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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I'm scare it will hurt more.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6007 days ago

8 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - i'm in a relationship with the man of my dreams and he really wants to have "hit it from the back" i'm afraid it'll hurt but i want to give him what he wants. is there anything i could do so it wont hurt or hurt less ... (49 words)

He refuses to tell people about us.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6007 days ago

8 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm sleeping with a guy from college who i meet though mates, but he refuses to tell people about us. He took my virginty and he always treat me right, he just won't tell people about us. But the wierd thing is when we get on the bus to go home, he always touches me, and ... (94 words)

All my exes have cheated on me, now I think my new partner may be as well, how can I trust her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6007 days ago

8 November 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - i'm not sure if she is cheating on me. i have never had a good relationship. every woman i have been with has either cheated on me, used me, stole from me. you name it. they have done it in the worst way. i seem to be way too forgiving and i get walked on. but i finally met a ... (282 words)

My husband cheated, now this girl wont leave us alone? Why?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6007 days ago

8 November 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband cheated on me. The thing is that the girl keeps bugging him and saying she wont leave him alone because he has hurt her so much. What does she means with that? I read this on a letter she wrote to him. Why is she so insistent?... (51 words)

My partner is a cheater, but I have become friends with one of these girls, is this a bad idea?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6007 days ago

8 November 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi i would love to hear peoples opinions on this situation. I found out 2 months ago my partner of 7 years who i have been with since i was 17yrs old and i have a daughter with has been cheating on me with multiple people. One of the girls he has been seeing on and off for the ... (257 words)

I didn't go see him to teach him a lesson.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6007 days ago

8 November 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I are in a long distance relationship, and I travel very often to see him. But, this month our schedule were very difficult and he only has one day off. Nevertheless, I was able to arrange my schedule to be with him that one day; but he told not to come ... (281 words)

He is addicted to his computer... HELP

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6006 days ago

8 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Well, I have another problem with my boyfriend. Ever since I have known him he has been into computer games big time. He doesnt work right now so lately (the past for months) all he does from the minute he wakes up to the time he goes to sleep, is play he games. He doesnt like ... (76 words)

Law to have my abusive husband removed.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6007 days ago

8 November 2007 (F) age - is there a law in illinois to have an abusive husband removed from my home?... (15 words)

We're both married, but havent had sex, are we just friends for friendship sake?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5944 days ago

8 November 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been friendly with a man for the past 4 years. We met through work we both did at the time. We have got closer and closer over the years. In the past year, we spend at least one day, (if not both days) of the weekend or every other weekend, and sometimes evenings ... (1235 words)

What does all this mean

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6007 days ago

8 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - i like this guy but he makes it hard for me to tell whether he lives me back. when we were alone and he hugged me, he kissed me lightly on my shoulder and rubbed my back what does this mean?... (41 words)

I've got the hots for my teacher, how can I get him interested, I'm 17 he's in his 30's

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5805 days ago

8 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, Okay here's the deal. I am a junior in highschool. I really really like my history teacher. I'm 17 (legal in the state of Missouri) He is in his early thirties. I'm not just attracted to his looks, he is definately no Brad Pitt, he is just an average guy in his thirties... (220 words)

I have begun feeling for him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6007 days ago

8 November 2007 (F) - I met this guy online webite for teens this summer. We had so much in common. We are huge sports fans and we write for school papers. We are super involved in school and we've been talking ever since. We email very often. He lives about 4 hrs away so I haven't met him. He ... (100 words)

Do long distance relationships work?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6007 days ago

8 November 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Long distance relationships - Do they work? I've met a guy through work who I really like. Only problem is that I haven't met him - he lives about 5 hours away from me. We talk everyday (Monday - Friday) and text each other most evenings. He says he feels the same (and sa... (217 words)

Tips on giving a hickey

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5106 days ago

8 November 2007 (F) - How do you give a hicky? Any tips? I'm in a new relationship and I really like him. I think that the time for this might come up. When he is giveing me one...can I do anything? Thanks so much.... (48 words)

I was a fool I was afraid of love but now I want her back.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5997 days ago

