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I'm kind of scared, what will happen to me.

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14 November 2007 (F age 30-35 - Okay. Me and my boyfriend have been together for 8 months, and asometimes I just wish I could have sex with him. But me and another friend made a pact not to do anything of the sort until after highschool. But I really love this guy, and he's really special to me. He doesn't ... (114 words

His mother wants him to be the "mammas boy" that he is NOT. Help?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6006 days ago

14 November 2007 (F age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend are so deep in love. And he's perfect for me. We're perfect for each other. I always thought "Your too great, whats wrong with you!" =D and i never saw it. But now, i think i know. His parents are very very protective of him and controling. He's 18 years ... (329 words

Is he wanting sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6006 days ago

14 November 2007 (F age 30-35 - I want my b/f back! it seems lately that my b/f and i are drifting apart, more so he then me. He used to call me all the time just to c wat i was doing, he wanted to kiss me every chance he got, and he acted like he cared more about me in general.And even though were still ... (146 words

Last night I experienced a bellyache after sex. Bad sign?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6006 days ago

14 November 2007 (F age 36-40 - iv been having unprotected sex since may and never got pregnant, afterwards i have pains or shaky leggs , but last night after sex i didnt have either of them til about an hour after i started to get belly ache. are those a bad thing and could their be something wrong with me?... (54 words

Does it make sense to be scared to and wish to at the same time?

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14 November 2007 (F age 30-35 - Hello. I am a 15 year old girl and i have lately been very curious about having sex. I know that there are consequences, i guess that it's just been bothering me on exactly what it feels like and such. A lot of my friends at school are beginning to have sex and they tell me ... (144 words

Average amount of sex partners in a lifetime.

This question has 43 answers - newest was posted 2110 days ago

14 November 2007 (F - I was wondering whether anybody knew the average amount sexual partners men and women have in their lifetimes. Im 17 years old and only have had One, I know this is quite normal and am relatively happy about it. I suppose im asking, what can i expect in the future? thanks. ... (51 words

He helps out his ex financially, should I be worried that he might go back to her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6005 days ago

14 November 2007 (F age 41-50 - My boyfriend is from Romania and went to college in the the US. he is graduated and gainfully employed. he dated another Romanian girl for 4 years while in college. He gave her a credit card in his name to help her financially (while in college). she ran him $4000 into debt ... (258 words

Questions for guys, do you prefer younger girls over more experienced women in bed, is humour important?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6005 days ago

14 November 2007 (F age 51-59 - A survey for the men: How important is the quality of sex in the choices that you make for a relationship to stand long term. Perhaps a younger pretty girl, not so experienced or good in bed vs. an older woman who is very experienced and lusty. Would you consider a woman who ... (72 words

I had sex for the first time, but it was months ago, can this blister I've spotted be in any way related, help please?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6004 days ago

14 November 2007 (F age 30-35 - I'm a 16 year old girl, who has only ever had one serious relationship, not that u can call it serious as its high school. We took our time to do things like kissing and ...fondling of lower regions, anyways we jumped the line and had sex back in April/May. It wasn't making ... (278 words

I was raped, what should I do, I think I'm pregnant.

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5643 days ago

14 November 2007 (F age 30-35 - I Was Raped And I Think Im pregnant What Do i Do? Im 14 Where Can I Get A Test?! Help Some1 Please ....... (30 words

Any thoughts on giving advice.

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14 November 2007 (F age 30-35 - Heyyyy I really like this site do you know one thing wen i am older i want to set up my own site and give people advice they want and also to write poems for people to see have you got any advice for me i am 12 years old and still at school could you share any thoughts you have ... (63 words

I still have feelings for my boyfriend.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6005 days ago

14 November 2007 (F age 30-35 - Alright, well my boyfriend and i have been kind of in a rough patch lately (we go to different schools)...i haven't been able to talk him/see him a lot lately and we lately have been constantly been getting into arguments that are really dumb...and lately my feelings have been ... (90 words

I've fallen in love, but she has trust issues, how can I convince her I'm the real deal?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6004 days ago

