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anonymous
writes:Harassing Communications: Can we get her on anything legally?Crazy girl alert.She dated our friend (guy) and for a few months she was harassing him several times a day by sending LOTS of nasty texts and calling a few nights etc. He blocked her number. She posted his number on a gay dating site. So he changed his number. She sent nasty facebook messages to about 4 people under 2 different names. We'd block one name and she created a fake name. This went on for a week and then happened again a month later for another week. She also sent harassing text messages to two of his friends whose numbers she had, and posted one of their numbers on a gay dating site with a photo. This has stopped. She also posted a bunch of our full names on a blog online that comes up in a google search just saying really nasty stuff like our boyfriends are cheating on us and we should be engaged after being together for so long etc. Problem: she hasn't said anything threatening, just really really cruel. By "harassing" I mean that there were times when we told her to stop and she kept contacting us. But this hasnt gone on for 2 -3 months...here's the issue now: The guy's mother left her a voice mail 3 months ago saying they would be filing a police report and pressing charges...she just posted this video on youtube making fun, full names in the description so again it comes up in a google search.Can we get her on anything? Legally? If so, what will the penalties be?We were advised to keep records of each occurence, and we have done this for 3 months. What line does she have to cross before we can turn her in? and what will happen/what will the process be? no one can answer these last few questions. We are keeping records, but when will we have enough and what line does she need to cross?
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 April 2011): Ok first of all,and i am asking this seriously,do you know if she has any mental health problems,such as anxiety,depression,etc ?.has she been diagnosed or had counselling ?.if so,dont be too hard on her.it isnt anyones fault if they have those problems,as its either something they had in their brain from birth,or they have it coz of how bad events have affected them.next,did her boyfriend cheat on her,or mess her around in another way ?.that could also explain why she acted like that.i have anxiety and depression and i have also text and called my boyfriend over and over when we have broke up sometimes.i was bullied alot at school and my dad was verbally and physically abusive to me.and i was born three months premature and almost died.dont be so judgemental of people.
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