8 November 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and my girlfried had been going out for about three months and she said she loved me. We are both young and I am aware that 'love' at our age can be looked on as unreal. I'd been hurt in a past relationship involving love before and panicked. Before I knew it I'd broken th... (110 words)

I'm unhappy with my in-laws. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6006 days ago

8 November 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I have tried getting along with my in-laws but I cant. I hate them to be very honest. They show favoritism between our children and it is ruining our marriage. I love my husband but he doesn't seem to see anything wrong with what they are doing. They are keeping in touch with ... (114 words)

I'm a girl and I have a moustache - how can I hide it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6007 days ago

8 November 2007 (?) age 26-29 - I am a girl and I have a bit of a moustache above my top lip. I bleach it so noboby can see it. But it worries me because it makes me feel really unfeminine. Also, I was wondering that when you kiss someone, can you feel their moustache? Have you got any tips on what I could ... (63 words)

I don't know why he's being this way.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6007 days ago

8 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Ive been having trouble in school with my ex and its making me feel really low. I broke up with him about 4 months ago as he kissed another girl after a month he wanted to be mates so i said yeah its fine as he was my first for everything, there was a little trouble as he kept ... (200 words)

Is he for real this time? Should I take him back?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6007 days ago

8 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hello everyone! wow i havent asked a question on here in a while so here it goes. okay me and my ex split up about 2 weeks ago. my mom took my phone away so i didnt read any messages but hes been trying to talk to me and asking me to please talk to him and shit...so i did and ... (166 words)

Why is my husband so unaffectionate and secretive?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 1683 days ago

8 November 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - A male or expert perspective on this is highly appreciated. My husband of 5 years is not very passionate or affectionate towards me. He hardly ever gives me any compliments, especially not of the type that would make me feel attractive. He does say he loves me very often, but ... (788 words)

My boyfriend is busy all the time and doesn't have time for me, what shall I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1683 days ago

8 November 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I dont know what to do im gettin really depressed.. my boyfriend is ignoring me a lot lately he likes to spend time with his friends more, he was never like this before.. hes busy playing "playstation" with his friends, and going karting. i feel there is a gap and i dont know ... (114 words)

He went from being obsessed with me to being totally indifferent. Why?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6007 days ago

8 November 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I met a guy (who was single and wished to stay that way, due to a recent break up). Even though he knew he couldn't go out with me he text me loads, called, wanted to see me etc, basically obsessed! This continued for a month or so, then he turned round one day and just didn't ... (119 words)

Should I tell her that her husband is cheating?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5802 days ago

8 November 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - There is this party store right by my house, and I know for a fact that the woman who runs the counter, her husband has been sleeping with this girl I know. I used to be friends with this girl, but I cut her out of my life as she's been acting really skanky and like a low life. ... (380 words)

How do I shut off my feelings for this man?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5998 days ago

8 November 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - My family and another family have been close friends for years. The men are great friends, the kids are great friends, and the other woman and I get along very well. We go on vacations together a couple times a year. The problem is I've fallen in love with the other man. I love ... (132 words)

How do I bring the subject up?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6007 days ago

8 November 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - When you are in love with your best friend and have been for a few years and you know from others that she has said that she feels the same way how do you bring the subject up about telling her how you feel? She doesn't know how i feel by the way its just shes told others a... (93 words)

He watches tranny porn - is he gay or what?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5287 days ago

8 November 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I were in the most loving, respectful and caring relationship for over 3 years. I found he was watching tranny porn and I confronted him on it and said that it didn't bother me (and it didn't - I used to manage an adult movie store) and he lied saying that... (372 words)

Have I got a yeast infection?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5983 days ago

8 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I am a 12 year old girl and I am worried that I have a yeast infection. I am itchy and red "down there" and have a cloudy discharge coming from my vagina. I haven't started my period yet and don't know what is going on. I don't want to go to the doctor because when I was ... (91 words)

My friend's boyfriend is a control freak. What advice can I give her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6007 days ago

8 November 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - ok so I have a friend who has a boyfriend and her boyfriend is telling her who she can and can't talk with she likes him but he has taken it to far from telling her when she can drive and how loong she can stay out and she wants to break up with him but don't know how any ... (72 words)