14 November 2007 (F age 41-50 - I have fallen for a woman who has feelings for me but owing to being recently badly hurt by someone has serious trust issues. Her guard is up and she is finding it very difficult to believe that I mean what I say. I'm taking things slowly and not putting any pressure on her ... (99 words

I told him I'm not in the mood for the first time , he has not taken it well, how can I reassure him?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6004 days ago

14 November 2007 (F age 51-59 - Hi, I have been having a little more than a few problems of late and to cut a long story short, Last night for the first time ever in my 2 yr relationship I said to my b/f that I was not feeling very sexual as I was so tired and had not slept in a few nights, He took it that ... (134 words

We are in a long distance relationship, I'm not sure what he meant when I got his last message, am I reading between the lines too much?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6006 days ago

14 November 2007 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been going strong for 18 months now, and have always been vocal about how we feel about each other. Because we- at the moment- are long distance, on Monday we had a serious chat about whether we should stay together, and both decided that we can get ... (198 words

He's sulky, and he says I nag him, how can I stop this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6006 days ago

14 November 2007 (? age 30-35 - When sometimes me and my boyfriend are talking and I say something and either by the tone of his voice I realize he's upset or because he says something like "I have to go" or he suddenly has something else to do... when I ask him what's wrong he gets more upset and will never ... (196 words

She doesn't like oral sex.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6005 days ago

14 November 2007 (M age 26-29 - I've been dating this girl and we've had sex a few times, one thing I noticed is that she hasn't come. Although Ive ask her why she says is very common, she still likes the sex but it's very hard for her to come and when she does is depending on the time of the month. She has ... (111 words

Does she like me, or just flirting?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6006 days ago

14 November 2007 (M age 36-40 - iv been hanging around with this girl who has a boyfriend who i know. we have both been flirting with eachother a lot in the past month. we cuddle whenever its just me and her and we meet up a lot, we meet just to hang out with eachother and have a chat. a lot of people that ... (129 words

He met this woman on holiday, but said nothing happened, but they are still in contact, should I just leave him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6006 days ago

14 November 2007 (F age 51-59 - I have lived with this guy for 10 years. In the fall he went on a trip with his son and met this woman from another country and spent the whole week with her. They went Jet Skiing and partied all week together. He told me about her and said they were just friends and nothing ... (144 words

How do I go about in proving my point to her? Every time I explain she doesn't listen and thinks I'm manipulating her.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5979 days ago

14 November 2007 (M age 41-50 - My girlfriend and I recently argued about TRUST and HONESTY in a relationship. We were BF/GF now for almost 5months now but we've known each other and started going out for 10months already. I often asked her about her day's work and often times before, she always tell me ... (375 words

I'm not sure how to approach this.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6006 days ago

14 November 2007 (M age 36-40 - I posted here a while back about getting into (and very shortly thereafter, out of) a relationship with a very close girl friend of about 4 years. Basically, her boyfriend of about a year and a half broke up with her before summer vacation, I finally told her how I felt, and we ... (404 words

I'm a bit nerdy, she's a model, she says not to worry about the attentions she's getting, but should I?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6006 days ago

14 November 2007 (M - i've been in a relatonship now for 3 months. i'm with the most amazing girl there is. She's really hot and I'm not saying that just because I'm her boyfriend. however lately I've started to feel a bit hesitant about it all. Firstly she does a bit of modelling for a mens mag... (146 words

Starting your period - influence upon breasts size? Do they stop growing?

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14 November 2007 (? age 26-29 - My friend told me that when you start your period your breasts stop growing. Is it true?... (17 words

His answer's always "you'd have been mad," when he hides things. Time to end my marriage?

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14 November 2007 (F age 51-59 - I've been married for 20 years, does anyone think that there is anything wrong with a married man going to bars and singing Karaoke just for fun. Does anyone think that it's also wrong for a marred man to have female (friends) that he exchanges text messages with. Does... (403 words

Pills management.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5921 days ago

14 November 2007 (F age 30-35 - hey thanks in advance for any replies. okay basically i went on the pill in august, was on it for september started the packet for october however lost it, so had 2 periods, now have started it again but it looks like im bleeding AGAIN...anyone got any idea what this could ... (57 words

My partner has accepted my child as his own. Should I tell the real father about the child?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6006 days ago

14 November 2007 (F age 41-50 - I've only recently registered with facebook and I've managed to trace the father of my first child. I have 2 children now (1 by the person on facebook and a 2nd by my current partner, who has accepted my 1st child as his own). I know deep down my morals know that I shoul... (241 words

She's taller than me, should I despite of that ask her out?

