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*ylife111
writes:My partner is madly in love with me and he knows i love him but when things r busy at home we dont get time togather then he blames me for this and goes funny on me even he day befor was home day .g dont even have do any thing to set him like this. Its not my falt and im confused and my heart is breaking i have 4 kids and i i go college as soon as i come in i start cooking if dont sit togather he says i dont want be with him its heart renching when he like this what should i do as im very loving person who loves hear man in every way Reply to this Question
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reader, Cherrie_StPierre  +, writes (30 January 2011):
 So really, you have 5 children. Sit him down, touch him and explain why it is difficult. He sounds like the type of man that needs validation of your love every day. he must have been really hurt by someone before to be acting this way. So, try to do that for him. little things that don't really take up time. When you come home, give him a kiss and a hug before you make diner. Talk to him more, ask him about his day. In bed try to snuggle more often. Let him know that even though you don't spend every second of the day with him, he is still very important to you. You just can't say it, you have to show it. That's all he is searching for. xoxoxox
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (30 January 2011):
 He needs to grow up and stop acting so selfishly. It sounds like he wants all of your attention to himself and he is extremely clingy. You need to explain to him that you love him but that you also have four children that you love and that needs to be looked after and cared for and also you have your college work, your housework and all of the cooking. If he doesnt understand that your time is limited due to these tasks then he is a very selfish man.
I dont doubt that you both love each other, but it cant keep going like this, he is making you feel guilty for things that you shouldnt feel guilty about. Also remember that your four children should always come before any man and show them all the attention they need from there mother. If he cant accept or deal with your busy life then it is his problem not yours.
Goodluck.
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