I don't want to be with my fiance any more. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6007 days ago

8 November 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Going to have to put this briefly... I don't think i want to be with my fiance any more. Have felt this way for a long time. One of the main reasons i am still with him is our 1 year old daughter. Our families are one of the main problems. My mum doesn't like him as she finds... (122 words)

Sex is very sacred for my people and not be done without love or at young age. My bf broke these rules. I can't get over his sexual past.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6007 days ago

8 November 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I'm 20 years old and had my first kiss and sex when i was 18 years old.he told me he's like me. and waiting for the right time, right girl, we didnt even rush things and waited for the "moment" to come. we lasted for 2 years with that guy. but we broke up because we moved... (457 words)

My girlfriend is moving to NZ, we love each other but we think a break will help us. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6006 days ago

8 November 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend is moving to Newzeeland in about 4 - 5 months and we are going to break up. We started off our relationship sexually and have had a good sex life up until recently. Now we really have sex which causes rows and we think going on a break might help. I love her ... (73 words)

I gave up the custody of my grandson as my daughter would have troubled us, the man I was dating has "shut off," how do I stop the the constant heartaches, misery and let downs?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5988 days ago

8 November 2007 (F)

age - I find it hard to ask for help myself though I often help other people, I guess its because Im concerned about being condemmned or made fun of so I hope someone can help. I have had quite a traumatic childhood and adult life so far but things had calmed down a little for abou... (1556 words)

He doesn't want me around when going out with his friends. Am I stupid for being upset by this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6007 days ago

8 November 2007 (F)

- ive been with my guy 4 nearly 8 monthes. His best friends are female and i know he wont cheat on me..he's female mates have boyfriends. We all planned to do something on saturday then he asked me if i would be upset if he just go out with them without me.... am i being stupid ... (92 words)

My doc confirmed it's a sexual dysfunction. It seems that no man wants to be in a relationship with a woman who does not find sex pleasureable. Can anyone advise, please?

This question has 30 answers - newest was posted 5964 days ago

8 November 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm 23 yrs old. Well, right now I feel hurting myself. I don't feel well at all. It seems that no man wants to be in a relationship with a woman who does not find sex pleasureable for her at all. I guess I have a sexual dysfunction since I can't feel anything during ... (221 words)

I'm about to perform in a talentshow at school, how can I control my nerves?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6007 days ago

8 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Near to christmas, i have arranged to perform in a talent show at school wiv my friend! The thing is i am like sooo nervous - we practised tonight and well... It took a very long while for ME to get with the first 3 moves! It's not for another six weeks and i'm absolutely ... (112 words)

My wife's low sex drive is driving me crazy.

This question has 77 answers - newest was posted 3894 days ago

8 November 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - My wife and I have been married for 3 years now. We have a beautiful daughter together and for all intended purposes, our lives are great. But we're not having sex. Well, not nearly enough, if you ask me. We've been together 8 years now, and unfortunately, it's always been... (851 words)

Any tips on how to make-out for the first time??

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4529 days ago

8 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Agony Aunts, I'm an average teen, in an average relationship. This new boyfriend I've been dating for about a month now seems totally into me, and I'm totally into him!!....there is just one problem...I'm scared that when the moment comes to have th first make out session,... (94 words)

How can I be certain this time??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6006 days ago

8 November 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I am engaged to be married in April 2008. I am having second thoughts because I have not known many people who are happily married for long. I am also divorced so I don't want to make a promise I can't keep (for the second time). But does this feeling go away? do one trul... (111 words)

We've been dating for yrs, my kids love him, my parents love him, but I am not attracted to him - but to someone from my past who came back.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6007 days ago

8 November 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been dating a guy for 3 years...my kids love him, my parents love him but really I am not attracted to him...someone from my past has come back into my life and has swept me off my feet....I had doubts about my feelings for my boyfriend before this so I know he isn't the ... (60 words)

I've been such an idiot...i broke up with her and am still madly in love.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6007 days ago