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14 November 2007 (M age 30-35 - Hi, I have a friend at school. She's really nice and beautiful and I smile every time I see her. She sits next to me on the bus even when there are lots of empty seat. I no she likes me as a friend but I'm not sure if she "likes" me. She's wonderful but, she's taller tha... (113 words

We're friends but I still love her

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14 November 2007 (M age 30-35 - I liked a girl, and the first thing i did was being friends with her. She liked me a lot and we both became too closer and after sometime i poured out my feelings towards her but she rejected me.Now we are friends as usual, But my problem is i still love her. What must i do ... (62 words

I want to get it sorted for obvious reasons.

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14 November 2007 (M age 30-35 - Hi, I'm 15 and have never done anything with anyone apart from snoging. Everyone i know is doing it and i feel kind of left out. But the main problem is... When i wank i only get small amounts of cum. It comes out in 'dribs and drabs' and only about a teaspoon comes out.... (80 words

I think I'm in love but she is 100 miles away....

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14 November 2007 (M age 30-35 - hey, I met this girl on holiday in august (i'm 16 she's 15) and we really got on well, just as mates. I got her email address and we've been sending each other the odd message. The problem is that i can't stop thinking about her, and even though i haven't said anything... (78 words

I have come to realise I miss my ex teacher although I never particularly liked her during school. Why this obsession?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6006 days ago

14 November 2007 (F age 30-35 - I'm confused. What does all this mean? Well there was this teacher that taught me about 6-7 years ago she is female and taught me when i was 10 and 11. I wasn't in her class but she taught me for afew lessons. Well even when i was at that school i used to have a sort of ... (418 words

My periods are irregular; I've discerned a band of coagulated blood. What could it have been?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5618 days ago

14 November 2007 (F age 30-35 - Im 14 Years Old And Get Really Weird Periods. They Come At Random Times, Are Sometimes Heavy, Last For A Few Weeks Then When They Go Away They Come Back Only About A Week Later! Once when i was under alot of stress a little bean shaped thing came out in the blood. It looked l... (70 words

She ended the relationship abruptly and I always feel tempted to send her a piece of my mind. How do I move on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6006 days ago

14 November 2007 (M - Hi Wonder if you can help again. I'm finding coping with my break up very difficult. I keep going over everything over and over again, tempted to send a text to her to give her a piece of my mind, write a letter etc. She ended the relationship by abruptly hanging up on me... (85 words

If a man crosses my line of vision, my bf assumes I was checking him out and that I want to have sex with him. Who is right?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6006 days ago

14 November 2007 (F age 36-40 - my boyfriend of 3 yrs gets mad whenever i look at other men. he does not yell at me or hit me or anything but he is visibly upset and jealous and asks me all the time not to look at other men. i cannot help myself sometimes thought if a man is especially attractive. i think he ... (339 words

In love with the man I'm having an emotional affair with, but don't have the strength to leave my husband.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6006 days ago

14 November 2007 (F age 41-50 - I've been having an emotional affair with a guy i work with for 4 years, we email all the time. he also sees someone we both work with. I am married. I am in love with him, but don't have the strength to leave my husband.Any advice?... (47 words

How do you fight against cellulite?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6006 days ago

14 November 2007 (F age 30-35 - Hi I know this isn't really a realtionship questions, but... Does everyone (girls/women) suffer from cellulite?? I've always been a sporty person and about 2 years ago I gave up my career as a gymnast, which lasted for 10 years. I'd never had to worry about cellulite ev... (128 words

I fell in love with a man who claims he is independent/solitary. We dated for 3 weeks. I'm so confused!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6005 days ago

14 November 2007 (F age 30-35 - So i'm a freshman in college, and about two months ago i broke up with a guy i dated for about two and a half years. It was a very abusive relationship and he was always hurting me emotionally. I wasn't looking for a relationship after i had broken up with him, but this one guy ... (453 words

