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writes:Hi there, i have known my boyfriend for almost 10 yrs, when we were 12 he was my first boyfriend, we were together for a year...we drifted apart, reunited in 2007, and drifted again. I sent him an email in april and on april 30th we were a happy couple again...things started getting shacky and i did somethings i am not proud of, we broke up at the begining of sept, then for thanksgiving he took me on the back of his motorcycle(bought me a helmet) and went to my moms farm, we were inseperable for that weekend, then he started saying somethings like i will never be able to trust you and i know that u love me but actions speak louder than words...i love him dearly he treats me like the woman i am not like any guy has before, he will always be #1 in my books and in my heart...my question is how do i tell him that i love him and my feelings for him...i dont know how to word things properly for him to understand me...thanks in advance for the advice
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reader, pretty_in_pink88 +, writes (18 October 2009):
pretty_in_pink88 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwell things may be looking upward, he surprised me and came to see me and gave me money to get to toronto go be with him tonight...thanks for all ur help and if i need anymore advice this will be the first place i look for it
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 October 2009): On your own admittance you confess that you continue to screw things up with the man. He is clearly telling you that he is watching your actions; I prefer myself to use this tried and true method of discovering another's character. Through your actions of choice he no longer trusts you and you need to really hear what he is saying because it is all valid.
Try stepping back and focusing more on yourself; find yourself a job and see how that changes everything for all involved. Best of luck!
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reader, pretty_in_pink88 +, writes (17 October 2009):
pretty_in_pink88 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionyes but thats the thing he has given me soo many chances and i keep screwing it up....when we were at my moms he sat down with her and told her and my grandmother how much he loves me and cares about me but he just cant deal with me not having a job...i have been looking and nothing is coming up....he thinks the day i give them myt resume im supposed to have a job....he has a really good job, he told me he wnats nothing more than to be with me and to move in with me but he just cant trust me!!!
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (17 October 2009):
He is telling you that actions speak louder than words, which means he's testing you. Ask to meet him to speak to him. Then, be brave and just tell him you love him, that he is everything to you and you will try evetything to prove that you're worth another chance. Ask him how you can do this. Listen to him and what he has to say, and take everything slowly. Hopefully, he'll see that you're sincere adn give you a second chance. If he doesn't, then that's it. But it sounds to me like he wants you to approach him and prove that you're worth another try. So if he does give you another chance, prove it this time.
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