8 November 2007 (M)

- I have been such an idiot. I broke up with my ex-girlfriend of five years because I was basically not taking responsibility for my experience of life - work, family, friends, my own feelings, you name it really. I loved her and I am still in love with her and she loved me ... (291 words)

Is he still into me or just using me for pleasure??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6007 days ago

8 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm sixteen, and been with my boyfriend for two years this sunday. For about a month now, he's sort of not really talking to me, unless I talk about making love to him on our two year anniversary....I know for a fact I'm ready, but I'm scared I'm doing it for the wrong ... (75 words)

Lusting after my married 'virtual friend'.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6007 days ago

8 November 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I've friendship with she for one and 1/2 year, but I'm not for sure about one. I met with she in internet chat and never saw, because she lives in another city. She's married and have babyboy. I've virtual friendship... sometimes I call her. She turn me on, I felt deeply lust. ... (75 words)

Is he shy or just not into me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6007 days ago

8 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - okay, I've been dating my boyfriend for 3 months, and I want to know if he is actually taking this seriously...I'm always the one to call him, which isn't very often, I always propose we go on dates, and I'm always the one to make the first move...is he shy or just not into me?... (55 words)

He doesn't always ejaculate...is it me??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6007 days ago

8 November 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I am a 25 year old girl, I always had a very good and healthy sex life... Here's my problem I have been dating this guy and sometimes when we have sex he does not cum, is this normal? I think he even faked an orgasm once or twice!!!!!. Let me specify that this happens ... (205 words)

The guy I dumped 5 years ago sends me flirty messages. What is going on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6007 days ago

8 November 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I heartlessly dumped a guy 5 years ago, for selfish and shallow reasons, realising almost straight away that it was a huge mistake but not being in the position to do anything about it. Anyways, he recently broke up with the girl he started seeing straight after me (and awful ... (169 words)

My boyfriend's family won't acknowledge me and my boyfriend won't stand up for me. What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6007 days ago

8 November 2007 (F)

age - the man that i have been dating for the last three years is an enabler to his family and also a people pleaser. his family does not acknowledge me. they did acknowledge me until we broke up for a short time back in the summer. they really do not want their father to date ... (381 words)

Should I ignore my feelings for my friend's sake?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6007 days ago

8 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok. I have little bit of a problem. One of my good friends just went thru a bad breakup, and I have kinda been playing matchmaker and hooking him up with a new but very good friend of mine. They are getting to know each other, but they haven't hooked up yet. He's crazy about ... (231 words)

Why am I so jealous?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6007 days ago

8 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 19, I've been with my boyfriend for over a year and a half and we're both madly in love. I just have a serious problem with jealousy! Hes a very good looking man and we were friends before we got together. I saw what he was like before when he was single, and he didn't go... (208 words)

Was it the right decision to break up with her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6007 days ago

8 November 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi everybody! I was in love with someone for the last one year and 8 months. As the time went, our relation become fade due to the followig reasons : She was racist and i tried to change her attituds towards racism, but she could't change and finally our relationship dis... (148 words)

How can I get my friend to speak to me? Did I do something wrong?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6005 days ago

8 November 2007 (F)

- Hi all, would like an opinion on this please. I had a firework party the other night. Inviting all the people that I care about and all my friends. The trouble is that two of them used to date, and although they are really cool about the situation, the new girlfriend is not (... (327 words)

Is the saying "Once a cheater, always a cheater" true?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5919 days ago

8 November 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - Is the saying true? Once a cheater, always a cheater?" Is it possible that the 'cheater' simply hasn't found the right one, or is it a flawed gene or something? Can a married man (for instance) find love outside his marriage and maintain that he is not a cheat to not only the ... (89 words)

I've realised how much I want to be with her and that I wasnt dealing with our problems...but she thinks we are over.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5999 days ago

8 November 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi my girlfriend and I have been together for almost a year and it's been great, we both love each other very much. However over the last say 2 months we have had a tendancy to have an argument about something pretty silly then get angry at each other. It gradually became worse ... (1619 words)

Is it possible to find somebody who will always be romantic??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6007 days ago

8 November 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Is it possible to find someone that will always be romantic? My boyfriend used to do romantic things for me and he doesn’t anymore. I like to be romanced, and by romanced I mean receiving small little gestures such as cuddling, unexpected kisses, random notes, and what not. ... (77 words)

He keeps photos of him and his ex in a special box and doesn't want to throw them out but I don't like this...am I being unreasonable??