I want to go on contraception. My mother would be shocked to hear this, so should I tell her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6000 days ago

14 November 2007 (F age 30-35 - I'm 16 and i know my mum doesn't want me having sex till i'm older but i still want to go on some form of contraception just to be safe but i know if i told her she would freak out and never let me see my bf again. What do i do, go on contraception and not tell her or tell her? ... (70 words

Three different partners, and every time I've a problem with maintaining the erection. Could you help?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5964 days ago

14 November 2007 (M age 41-50 - hii, umm this may sound stupid but i have a question about my sex life and i was gonna go to the doc about it but i just thought i'd ask you guys first i've had sex with 3 girls now and it seems like very time the girl gets my penis hard but then when i try to pleasure... (145 words

He is so tierd from work and never has time for me.

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14 November 2007 (F age 41-50 - Married for 17 years with two boys ages 14 and 12. I love my husband with all my heart and soul. The problem has to do with his job. He works long hours and when he gets home he doesn't have time for me because he is so tired. I don't know what it is to make passionate love ... (188 words

I just woke up one day and she had packed her bags...now there are photos of her with another man.

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14 November 2007 (M age 41-50 - About 7 weeks ago, I woke up one Saturday morning to find that my partner of 5 years had packed some bags and said that she didn't think she loved me anymore and that she needed some time to be herself. We never argued and we had a great relationship, we were best friends and ... (317 words

Any advice on hair removal??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6006 days ago

14 November 2007 (F age 36-40 - I want to know if anyone has any advise on hair removal.. especially around the bikini line. I've tried everything! I've waxed shaved and used cream but everything i try leaves irritation and then hair doesnt stay away for that long and it always grows back with red bumps. I've ... (61 words

How can I tell him I'm fed-up of seeing his friends??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5920 days ago

14 November 2007 (F age - Im 47, Chinese and going through divorce with my husband. We came to live in England ten years ago. Im a housewife looking after my daughter and he is self employed selling computer. In the recent years his temper is becoming from bad to worse. I cant bear it any more. ... (181 words

Can I make him be like before???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6006 days ago

14 November 2007 (F age 36-40 - Hi, I'm madly in love with my man. We have been together for a year and 11 months now. I have done mistakes in my past and he seems to always have them in the back of his head (they weren't horrible mistakes ) he broke up with me this summer but then we got back togethe... (187 words

Do players always move on??

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6005 days ago

14 November 2007 (F age 51-59 - GUYS, again, bringing up the player question. I asked about it yesterday under the heading "Does a player ever change his tune." I met with him last night and we had a talk. He swears that he is true, but I really would like to solicit some of your opinions. Please take a ... (69 words

My child is driving me to despair. What can I do to make her behave herself?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6006 days ago

14 November 2007 (F age 36-40 - I need some help. I am a really bad daughter. My daughter is 4 and soon will be 5 and she does not listen to anything anyone says. She is scared of her father but she talks back and she hurts her sister and neice and she is just a really mean kid. I am spank her and she just ... (157 words

Amazed my dream girl ended it...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5801 days ago

14 November 2007 (M age 30-35 - Hi, My girlfriend of two years is my dream girl, i love her so much and we have seen each other nearly everyday since we got together, She has always been intense and loved spending time with me, i have always been honoured that she felt that way. She recently moved i... (191 words

How is it best to resume contact??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6005 days ago

14 November 2007 (F age 36-40 - Ive recently split from my boyfriend of 5 1/2 years, I had always assumed he was the one i would spend the rest of my life with, but a year ago things started to fall into place..i found out he had been lying about stuff and who he was for years and pointlessly. Eventually I ... (367 words

I thought he loved me dearly....

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14 November 2007 (F age 36-40 - I love my classmate very much. I am a Fashion Design Student. He is 4 yrs older to me.....full 1 year has gone since I love him. In the beginning, he threw some hints by which I thought he also loves me dearly...but now, he don't talk about me...he....don't love me...but, I am ... (76 words

Why has he suddenly decided to get counselling now?

