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writes:i am 17 years old and i have very very small breast. i think I'm a double AA or something. the thing is i'm not the skinniest person, so it look really weird when i am naked. i am thinking about getting breast implants. but honestly, i am paranoid. i can't even think of doing anything with a guy b/c of my breast. i wear the biggest padded bra which makes my tits look like a c cup. now if i ever get into a relationship with a guy i am scared that he would leave me because of this issue. my self-confidence is verylow b/c of this. i really hate it. i am really considering breast implants. but i am scared.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 February 2008): dont be scared! im 17, and i have the same situation, i am desperate for it too! but im going to wait till im 18! 1. to save for it. 2.and in case i grow anymore! (which i highly doubt!)and know people are proberly saying "u should be happy with what uv got" and to be quite frank it pisses me off because we arnt happy n i know i neva will be because i have 'zilch' confidence due to my tiny breasts!but advise to you is THINK about it a lot first and research on surgerys to make sure u get the best! and dont go over the top and get enormous ones that arnt in proportion with your body!best of luck :D x
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reader, ambercich  +, writes (13 November 2007):
If you choose to get them becase of societys "IDEA OF BEAUTY" then NO WAY i feel society (such as the magazines and some tv shows) try to make you feel if your not skinny and big breasted your not normal???? whats up with that? but if your doing it for you becuase you really want to and it will make you happy i mean spend some time researching it along with checking up on DRs and so on i mean if you find one that cheap i wouldnt take a bargin on surgery but my gf spent 10000 on hers and everything went great so if your willing to spend that much to make you feel better its your body. GOOD luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 November 2007): Yeah. I would go ahead and get implants if I were you. My sister had the same problem. Tiny breasts. She was embarrassed and very self conscious. So she got breast implants. And her self confidence soared.
Just do your research so that you pick a good doctor. And try to get a size that is PROPORTIONAL to your body. So that it looks natural.
P.S. I am not a fan of surgery, especially not at such a young age. I believe in natural beauty. But I also understand that there are certain cases where it really could make a huge difference on your self esteem. I knew a girl in high school who had her breasts reduced. And another girl who had a nose job. But they both felt REALLY self conscious. So in that case it is ok. I hope it works out for you and good luck. But yeah go for it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 November 2007): i aggree give it a bit of time
but if they dont come over time then you should get breast implants, not to please anyone else, but to please youself and make yourself feel more confident.
if you do get them get natural looking ones e.g. C or D cup dont go OTT
p.s big boobs arent great i hate mine id do anything to be a AA sometimes!
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reader, elliebellie  +, writes (12 November 2007):
guys and breasts are like girls with penises. on the outside when theyre with all their mates theyll talk about big boobed girls and everything. its all just fantasies. when it comes down to it guys are more ineterested in a girl personality than how big their breasts are. if you had the perfect guy would you dump him becuase his penis was too small? its that kind of situation. hope this helps. and remember you are beautiful no matter what they say.
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ellie
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reader, Star_07  +, writes (12 November 2007):
 I'd say work on your confidence issues first. How you feel about your inner self is more important than your appearances. I don't think you should worry about what a guy might think of you, when it comes to your size. If someone truely loves you for who you are, a thing like cup size isnt going to make a difference. Also, you arent quiete done developing either, you won't get your full figure until you are in your 20's. Once you find out who you are, how special you are, and get your self-esteem where it should be, then you can re-evaluate this. If getting breast implants will make you feel better about yourself and your confidence issues have been resolved, then it might be a realistic option.
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reader, cd206 +, writes (12 November 2007):
 I was EXACTLY like you at 17. I was a british size 12 which i think is an american 8(?) and had AA breasts. A few years on, roughly by the time I was 20 I was up to C cups. Give it a bit of time and worry about it if it still bothers you when you're a bit older but honestly, even people I know my age now who aren't that big don't care as much now as they did at your age. Surgery is a HUGE physical and financial strain. Give it some time and see how things go.
CD
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