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Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

Hi alcoholic ex is back on the scene, she's one week sober, now he thinks he wants her back, should I just dump him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 164 days ago

29 November 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - For the past month I've been dating a man who was once in a relationship w/an alcoholic. the past week she has contacted him, claiming to be sober for one ENTIRE week. I don't know what her intentions are, but he says that now he feels torn between her and me. I understand how ... (217 words)

I cant help screaming when my man and I have sex, but it wakes the old lady next door, I cant help it though, is this normal?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 163 days ago

29 November 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I like to scream when I come. My boyfriend asks me not to make too much noise because there is an elderly lady living next door. Not long his neighbour complains about it. I feel embarassing and bad to wake her because we always make love after midnight. My boyfriend covers ... (84 words)

How long will a "cheap" treadmill last?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 164 days ago

29 November 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - I was just wondering, how long will a fold up cheap, $100 treadmill last if I use it for maybe two or three hours a day? Will it get worn out really quickly? I need to know as my last on broke that was expensive and I need a new one, but my parents say that they won't pay out ... (65 words)

A good place for your "first time" ? Suggestions, please.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 162 days ago

29 November 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - Where would you say is a good place to have sex for the first time for both you and your partner? and who esle would be around you? e.g. in a house parents etc.Suggestions, please.... (35 words)

I think I may be pregnant. When I have my period it is barely even a full day. Help, please.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 163 days ago

29 November 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - i still have a feeling im pregnant. and when i have my period its barely even a full day. i havnt taken a pregnancy test yet. and i was hinting to my mom about pregnancy and she told me if i was pregnant she would kill me.. hm. this time my name isn't anonymous so you can ... (92 words)

Worried about the values I transmit to my daugther. Dating several men, having sex. Friends say it's normal after my divorce?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 163 days ago

29 November 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - i'm a 43 years old mother of 2, i just had a divorce after 19 years of marriage. it took me a while to get back to dating again and when i did the problem started. i have sex a lot and with more than just one guy. my friends told me that it's normal after a divorce because ... (108 words)

Is it true that most men need to sleep with various women? Is "it was just sex" just an excuse? Or is there actually a connection?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 151 days ago

29 November 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - is it true that most men need to sleep with various women? is it possible for a man to "love" a woman but cheat on her constantly and it mean nothing? when men say "its just sex" is there really a connection. Is this true or just intended to make it (sound) ok to cheat. for i ... (75 words)

This shy guy makes me weak at the knees, how do I tell him I like him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 118 days ago

29 November 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - Theres this guy who I really really like and I've fallen for him big time! He's quite shy and never really had a proper girlfriend. I really want something to happen with him, we get on really well. We've been texting non-stop for the past month or so and I saw him over the ... (142 words)

One day she refuses my invitation, next he kisses me. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 162 days ago

29 November 2007 (M)

age 13-15 - I am a 13 and i love this girl but when i asked her out she said no and i felt like i wonted to die but today in the hall she KISSED me and now i am all confused what should i do? ... (47 words)

Guys, can you be normal friends with a girl you find attractive, even though a relationship would not be possible?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 163 days ago

29 November 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - Guys: Can you be normal friends with a girl you find hot and wish you could sleep with, but know nothing can happen? Would you hang around and continue being 'friends', even though you never saw eachother out and only got on really well when being flirty... Or ... (120 words)

We have a child and live together, and he wants to experience extra-relationship sex before we setlle down - only with my approval. Is this OK?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 164 days ago

29 November 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - I have been with my love for almost 5 years. we have a child and live together. As all relationships experience we have our ups and downsbut always manage to realize what we have. We are both really young. He has just told me he wants to sleep with other women. That it would ... (192 words)

I would not like my partner to feel pressurised if I (curiously) ask him about wanting a baby!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 164 days ago

29 November 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - hey guys, Right here is goes, how can you tell if your boyfriend wants a baby?. my boyfriend is 18, far tooo young i know but i keep gettin the feeling that he wants us to have a baby. can men get broody too? is it normal at this age? i dont really want to speak to him about it... (89 words)

How do I avoid losing my marriage for being a bad stepmother?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 39 days ago

29 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - my marriage is on the brink because i dont get along with my 9 and 10 year old stepkids. i have been married for over 3 years. i love my husband and dont want to lose him. i dont get along with his ex and am having a hard time with the kids. everyone feels like they are... (120 words)

Could resting her head on my shoulder be a sign she likes me??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 164 days ago

29 November 2007 (M)

age 16-17 - Hi there guys, SO at work there is this beautiful girl. Not only is she gorgeous on the outside but she has a heart of gold and an amzing perosnality, she is so vibrant and full of life. I love working with her, she makes work fun and i love it. She lives near me aswell w... (190 words)

I really like him but he's a bit of a "whore!"