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14 November 2007 (F - Will my ex change? And why did he start counseling now, after we are broken up? Throughout our relationship I felt like he treated me not right and that it was very unhealthy. He never agreed to go to counseling but now he is! What is up with that?! I broke up with him and he ... (58 words

A married man keeps crossing my mind...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6006 days ago

14 November 2007 (F age 41-50 - I think I need to stop falling for men that are not in my tax bracket and are "social or societal" role model's seeing as I am from a different time and place and different backround..Gram tell's me that they don't think like we do and I am just going to get hurt..It has taken ... (187 words

Do I give him another chance?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6006 days ago

14 November 2007 (F age 51-59 - hi,I dont know haw to start,just in this moment I need advise,I fall in love last year was nice and wonderfull everyting he came we stay together here in my country and I go to visit him in his country and I stay with him almous 5 months after I return to my country he get a ... (197 words

I'm stuck in a love triangle and need help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6003 days ago

14 November 2007 (M age 30-35 - hey, i need some help. i used to be good close friends with a girl (girl a) but i liked her friend (girl b) who was in a relationship. i was always friends with her but never close friends. girl a i think had feelings for me but i didnt see her like that. we started to argue ... (196 words

Shall I wait until he's finished his 'studies'?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6006 days ago

14 November 2007 (F age 36-40 - Hi there I met this guy in a chatroom. When we first started things were cool. Most days I couldn't wait for him to log on. He always told me the he missed me so we exchanged contact numbers and pics. He even said that I was beautiful. We got a bit personal. We used to p... (263 words

Why is he acting funny towards me?

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14 November 2007 (F age 30-35 - I'm 16 and my bf is 18 Monday I told him im pregnant(3 months) he was mad/happy he was mad because i'm just telling him plus b/c 2 weeks ag o he asked me was I pregnant and I said no(but I lied) and today he came to my house to see me he was rubbing my small belly and he cuddle ... (146 words

She sent nude pictures of herself to this other guy. Will I get over it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5993 days ago

14 November 2007 (M age 41-50 - My girlfriend and I have been dating for 4 years and living together for three. Last month she moved out and got an apartment because she said I wasn't ready to move forward with the relationship and I had been taking her for granted. I told her the day she moved out that I w... (275 words

He wants to be more than just a txter

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6006 days ago

14 November 2007 (F age 30-35 - well i got this lads numba that i sort of liked. weve been txtin each other 4 about a week or so. we dont talk in school. hes on my bus and we exchange glances etc but thats it. im happy with this. just txting and eye contact. he doesnt seem to be. he wants to meet up. and... (139 words

Such a dilemma! We agreed to keep the baby and now he's changed his mind.

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5973 days ago

14 November 2007 (F age 30-35 - Im forced into having another abortion...Let me explain About 2 years ago i met this guy when i was 17 and fell in love with him. He was my first love and pretty much first everything even though Ive had boyfriends befre I didnt trust them the way I thought I trusted him. Any... (480 words

How can our relationship be 'outed' to our parents?

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14 November 2007 (F age 26-29 - Im 13 and I know this boy who is also 13 and weh ave known each other since we were about 5 and I really like him and he told me he loved me and I love him but we cant tell our parents because they dont approve of young love. We sneak around just to see eachother and I want to ... (85 words

Relationship is over and I am looking for closure. Should I send her back her ring and momentos?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6006 days ago

14 November 2007 (M - Hi I wonder if you can help. I now know that my relationship is now definately over and I'm looking for some closure. I still have some photo's and bits and pieces belonging to my ex. I was thinking of mailing them to her with the engagement ring, and a card she sent me stat... (93 words

Is there a reason he's keeping me a secret from his friends and family?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5888 days ago

14 November 2007 (F age 36-40 - the family of my boyfriend does not know about me!! my boyfriend is 36 years old and im 21, he is a trustworthy men, really honest... sometimes too much, some months ago something was happening, relative often he was telling me stories about his exgirfriend .I though was no... (498 words

Whether I'm right or my past is affecting my relationship, I have suspicions. How can I make myself trust him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6006 days ago

14 November 2007 (F age 41-50 - i'm not sure if he is cheating on me. i have never had a good relationship. every man i have been with has either cheated on me, used me, stole from me. you name it. they have done it in the worst way. i seem to be way too forgiving and i get walked on. but i finally met a man ... (275 words

