gut to lie about anything anymore. He instantly felt very sick, but forgave me cuz people ... (146 words

He's split with his wife, but still talks to her everyday because of he kids, how can I tell if he is ready to move on?

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26 November 2007 (F age - I have been with a fella for 3 months. His wife of 17 years left saying she was unhappy. He is in contact with her every day because their children are teenagers who they share. He talks to her like they are very good friends yet he has only been separated 6 months. He does ... (90 words

For several reason, I think I may be pregnant. What do you think?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5986 days ago

26 November 2007 (F age 30-35 - hey my period isnt due until december 1st. my most fertile day was november 16th. i had sex two days before and the day after unprotected. (no birth control either, trying for baby) i now have headaches, nausea, slight cramps, dizziness, itchy nipples, and sore nipples. bu... (88 words

Do I keep waiting for him to change, or leave now?

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26 November 2007 (F age 41-50 - I've been with my boyfriend for 5 years. I've thought of breaking up with him for almost a year. There is always something that keeps me from doing it. I think, "He'll get it together. He'll stop being selfish." He is jobless (his own accord) and homeless (if I do this). I ... (83 words

Do you think I'm pregnant?

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26 November 2007 (F age 30-35 - i have had headaches, slight cramps, dizziness, itchy nipples, nausea, and sore nipples...my periods not due until the first. i had sex 2 days before and the day after my most fertile day. but now almost 2 weeks later all my symptoms are gone. Do you think im pregnant?... (50 words

We've know each other for ages, and now finally hooked up, but he doesn't want sex, any ideas?

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26 November 2007 (? age 41-50 - I’ve been seeing this guy on and off for three years (I’m 26, he’s 27). The reason it’s been “on and off” for so long is pretty much due to horrible timing. I was just starting a new relationship when we first met, then he was in one…I travel often for work and he’s been ... (236 words

I think my cousin was flirting with my boyfriend! What's going on here?

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26 November 2007 (F age 30-35 - my boyfriend and i had plans for this weekend but my cousin came down and those plans were trashed...so i jus invited him over to watch a movie with me but little did i know my sis and my cousin was in there the whole time so we had no privacy what so ever :( i only got three ... (162 words

My boyfriend isn't interested in sex. Has he seriously has lost interest in me? Could it possibly be he's THAT concerned about house issues?

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26 November 2007 (F age 41-50 - Okay, so I've read the other questions about men not being interested in sex, but I think mine is different. Here's the deal. I'm 29 and my boyfriend is 38. We have been together a little over 3 years and a year and a half ago we bought a "fixer upper house" together. Since ... (405 words

I want my ex back. Do I show her I want her, or play hard to get?

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26 November 2007 (M age 36-40 - Last weekend I split up with my girlfriend of 15 months; she said that although I am "perfect in every way", there is simply "something missing" and that as long as she feels that way she will not be entirely happy in the relationship. This came as a shock, as only a few days ... (512 words

Any advice on fingering?

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26 November 2007 (M age 30-35 - I'm looking for advice on fingering girls. I've done it a few times now, but I still have a hard time finding the clit. I was with a girl on the weekend and she asked me to rub her clit while I was fingering her, and I felt like I was taking a shot in the dark. I ... (102 words

We got back together, but now he's very edgy. What's wrong?

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26 November 2007 (F age 30-35 - Ok heres the thing me and my ex just got back together and when i called him he was edgy on the phone and then he had some of his freinds prank call me and he keeps hanging up the phone on me it is geting anoying and we go to diffrent schools but we meet up at a boces program ... (185 words

He blames me for everything! What is he hiding?

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26 November 2007 (F age 30-35 - I broke up with my boyfriend of one year in May. He says we broke up because it was my fault, I was being unfaithful, and I had let him down so many times. He keeps saying that he just wants to be friends but each time we talk, all we do is we start fighting again. I still want ... (100 words

I need some advice on how to cope with being in a relationship. Please help!

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26 November 2007 (M age 30-35 - Alright so I'm looking for some advice on how to overcome this... I have no problem talking to girls, I'll speak my mind and think nothing of it. But when it comes to talking with girls I actually like I get all nervous and shy, especially when I think they like me back. ... (143 words

5 month since my break up, but I'm not sure how to feel. Can you help? Is it a good idea that I'm avoiding her?

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26 November 2007 (M age 30-35 - Hi everybody, it's Andy00. Not posted a question for a while now. Things have gotten much better for me this past month. I'm not sure why, because I don't think anything has changed. I have just felt a little stronger about the situation I have been in for sometime now; To... (485 words

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