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writes:i need help i have been with my parter for 20 years and she wants to leave as she says that she has no feelings for me. i have asked her why and she tell me that i have hert her to many time she will not let things that have happend in the past go move on. i love her so much and am feeling so hert. i have tried to talk to her and work it out but she will not change her mind. she will not go as she has no where to go so she is still living with me this is so hard as i have so many feeling. please help
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 November 2007): Its easy to say forget the past when it is you that has caused whatever problems that may have been. If she is determined for your relationship to be over then there is not alot you can do - her mind is made up. Everytime in the past, someting has made your relationship rocky and you have forgotten it, your partner has thought and thought about it, until it has eaten her up inside. Perhaps her pain is too much to bare. Sometimes it is too little, too late.
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reader, rcn  +, writes (12 November 2007):
 In order to provide you with advise, more information is needed. What forms of hurts does she feel you committed to cause her to feel this way? How long have you notice the decline in your relationship, or her behaviors negative toward you.
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