I feel if we got another chance it would work and be great! I learned from my mistakes but she's in a new relation.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5988 days ago

14 November 2007 (M age 41-50 - I split up with my girl about 4 months ago. I miss her like crazy. It was on the cards, we just moved in together and drifted apart. I took her for granted and in the end she had enough. A week after we split she got together with her friend. She felt she had given everyt... (166 words

I don't feel sexually attracted to my husband of 4 yrs. I'm not sure I can go on when I don't enjoy kissing and sex.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6006 days ago

14 November 2007 (F age 51-59 - I'm feeling very confused. I have been married for 4 years and have a beautiful 19 mth old girl. My problem is I don't feel sexually attractive to my husband. I don't enjoy kissing him and I don't enjoy having sex with him. He watches a lot of porn and most often I feel like ... (182 words

We're from different religions so my family are opposed to this. What's the best solution?

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14 November 2007 (M age 41-50 - I am in love with the girl who followed muslium religion.I am orthodox and my family didn't accecpt me. What shall I do we both promised to live together but the religion issue creat problems.Can any body give our best solution? please help our... (44 words

I still truly love my ex-FWB and think we could resurrect things, but I have a gf now! Suggestions?

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14 November 2007 (M age 51-59 - Hi - my ex girlfriend and I broke up 8 months ago. Things had not being going well for a few weeks and we seemed to be always fighting over petty things and taking each other for granted. We once had a truly great relationship. We met up occassionally in April - June and had ... (211 words

Had unprotected sex a couple of days before my period, my period came; could I be pregnant?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6006 days ago

14 November 2007 (F - hey people, this might be stupid just need to ask whether i could be pregnant, i slept with my bf a couple of days b4 i came on my period, using no protection and he came in me, then when im on my period 3 days into it we did it again n he came agen, then we did it last night ... (105 words

Am I crazy or insensitive??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6005 days ago

14 November 2007 (M age - I'm currently in a very poor marriage (probably on the verge of breakup). All that is holding it together is our tremendous love for our children and a strong commitment to the institution of marriage. I was wondering how things got started on this downward spiral and I must a... (591 words

I lied about having an abortion and now I am scared I cant have children.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5903 days ago

14 November 2007 (F age 36-40 - I am 24 and have been trying for a baby with my husband for 9 months now. When i first met him i was young and stupidly told him that i'd had an abortion to try to look mature. Its was such a horrible thing to lie about but now i'm worried i can't have children and i can never ... (89 words

How can I help my bf stop drinking??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5637 days ago

14 November 2007 (F age 36-40 - I have a boyfriend who i love so much but he drinks alot,that is even within the week and on weekends he uses around five thousand drinking with his freinds. I have tried to tell him to reduce but he hasn't. Please help me on how am going to help my boyfreind stop drinking... (68 words

How do I bring up his drug taking without damaging the relationship??

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14 November 2007 (F age 36-40 - I've been with my husband for over three years, but we've only been married about three months. He has been an amazing husband! He provides for me financially and is in school(even though I work, all my money goes towards savings), he helps around the house, and just showers ... (260 words

He acts about satisfying only his pleasures during sex.

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14 November 2007 (F age 41-50 - I am scared at what i am becoming. My boyfriend is so lazy that when we have sex he only wants to climax himself only. It has been such a long time since ive last climaxed and it is making me turn to a wierdo. I am now masturbating myself every second i get and it is making me ... (78 words

I've fallen for him finally but now he doesn't make time for me at all.

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14 November 2007 (F age 36-40 - Well this guy friend I've had for a few years has always liked me, and has always treated me so nice....He's always told me how much he likes me and how much he cares about me....I've never really given him that chance because I knew that he was great and something about that ... (164 words

I think she's too beautiful to stand a chance with. Hearing her confessions about a boy she likes, what should I do?

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14 November 2007 (M age 30-35 - Hey Basically, i have known this friend of a friend of mine off msn for a long time, and recently i met her in person, we get along fine and she is great fun to hang around with, only thing is she seems me as a friend at the moment, and i think shes way too beautiful to ... (202 words

We met after a disagreement, it passed a week and he hasn't called yet. I am confused, is he expecting me to call?...

