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41-50,
anonymous
writes:excuse the length but it helps to write this. last night i had a long think about where my life is going and a guy ive known for a while and thought he was a friend isnt. i stupidly thought he loved me as i had strong feelings for him and always tried to make him happy showering him with stuff and trying to make his life better as he had a bad time but hes lied, treated me shoddy, had financial help from me but never happy ith the amount (last two months hes had over £1,000. ive always made excuses for the way he treats me and hes made me neurotic and i was texting and emailing a lot at one stage. i feel ashamed as to how i became so weak i still have to work with him but i feel a little better in myself for finally ridding myself. any tips on hoew to progress please
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (4 July 2011):
 Well you have took the first major step in accepting that he is no good for you. So good on you for that alone. I guess love can make the best of us weak. But don't look back in regret just put it down to experience and learn from it. He is the one that used you and unfortunately you are the one left to pick up all the pieces of your life now. Start by realising that you have had a lucky escape and as for the money he owes you, maybe ask for him to pay you back because at the end of the day it is your money and you deserve to have it back.
The best thing for you to do now is to go out with friends and enjoy your life. Show him how happy you are without him. It is hard when you still have to work for him but give yourself some time and things will get easier.
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