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5967 days ago

8 November 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I got married in June this year to my gorgeous man who I have been seeing for 5 years. My problem is this ... he has photos of an old girlfriend in a special box including photos of them kissing and he is reluctant to throw them out ... I dont think this is acceptable. Am I ... (60 words)

Any suggestions what may have happened to my missing friend??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6007 days ago

8 November 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - A couple of years ago I had an extremely complicated relationship with my best friend. It ended not too long after it started and we've spent the last two years getting back to the way we were before we dated and wrecked our friendship. It's only recently that I've truly felt ... (246 words)

My bf thinks he loves me but the way we started makes me feel worthless.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6007 days ago

8 November 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfreind thinks that he loves me, the problem is that 1, he has never been in a real relationship before and i think hes just getting confused and thinks its more than it is and 2, the way we started makes me feel like im worthless. What do i do?... (51 words)

He says he didnt take my virginity but I was in pain...am I still a virgin?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6007 days ago

8 November 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - hey i'm a 19 years of age my b.f and i were trying to have sex bt didn't acually go through with it because i was scared,and he saud he didn't break my virginity is this true because when he was about to put his thing i felt pain and asked him to stop he said it didn't even get ... (69 words)

We're married with kids; I threatened to leave if he doesn't stop drinking. Please help.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6006 days ago

8 November 2007 (F)

age - We have been married for 14 years and have 2 girls aged 13 and 16 years. My husband works hard and is a good provider, our problem is the drink, he never used to drink and drive but lately he has taken to having a few pints with mates after a day's work. He says it's only 2 but ... (175 words)

I speak to my bf on the phone but I don't want to sound depressed all the time because of the distance. Suggestions to make this easier?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6007 days ago

8 November 2007 (F)

- Hi My boyfriend has been sent away for work for a few months. We have recently just moved in together and I am totally missing him at the moment.. I have this really bad longing for him and he's only been gone a week. We speak to each other all the time on the phone but I ... (84 words)

He's even ignoring our kids to spend time upstairs ranting in his room, about everything. This is his constant behaviour. How do I deal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6006 days ago

8 November 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been married to my husband for a month now, and things have been great so far... until now. We've got a three-year-old daughter and a four-year-old son. However, recently my husband's changed. He's began ranting about everything and anything, and doesn't even spend time ... (282 words)

I lack confidence and just can't seem to connect...any advice??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6001 days ago

8 November 2007 (M)

- I'm 20 and i have never had sex. I don't want a one night stand after an incident over the summer where one of my friends did it with a 14 year old (after she said she was 16) yet I can't through a relationship as I'm too socially unconfident around women and I find it hard to ... (119 words)

During the break-up I saw a side of him that I didn't like/forget. He just proposed now. How to find the strength to walk away?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6007 days ago

8 November 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I am so confused. I am in love with someone that hurt me. He broke up with me and now he is back and wants to work things out. I love him so much but during the break-up I saw a side to him that I didn't like and could possibly never forget. Should I just leave him and if so ... (75 words)

Could it be because I am overweight or are there other reasons why he doesn't want to have sex? I feel terrible.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6007 days ago

8 November 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been dating my boyfriend for almost a year now. We have never really done anything except kiss because i like to always take things slow. I love him and i want to make love to him. I suggested it to him a few times and he said he does not want to have sex with me. This ... (120 words)

I broke up with her, feeling lust for other girls. I care for her, but don't actually know what I want. Your opinions?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6008 days ago

8 November 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, i got a question on wether i did the right thing, or i dont know what. iv been friends with this girl for 3 years, sleeping with her for the past 6 months, and dating her for the past 2 months. My first relationship ever. We have fun with each other, we laugh lots it was ... (190 words)

Any tips on overcoming my fear and gaining confidence with guys?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6005 days ago

8 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I have never kissed a guy, I am so scared and cant get myself to just do it. Any tips on overcoming my fear and gaining confidence with guys? Thanx... (36 words)

