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My older brother is avoiding me

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Question - (3 April 2011) 0 Answers - (Newest, )
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

My older bro has been in college for the past 4 years and he had finally returned! Anyway, I'm glad to see him again, but it seems like he's been avoiding me. I think I know why, but I'm not sure how to handle it.

I used to be pretty overweight, but I worked it all off while he's been away. I've never looked better. I feel that he's not comfortable looking at me or being with me.

He never looks at me when we talk. He just keeps looking down or away. Also, he tends to avoid me if I ask if he wants to hangout. We used to be close, but now he just seems awkward around me.

I tried asking him if anything is wrong, but he says nothing's wrong. It's not that I want him looking at me like any other guy would, but I sort of miss that he's not giving me the right attention. How can I talk to him about this?

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