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 164 days ago

29 November 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - I LOVE this guy, but he's a bit of a whore but that's his personality. He's kinda camp but he's deffo not gay. I really like him, I have no idea if he knows or not but we do have the occasional flirt and a kiss. I have no idea what to do help pleaseee!... (55 words)

How can I stop being so overprotective??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 164 days ago

29 November 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - My girl says i'm too overprotective of her, can my condition be corrected?... (13 words)

Help me about natural life source???!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 164 days ago

29 November 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - Hey I am in need of a bit of help I am staying on till 6th year but I am in 5th year, all my friends have had sexual intercourse and done lots of other things with boys and their bits and bobs. I am scared of mostly the disgustingness of a guys p****s I feel ashamed th... (118 words)

Should I just completely walk away??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 164 days ago

29 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I started dating a man last Oct (2006) that I had been a work acquaintance of for 2 years. He was going through a divorce when we started dating. We took things slowly in the beginning and then after about 3 months he told me he loved me and wanted to spend the rest of his life ... (355 words)

How can I convince her it wouldnt be a mistake??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 164 days ago

29 November 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - Hey! here's my question... i been friends with a girl a long time... about 5years now. Over the last couple of months I have started to like her as more than a friend. So i plucked up the confidence to just find out if she liked me back in that way...she said yeh she does and... (134 words)

What defines a weak person??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 164 days ago

29 November 2007 (M)

- What is defined as a weak person? I heard somene say it was someone who didn't stand by their opinion. I do stand by my opinion most of the time but it's hard when everyone doesn't agree with you but the other person and no one is on your side and you start to wonder if you are ... (69 words)

I cheated and we are seeing a counsellor but what do we do till then??

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 161 days ago

29 November 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - I recently cheated on my husband. We have been talking about it for a couple of days and have an appointment to meet with a counsellor, but not for another week. What do we until then?... (36 words)

How will I know if this relationship is at the end of the road??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 164 days ago

29 November 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm trying to find out whether I'll regret ending my relationship (again!). My partner and I split up in February - this year after been seeing each other for just over 4 years although we didn't live together or anything. We each have children from previous relationships and ... (314 words)

Should I be worried that I do not have pubic hair yet?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 157 days ago

29 November 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - Hi I'm 18 but my penis hasn't grown and i don't have any hair around it and i haven't started shaving. my voice has broken but because of all this im a bit self concious about myself and ive never had a girlfriend or even kissed a girl. do you have any advice for me?... (58 words)

Will I ever be pregnant?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 164 days ago

29 November 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - my boyfriend and i have been trying to have a baby for the past year. its not him its me. he has two other children. is there a chance i will ever be pregnant? i hope so...... (37 words)

What can I do to change the fact I always tend to attract girls who cheat, fight, party, love dramas...?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 164 days ago

29 November 2007 (M)

age 16-17 - I'm wondering if anyone here can answer this question for me, or atleast attempt to. I'm wondering what it is about me that attracts a certain type of girl. I tend to attract girls who cheat, fight, party, and are in lvoe with drama. For the most part the girls I attract... (126 words)

Is this Period or Spotting? I just missed 4 days on the pill and am concerned about my body.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 164 days ago

29 November 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - I'm taking birth control for about 2 months now. I'm in the process of moving and starting a new job, and I ended up missing 4 days on the pill. I did what the medication's webpage told me to do (im on ortho-trycyclin lo) and threw out hte pack and started the next one. Well ... (152 words)

Why did he break up if he says he still fancies me? Could it be related to his home problems and self-confidence issues?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 164 days ago