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14 November 2007 (F age 51-59 - The man i date this year called me after a serious disagreement we had. However, I agreed to meet him so we met. He was nice to me and i had the impression that we would meet again soon. It has passed a week and more and he hasn't called me yet. I haven't called him and i would ... (107 words

When he calls I forget I've been mad at him. My friends say he is keeping me in the back burner?

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14 November 2007 (F age 41-50 - I am confused with this guy. I met him about 4 months ago. We have met only ONCE. We use to talk all the time and we both really like(d) eachother. He claims to be super busy and maybe he is. I cancelled a date one time and ever since then, he's kept in touch and promises I ... (209 words

Does she still love me or want to be with him??

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14 November 2007 (M age 36-40 - Me and this girl was friends, and she had a boyfriend, she would always tell me about how horrible of a boyfriend he was and how he doesnt listen to her, he was never there for her, etc. etc. So she broke up with him, and she started being with me, so we had a great time ... (207 words

I have a perception that I am not attracted to girls, and have a problem in getting close to them. Is it because I look down on myself?

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14 November 2007 (M age 41-50 - i think i have a problem in getting closer to girls means i am so shy. i haven't had a gf sofar.i always look down my self that i am not capable of having a gf. i have a perception that i am not attracted to girls.what do you think i should do about it? ... (55 words

Non-medical way for breasts enlargement?

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14 November 2007 (F age 30-35 - I feel reeli akward asking this ? but im 16, i think its time i ask for help. Im a small B cup how do i get my breasts a little bigger like a C. I would be happy with that. Is there any certain things i can eat that wont make me gain weight in the stomache area. I will never ... (99 words

Should I make a move or wait for something to happen??

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14 November 2007 (M age 30-35 - My friend and i have just recognized that we have feelings for each other...however our relationship is still at the neutral level of friendship...should i do something now (if anything suggest please) or wait for something to happen?... (38 words

I thought he loved me, but he's saying horrible things about me, how can I confront him about this?

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14 November 2007 (F age 41-50 - i'm a broken woman as i write this due to the fact that the man i love an i believed he loved me,has been calling me nasty names behind my back i recently found this out from an unknown source how do i tackle him and learn if there is any truth in this information?... (55 words

I want my ex back after seeing her again...does she feel the same way?

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14 November 2007 (M - Hi, I just met an ex after 6 mos..i surprised her at work..she's 27, i'm 39..we had a good but tough relationship...she was going to a concert, but asked me to walk with her to her friends apartment she was housesitting for. We clicked again, it felt great to see her eye to e... (387 words

I am hurt that my recent ex..is getting messages from females on his MySpace profile. How do I deal with this?

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14 November 2007 (F - How do I get over my ex who is getting messages from new girls on myspace saying things like how they hope he made it home alright? He was such an emotionally abusive jerk to me, and no one knows this! It is driving me crazy! We just broke up a month ago, and he already is ... (110 words

He doesn't know I decided to get a divorce

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14 November 2007 (F age 41-50 - I met a guy back in June. He's married and so am I. We were both in situation where we were only staying for the sake of the children and wanting to give them a stable home. We've only been together physically a couple times in the last 5 months, but we talk at least a few ... (182 words

What to do to avoid these feelings

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14 November 2007 (M age 30-35 - My girlfriend split with me this year after 3 years together. Since then, things I used to enjoy, I don't enjoy the same anymore. Example; Somehow, before my ex met me, she had never seen the film "The Nightmare Before Christmas". Whereas I saw it when it first came out in 1993 ... (175 words

Should I bring up the divorce or wait?

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14 November 2007 (F age 41-50 - I have been married for 4 years. I have 2 little girls 3 and 1. The last year has been quite bad in our marriage and we even spoke together about divorce on a couple occasions. we decided to work on it, but i am not in love with him or even remotely attracted to him anymore. ... (141 words

Should I tell him I lied before we have sex.

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14 November 2007 (F age 36-40 - im 22 and am still a virgin. ive been seeing this guy on and off but its hard because he goes to school in a different country.the last time met up i lied and said i was with another guy for a while and we had sex but didnt. im going to visit him next month and really want to ... (85 words

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