Worried about pubic hair and a guy's reaction to it. Options to shave?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4021 days ago

8 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 16, I was wondering if guys expect you to have no pubic hair?? If they do what are good ways to do this? I have tried to shave but my hair is too thick and it does not work. I do not want to go to a salon or wax it myself? any other options. I am really scared of wha... (104 words)

I think my boyfriend is cheating

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6006 days ago

8 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I think my boyfriend is cheating. well all the sign are there,he doesnt call everyday as he used to,he send people he doent know sweet sms/mms.he is rude on the phone when i talk to him,we rarely see eah other and he has changed his style of kissing. when i confronted himb ... (85 words)

Bf says stress and fatigue has him confused about everything in his life, including our relationship - and claimed it's only a pause. Should I ignore his calls meanwhile?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6007 days ago

8 November 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend recently asked for a break because he says stress and fatigue has him confused about everything in his life, including our relationship. I asked whether or not he was just trying to ease his way into a break uo but he claims that he doesn't want one, just some ... (232 words)

Is this normal? About ejaculation.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6003 days ago

8 November 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - My penis starts leaking semen at the time of arousal. Is this normal? and i also ejaculate within few seconds ... (20 words)

Is it wrong to date a younger guy?

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8 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I like this guy for long time. We have been friends for almost 4 years and i seem to have not lost interest in him. I have tried so hard to stop liking him because he is a year younger than me but it's really hard. I even dated other guys to try and eliminate the feelings ... (79 words)

Doctors say my husband and I are fertile and we've been trying to conceive for 3 yrs now. Suggestions, pills?

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8 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi ladies this is a more of a question for you and guys if you can give advice that would be ok too. Well i am 18 years old the first time i have got my period was when i was 10. But i have irregular periods. i have been to doctors after doctors and all they do is put me on ... (145 words)

He took me to dinner, introduced me to his parents, offered me presents, and... said a gf would interfer with his plans. Mixed signals.

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8 November 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I met this guy a couple months ago. My friend liked him first because she just broke up with her bf, but he never returned her calls. My gals and his guys went on a trip and ever since then, we've talked everyday...either conversing through text or actually on the phone. He ... (193 words)

Should I move accross the US or not

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8 November 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex boyfriend and I had been together off and on throughout college, but drugs often found their way between us. We are both at fault. At graduation, we spent on last night together and then I flew back to Los Angeles and it was over. We kept in contact lightly, but he ... (181 words)

What's going wrong.

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8 November 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm a laid-back guy. When I go to high school in the morning I sit with all girls in the cafeteria before 1st class. I'm nice and I try to help people, and I'm wondering why I'm always the "nice" guy. All my friends are pairing up. It's just frustrating, and my dad is ... (80 words)

How to get him to start having sex with me again

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8 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - So my boyfriend and I have been dating for almost four years now. In the beginning we would have sex all the time, but for the last year and a half he doesnt want to. He would rather look up porn and masterbate instead. How do i get him to stop doing that and start having sex ... (64 words)

How can I be strong and stay away from him?

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8 November 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - For the past 2 years i was dating a loser. The First 6 months were heaven! after that things slowly deteriorated, in the 2nd year i knew i had to get out of this relationship. I lost touch with my family and friends one by one who decided they hated him. He continually cut ... (154 words)

She doesn't know if she loves me

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8 November 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - Can anyone help me I've been with my partner for 4 years now we have lived together with her 2 kids aged 16 and 17 for 3 1/2 years we have made a house a lovely home we've been on lots of hoildays as a family with our friends and on or own,most days i drive her to work most ... (553 words)

Future ruining Present

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8 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm really concerned. My boyfriend and I have been together for a while, and if I could properly define love, this would be it. We're really great together. It's just, lately something's been bothering me. He's concerned about the odds of us staying together. He's my first ... (210 words)

Is it emotional abuse

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8 November 2007 (F) - Is it emotional abuse if someone makes you feel bad when you don't smoke or drink? Then, they turn it around and say that you're the one making a big deal out of nothing, when in fact they just can't take no for an answer?... (45 words)

Can someone explain the situation I'm in?? She won't commit!