29 November 2007 (F) age 18-21 - my boyfriend dumped me but not because he doesnt fancy me which confused me more. i asked him if he was dumping me and said not in so many words but kind of yes, that he needed some time to be single and he doesnt want a girlfriend right now but then a week ago he was telling ... (195 words)

Is it normal?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 164 days ago

29 November 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - Is it normal for couples to put up a poster of a woman in a bikini on their bedroom wall?... (20 words)

Why did he ask me to buy him pills to increase his penis size precisely now that he is out of town for months? Does he want to impress another woman?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 164 days ago

29 November 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband is out of our state for work and i wont be able to see him for 5 more months. Last week he ask me if i could buy him pills to increase his penis size. He said that he knows I have told him many times that his size is great for me, but he said that he wants to do it ... (132 words)

I have a fetish which I am afraid will annoy her: I need her feet to arouse me in any sexual activity.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 163 days ago

29 November 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - I have been with my girlfriend on and off for the past few years..I have had a foot fetish for as long as i can remember and i told her about it a few months ago. She didn't mind it, in fact she liked it. But it's a problem because I need her feet to arouse me in any sexual ... (95 words)

Is it too soon to be thinking about sex? I'm 16.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 164 days ago

29 November 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - hi i'm 16 and in the next year or two i'd like to lose my virginity but i don't know what it's like or anything. any advice? will it hurt? is it too soon to be thinking about? thx xxxx... (46 words)

Can anybody give me advice to improve my dating skills??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 164 days ago

29 November 2007 (M)

- I am nearly 21 and I have never in my entire life had a girlfriend. I always see couples being happy around each other, I have tried, but barely got passed the dating phase with girls. I think my failure is largely due to my problems. When I was younger, I was more talky bu... (234 words)

My wife has given me permission to have a sex buddy....is it a bad idea??

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 37 days ago

29 November 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - My 46 year old wife is going through the menopause and has lost her sex drive to the point she has no desire for me or any other man on earth. I asked her to use her hand or to give me oral sex and she refused. She told me to find a woman that is willing to have sex with me ... (209 words)

I don't want to mess things up with my gf but how can I tell if she fancies me??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 164 days ago

29 November 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - I have got this girl at work and people say she fancies me but i think we're just friends. She always talks to me and i have fun talking to her and i quite like her but she has a bf who she does say she is having bad times with. The relationship is crashing (but i dont bel... (147 words)

She thinks a sexy joke I had with my friend means I cheated but she dumped me and I miss her so much.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 163 days ago

29 November 2007 (M)

age 16-17 - Hi, I recently broke up with my girlfriend of since may 6th 2006. I love her so much, and she loved me so much. She broke up with me because i had this joke with one of my friends who is a girl, which was rather sexy. She took it as i cheated on her and now we are completel... (199 words)

Is he wrong to say no??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 164 days ago

29 November 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I love to have sex when I have my period but my boyfriend finds it messy and he says he cant feel it as there is no friction. I am not wanting it when I was on fast. I think he should not say no. Please advise.... (50 words)

Could my hormone level be low or are the positive pregancy tests right???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 163 days ago

29 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Can you still be pregnant if a doctor says your pregnancy test is very light and that maybe it's because your hormone level is low even if your home pregnancy test came back positive 3 times?... (36 words)

I had a crush on my teacher and we are still in contact now that I am at Uni

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 158 days ago

29 November 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - I had a crush on a teacher for 5 years at secondary school. Am now at university and we are still in contact, texting and emailing. What should i do? People used to joke about us and they still ask me how she is and things. I think i love her, she offered me to go training with ... (68 words)

Is it gay to watch gay porn?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 42 days ago

29 November 2007 (M)

age 26-29 - is it gay to watch gay porn... (7 words)

Poll question. How old were you when you lost your virginity?

