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writes:I'm a really calm person but this guy has got me so mad. He is really pervy I told him to stop saying things to me because they were making me uncomfortable. He follows me around like a dog and carry's on saying things I don't like. I tell him to stop then he gets a bit aggressive. It's just gone to far now. I told him to leave me alone. Then he told a teacher I was doing dirty things to him so he called me into his room to have a chat. Then I was walking home then he walked up to me and started blabbing on.... I told him that I don't care and to just get the hell out of my life. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 January 2011): You need to speak to your parents about this and to the principal of your school. Don't be alone with him and try not to interact with him at all if possible. Make sure you hang around with other people at all times. The next step is to tell the police and get a restraining order because what he is doing is harassment and stalking.
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reader, Abella  +, writes (28 January 2011):
 Isn't he a dumb useless pathetic guy?
What he is doing is approaching the definition of stalking you. And you are right to be cautious around him. Is there a school counsellor who you could discuss his hurtful behavior towards you.
He's a bad piece of work for lying about what he alleged you did . When you did not.
Is there any way you could walk home accompanied by some friends who you do trust?
I have also written an article posted in articles on on positive thinking that might help you.
This guy serves no useful purpose in your life. And he has done many nasty things designed to desettle you.
For that reason I would call him a toxic person. You are very entitled to be very right to want him out of your life. Regards
Abella
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reader, Hopless Tash +, writes (28 January 2011):
Heyy,
I know what you are going through, a couple years ago i had the same problem and the guy in question actually broke a necklace of mine once when he tried to shove his hand down my top. Personally if i was you i would tell the teachers and make them aware of whats going on from your side of view and i would tell them each time it happened and make a record like a diary with all of it in as well. Is there noone you can get to walk home with you ? Have you tried to just ignore him? I know that doesn't often work but if you haven't tried it, it could be an option?
Also do you have him on facebook etc ? If you do delete him. Make it harder for him to contact you.
I hope this helps and I hope you manage to get rid of him x
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reader, feelingsputtogether +, writes (28 January 2011):
 You can also talk to your parents. Then you can all go to your school and talk to the principal. You don't have to put up with this and he obviously has the bully type of attitude. I don't know how the laws work where you live in but you could probably get some type of restraining order on him becuase if he gets "a bit aggressive" when you tell him to stop that would be more than enough to be conserned for your safety. Good luck.
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