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*arcy1453
writes:I'm am very upset. A couple of months ago my friend told me to tell the guy tht she liked tht she liked him. I told him and she got mad at me. At first she just ignored me. Then she started bumping ke and tripping me in the halls. Then she beat me up! And yet she still makes up lies about wat happened. She got all of my friends on her side. Iv been upset for about 2 months now and really have to talk to someone. I think that maybe she is mad because when I told him he liked him he told me he didn't like her back. Maybe she's just embarrassed. Idk but I am still very upset Reply to this Question
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reader, Marcy1453 +, writes (15 January 2010):
Marcy1453 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you so much guys. It's nice to know people agree with me. I am trying to fit in with another group. The only thing is once I start getting close to a new friend she has to start rumors about me again. It just doesn't stop. It's so ridiculous. I informed my parents but my principal doesn't do anything and could not care less. I'm hoping pretty soon my old friends (the friends she took away from me) will someday see the real side of the story.
~Marcy~
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reader, Marcy1453 +, writes (15 January 2010):
Marcy1453 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you so much guys. It's nice to know people agree with me. I am trying to fit in with another group. The only thing is once I start getting close to a new friend she has to start rumors about me again. It just doesn't stop. It's so ridiculous. I informed my parents but my principal doesn't do anything and could not care less. I'm hoping pretty soon my old friends (the friends she took away from me) will someday see the real side of the story.
~Marcy~
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reader, thickness +, writes (14 January 2010):
 Your friend is a bitch. Jus cuz i guy doesnt like her, doesnt give her the rite to do those things to u. Make new friends n forget about her.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (14 January 2010):
No wonder the guy didn't like her back. She sounds like a real bitch. Let your parents know what's happening, and tell your teacher.
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reader, pinktopaz +, writes (14 January 2010):
Yeah, it sounds like she's taking her embarassment out on you. She's upset that he doesn't like her back, but now she's trying to put it off on you like you just went and told him without her consent that cause unecessary embarrassment--which of course isn't the case.
I hope you've told your parents about the matter. She's bullying you now over something that's her problem. Ignore her and try to stay away from her; don't try to be her friend or anything. If the problem continues, then your parents should call the school and speak with the dean or principal if you're not comfortable doing so yourself. I know you don't want to seem like a tattle tale, but once she gets the call to the principal's office and knows she's in trouble, she'll more than likely start leaving you alone, especially if her parents get notified.
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reader, LaPointe  +, writes (14 January 2010):
Go to your school guidance counsellor and tell her the situation. Even if you don't want to be confrontational and make a big scene with the girl herself, maybe ask that all the teachers be quietly informed of the situation so you know that they will be looking out for you at school. Also you might want to let your parents in on it.
But don't make excuses for her. What she is doing is cruel and immature even for high school. She isn't worth your time or friendship.
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reader, The Realist +, writes (14 January 2010):
 I think that she is embarressed and angry at the situation. The fact is that he didn't like her either way and atleast this way she doesn't waste her time on him. You did what she asked you to do so if anything it is her fault. As for her actions they are totally uncalled for and need to be dealt with, just try to not instigate another fight but this girl needs to know whats up.
I hope you find a way to deal with her.
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