This question has 36 answers - newest was posted 70 days ago

29 November 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - Hey would like to know how old were you when you lost your virginity and also did you tell your parents about it or not till later? How were you sure it was the right person?... (36 words)

When a couple gets engaged, do they each buy an engagement ring? Or just the boy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 125 days ago

29 November 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - I have a question relating to "marriage/engagement. When a couple get's engaged, are they both supposed to buy an engagement ring? Or does the boyfriend just buy an engagement ring?... (30 words)

Why is he like this towards me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 158 days ago

29 November 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - I have been with my boyfriend for about two months now, but i already know that this is real love, none of my other relationships felt this way. But sometimes my boyfriend makes me feel a bit..odd i guess. He'll say hows much he loves me constantly and how much he misses me ... (564 words)

A guy told me he loved me online and I said I loved him, too. But I dont! We barely even know each other!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 149 days ago

29 November 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - i need help. there is this guy at school that likes me. he came on msn and hes like i love you.... stuff like that.then hes like you dont like me, dont talk to me. bye i did a stupid thing and told him i loved him then hes like you wanna go out and i said YES! but i dont kno... (74 words)

I want to try sex with a girl

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 164 days ago

29 November 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - I have had a series of bad relationships with guys,im currently on my own...and ive decided i want to try sex with a girl!. I have always knew i was a bit bi sexual, and i had an encounter years ago with a mate, but i was young. I am wondering what it would be like. I hate lad... (94 words)

My boyfriend got a lapdance from one of his former friends

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 164 days ago

29 November 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - Hi. A little while after me and my boyfriend had begun talking, he got a lapdance from one of his former friends.Yea, she strips for a living and she has like 5 kids. He blames it on the fact that they were all drunk.But he did have the guts to admit this to me.The night that ... (134 words)

I am trying to change the kind of guy I go out with and am not finding what I am looking for

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 164 days ago

29 November 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - I need to know if im abnormal for getting more attracted to guys with a bit of edge? It puts me off if a guy is too over kind, you know you can do anything and theylle be there... I want them to be unpredictable, I want to be kept on my toes. It just makes me want them mor... (142 words)

My boyfriend wants me to sleep with other guys to 'learn new tricks'. Isnt this totally off the wall?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 163 days ago

29 November 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - i was a virgin when i met my boyfriend so hes the only guy i have ever slept with, given a BJ to, etc, etc. we have been together for nearly 4 years but he ended it the other day and said that he wanted to go on a break and that he wanted me to go out and sleep with other... (180 words)

I am worried my much older boyfriend will kick it during sex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 164 days ago

29 November 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I married my husband 10 years my senior for his money. I was happy in it because of the money. Years later I realised money is not everything and I was really not happy in it. I've just divorced him and met this man 20 years my senior. It's the first time in my life I feel ... (108 words)

How do I stand on my own two feet?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 164 days ago

29 November 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I am divorcing my husband at the moment. It is stressful. I am a housewife since I've married my husband 20 years ago. I have to look for job and stand on my own two feet now. I have no work history or any qualification to fall back on. I met this much older man and I just ... (95 words)

What do you think of wishing my ex a happy birthday by text?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 163 days ago

29 November 2007 (M)

age 22-25 - hey, It is my ex-girlfriend's birthday next week, and was just wondering if it would be a good idea to send a text wishing her well. We're not talking, we didn't really fall out as such but then we didn't really end on good terms, so not sure if it would seem like i'm k... (83 words)

I fantisize about other women and cant seem to have sex with my wife. How can I change this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 94 days ago

29 November 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm married, happily, and love my wife, but our sex life has fallen off, and I find that when I fantasize about sex it's not with her, and then when we get a chance to make love, I get ED troubles. How can I bring my fantasy sex life more to do with her and us? ... (59 words)

I've stopped going to work to please my girlfriend, and now I don't think I want to work anymore

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 164 days ago

29 November 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - This question is a little different to whats normally on here but I hope someone can still help me. The mess im in started a few weeks ago, I work in a nightclub and I work quite a few hours a week, and basically my girlfriend got really annoyed because she says I dont spend al... (158 words)

Should I leave it alone?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 164 days ago

29 November 2007 (M)

age 13-15 - I am 13 and i was wondering what to do I asked out this girl i realy like i mean i love her but she said no and that day i felt like i wanted to die but we get teased for it and i still love her. How or what should i do or should i leave it alone?... (61 words)

The big question is How do I get her back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 164 days ago

29 November 2007 (M)

age 22-25 - Hi there I have recently been dumped by my first "true love". We are both 22 and I am still a virgin. The question is how do I get her back. My ex and I started going out 3 months ago and we saw each other a lot, everything was great apart from that we are both quite shy. ... (413 words)