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8 November 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - About seven months ago, a girl that I had feelings for back in 99' found me on the internet. when i was talking to her she was about to end her relationship of six years for obvious reasons and she has three kids. our talks over the first month or so developed into feelings on ... (291 words)

Why is he afraid?

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8 November 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I really need some help with this one. I have been with my lover for about 12 years now. We were both in relationships when we met and began our affair. Almost 2 years into our relationship I left my relationship. He is still in his (for the child). I recently told him that I ... (231 words)

How to get pictures back without being harsh

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8 November 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - im fed up with my parents mingling in my life.My mom, especially has that habit of controlling and mingling constantly,I just feel her like some Dictator hanging over my head.Ive discovered that she has taken all the photos of my album from my late-sister and found the album ... (120 words)

Reason to stay in the relationship

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8 November 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Say you were with a girl who did not find penetration pleasureable by preference or had a sexual dysfunction that prevented sex from being satisfying.could you stay in a relationship where you only had oral sex??... (37 words)

How to get mom's trust.

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8 November 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - How do you get my mum to let my new girlfriend up into my bedroom without being all suspicious of us? even if we just wanna be alone to talk? thnx... (31 words)

He financially raped me, what to do?

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8 November 2007 (F)

- about 6 months ago i went against all the advice of my friends and family and paid my then boyfriends phone bill for him. he said it was really high that month and he couldnt afford it so since i have more money than him, could i pay it off for him. i loved him and i agreed. ... (280 words)

Why do they seem interested again?

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8 November 2007 (F)

- Why is it when you are really over a guy after a breakup and are relaxed around them and do not care any more that they seem to be interested again?... (31 words)

I don't tell friends my secrets.

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8 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - i no this is an odd question but im a private person and hardly tell my friends any of my secrets or problems is this a bad thing??? ... (28 words)

X mas present ideas for a 17 year old boy.

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8 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - can anyone suggest some xmas present ideas for a 17yr old guy friend of mine... (15 words)

How to get rid of the sicky feeling when your nervous?

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8 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - how can you get rid of a sicky feeling wen your nervous? im a shy girl and really like this guy who is very outgoing and he likes me to but the thing is i get so nervous around him and i find it easier to talk to him via txt. how can i change this?... (56 words)

Is my ex being unneccessarily awkward or is he hiding his emotions?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6006 days ago

8 November 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Am I being the immature one? My ex and I recently got our security deposit back from our apartment - actually, it came to me, but in both of our names. THat means that we both have to sign the check in order to get it cashed. Anyway, we haven't spoken in like 2 months, so I r... (172 words)

Hints as to tell someone is attracted to you

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8 November 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - How can you tell if someone is interested in you......as in more than just mates??? What should a person lookout for??? Please offer any serious contributions...... (31 words)

Seen a girl's profile online, then saw her briefly in person. How should I approach the situation?

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8 November 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi Have a slightly odd question... I'm at university, and once I signed up to the uni dating website kinda for a laugh with some mates, but then checked out the profiles and there was 1 girl i really the profile for. I then saw her around my department at un... (177 words)

Kissed the guy of my affections, but he doesn't seem to remember!

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8 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - yeah I like this guy alot and for a long time. Yet he is a couple of years older. My parents and I dont care about age difference as long as it isnt like 15 yrs. But anyways, I was at this party Monday night and we were kissing. Then the next day he asked his friend what all ... (175 words)

Vengeful ex-boss is potentially ruining my career.

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8 November 2007 (F) age 41-50 - I live in a USA territory. I quit this terrible six month job a year and a half ago because of a very disrespectful and verbal abusive woman boss, who called herself christian by the way. She felt so rejected when I quit the job she promised me she wouldn't give any good ... (159 words)

I feel I should give up on him and move on.

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8 November 2007 (F)

- Hmm, this is hard to write down because I can't quite get my head around it. The thing is the guy I am with has four children of his own and 2 of his late wifes where as I don't have any I am 18 years old and he is 17 years older than I am. His oldest child is 15 so only 3 yea... (197 words)