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writes:Well, if any of you checked my other questions, i was pretty in love with someone who didn't really loved me anymore, and we did broke up. I did helped my friend and him to get together, and i am happy for them. I have no feelings for him anymore. He is seriously a nice friend to me. BUT. This doesn't change the fact that he did changed my view to relationships. I feel scared, and i do know that every relationship ends somehow, or at least one of the people in the relationship got upset at some point. I do believe that i will find the right person that will change my mind, one day.But, now im dating someone. He was one of my exes best friends and someone that i saw as close as a brother, well...at first. He was by my side, actually helped me about tons of things. When we were together, you could think that we were in a relationship as well, and i loved that. At first i thought he was just acting lovey dovey to make me feel less lonely, and was stopping myself saying that he was a brother to me. But i liked being like that with him. It was an unpredictible chemistry. Well, 2 days ago our friends were making fun of us because we went to their 'double date' just the two of us, because we were bored. And spend the day together. At night, he told me that he liked me, and it was something he could deal with. I told him he didn't had to, i liked him back bla bla and we started dating.I feel happy when i can talk to him, and when we show affection. But i can't help to feel weird when i realize im dating him. People didn't reacted well to our relationship because of everybody dating their best friends ex thingy, and i didn't liked that as well. I don't want to talk to him all day, i can't text him that easily actually. We are alright face to face, but we can't communicate that well from other places. I do like him very much, but i have this feeling that something is wrong. I'm scared that he might just be using me without noticing, he has been over a breakup around the same time as me and im scared that i might be doing the same thing.But then he tells me something cute, and i can't help to get so happy. What do you think?
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reader, Catcasforanta +, writes (3 October 2013):
Catcasforanta is verified as being by the original poster of the question..also I have to say, I don't know why my age shows like that but I'm not 13. I'm 16, almost 17. Still a teenager, but very much different than being 13.
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reader, Aunty Babbit  +, writes (1 October 2013):
 You've been hurt and are scared of being hurt again. It's a normal reaction after a break up when your partner has let you down.
You were friends with this guy and you both admit to liking each other.
It doesn't matter whether friends approve or not, this is your life and you must do what makes you happy.
You're worrying about all the little details and the rights and the wrongs but here's the thing, you are very young, this does not have to be forever, he makes you happy now, so enjoy it.
It may last, it may not, but it doesn't matter, the "now" is lovely and makes you both happy.
Embrace it and be happy.
I hope this helps AB x
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (1 October 2013):
 I guess my first thought is that 13 comes early in life because otherwise we would be so exhausted we would never make it out of our teens. You asked.
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