My boyfriend is a 'Rent Boy' - what should I feel about it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 164 days ago

29 November 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - my boyfriend of 4 months has recently just admitted to me that hes been cheating on me with another man and hes been getting paid for it and now i dont know what to think or feel please help... (39 words)

Is she lying to me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 160 days ago

29 November 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, I met my girlfriend before 1 year and 6 months and i love her so much, in the begining we used to see each other every two weeks. during the first year i am helping her financily all the time and she used to see me when i have to give her the money. now it is very hard ... (196 words)

Will wearing a bra 24/7 stunt my growth?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 135 days ago

29 November 2007 (F)

- i ALWAYS wear a bra. Even in bed. Underwired and padded. Will this stop my growth? Thanks... (17 words)

I don't want to wait 5 years. Is there any future in this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 164 days ago

29 November 2007 (M)

age 26-29 - my gf is 23 and live far away from me in brazil.we are together 2 years now.the problem is that she never wants to speak about our future and the probability to live one day in my country (we are agree that it would be difficult for me to work in brazil). she always tells me... (233 words)

What if I get it wrong?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 164 days ago

29 November 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - I am a virgin and i really like this guy and i want to make the move on him but i am just scared becuase i don't know what i am doing and what if i am going to do it wrong, i would feel stupid.... (46 words)

Why am I still waiting around for her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 163 days ago

29 November 2007 (M)

age 16-17 - Well this is my first help on here... i came on here to try and see what i can do because im lost at the moment. im 17 and broke up with my long term girlfriend 6 months ago, we were together for nearly 2 years and have a 8 month old son together. i thought i was over her for... (266 words)

Is it a good idea to 'get it out of his system'?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 164 days ago

29 November 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for 6 years. We are best friends first then boyfriend and girlfriend. The number one rule in the relationship is brutal honesty. We are currently taking a break because he is depressed because of work reasons and because of other personal ... (221 words)

Have I sacrificed too much, too soon?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 164 days ago

29 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - In August of this year I moved to the USA from Great Britain to marry the man I loved. We were wed only 5 weeks ago however I had serious doubts even before the wedding but felt I could not back out as my family had all paid for their trips over and they are quite short of ... (588 words)

I want to leave him but I haven't got the heart to upset him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 164 days ago

29 November 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - We have been togeather 28 years. He's been different the past 2 years. Says there is no other woman,But he stopped sex, every thing i say is wrong. If i try to talk to him he calls it an argument. Still wants to controll my every thought and actions. And we live apart because i ... (136 words)

Shall I pay my own way or not?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 164 days ago

29 November 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - I have started dating this guy and we have been dating for about a month and I havent ever really dated before. i was wondering if i should let him pay everytime we go out or should i offer to pay or how that works!?... ... (45 words)

Is he still stuck on me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 165 days ago

29 November 2007 (F) - Okay, I haven't spoken to my ex in 3 weeks, and he just texted me saying that I don't have to text him back but that he wishes me well. I broke up with him, and after we broke up he kept calling and texting and emailing me even though I told him not to. I broke up with him ... (270 words)

How do I hide my 'Camel Toe'?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 164 days ago

29 November 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - i recently noticed that my vagina is fat i can't wear shirts up to my waist cause it looks to big is there anything you can suggest please... (28 words)

How can I get over this whole thing?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 164 days ago

29 November 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - My boyfriend and I have been officially together for a year now, but we have been seeing each other for 2 years. He cheated on me a few months after we made it official. He slept with her once, but they usually met twice or three times in a week. He's afraid to get caught so ... (320 words)

He won't see me unless my parents agree. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 164 days ago

29 November 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - I'm 15 and i fell in love with a 21 year old. He loves me for me and doesn't want sex. I want so badly to be with him. I've tried talking to my mom about the situation, but she said no about it being okay to see each other. We can wait until I'm 18 but we've been fighting a lot ... (121 words)

Was she a real friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 164 days ago

29 November 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - there is this chick that i use to be friends with, we are not friends now as she lies to make her self look good, and she use to make me feel like 2 cm tall, as she would tell every one my sercrets, and she was a slut!! to say the least we are not friends any more but i jus... (74 words)

Is it possible to be 'just friends' now?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 164 days ago

29 November 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - still with my girlfriend after a row and a lot of discussion about our future together. just wondering who thinks its possible to be just friends after an intimate relationship? i dont think it is. but my girlfriend does. i dont think its possible because i couldnt be with ... (71 words)

How do I keep this relationship alive?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 164 days ago

29 November 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Any suggestions on keeping an 8-month relationship from becoming "boringly comfortable"? * cliff notes version: **been together 8 months, known eachother for 16mo. ** Age gap relationship, I'm older ** everything is still good (no fights or drama) ** great communicatio... (70 words)

I still have feelings for him, but should I wait?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 164 days ago

29 November 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - my ex boyfriend, says that he still loves me and that he will want to get back with me in a couple of months again becuse he thinks that we will be together for ever! But i dont' no if i want to becasue i am leaving in a year and i want to party and be sigle. so he siad wel... (123 words)

Was I treated unreasonably?

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29 November 2007 (F) - One night my fiance asked if I wanted to go with him to a bar that him and his friends were going to that night. It was a family night so some of his friends were his friend's younger sisters that he is better friends with and they are like 13 and 15. Anyway, he is 34! Well, ... (186 words)

Should I go out with all 4 of them?

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29 November 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - Hey guy. I'm stuck in a small dillma. I have a 4 different guys that like me at ONCE!! Thier all my friends and eachothers friends. We ALWAYS hang out in a big group and they all prtect me anything. Well, like I said they all like me. The promle is,ironicly they ALL asked me ... (105 words)

Was I being unreasonable?

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29 November 2007 (F) - My fiance and I were living together and one night he asked if I could go to my parent's house that night (because I had to drop my car off) and he said he was going to hang out with one of his friends. He said he would pick me up the next day. I was mad because it seemed like ... (113 words)

Should I tell my husband who I cheated with?

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29 November 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm married and very regrettably cheated on my husband 5 years ago. After a few months I told him what I did but not who with. (it was with a guy friend but my husband didnt really know him but knew I was catching up with him now and then) My husband dint want to know any deta... (283 words)

How do I work through my jealousy and confusion?

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29 November 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - Me and my long distance girlfriend recently went on a break. I am 20 and she is almost 19. She has been very confused for many different reasons. first off...it seems to make her way upset to see other couples doing the things we do the rare times we can meet up. Also the ... (228 words)

Is it normal to try to do something wrong?

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29 November 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - Ok lets start with this i'm 18 I love my boyfriend but its so hard not to I mean everthings like perfect in every way. Is that wierd? Its like everything I do is right! Whats up with that? I know usually the questions are about them messing up and stuff but this one is nothing ... (99 words)

Is he willing to be honest about his sexuality?

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29 November 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - What to do when the one you love doesn't love you in "that way". I am in that situation now and it sucks. The guy in question is my best friend and we've crossed the lines to be more the friends at times, so there have been mixed signals. I believe he truly cares about me but ... (298 words)

Do I take a hint and just leave it?

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29 November 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - i split up with my boyfriend when i was working abroad, for no reason other than it was too hard for me to enjoy my dream job abroad being with him as it made me want to go home and be with him.we kept in contact fairly often a few txt messages a week, i was away from home for ... (235 words)

Am I paranoid or what?

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29 November 2007 (M)

age 16-17 - I'm 16 and recently split up with my boyfriend chris. I then started dating a guy that i have known for about a year which then led to a relationship. He had not long come out of a relationship himself. But now that im with him im scared that he still wants his ex back and ... (93 words)

He couldn't get hard... why?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 153 days ago

29 November 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - I went to a wedding with my boyfriend, afterwards we headed to a motel to have sex for the first time, so he starts kissing me and removing my clothes, I was so ready! But I guess he wasn't because he wasn't erect! I asked him what was wrong, and he just kept saying "I don't ... (248 words)

What's wrong with me?

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29 November 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I have made my life so complicated and am now just waiting for even more pain. I was divorced in april - not my choice and have felt lonely and cry alot. I met someone who was married and as I was lonely and probably selfish enjoyed my times with him thinking if it wasnt me i... (256 words)