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30-35,
*aiting for an angel
writes:First of all thank you for any advice you can give me. I have a 3mth old baby and her dad and i arent together.but recently we started talking again after sooooo many downs and i think were cool now. But he told me he slept with different girls all this time 6 to be exact. And i dont know what to think or feel. I spoke to him and told him i'll forgive you because i care for you etc etc he tells me hes falling for me again and i'd like to be with him again. But idk how to forget and forgive him for sleeping around even though we werent together it hurts me because i was here recuperating from giving birth and struggling with money because he wouldnt help me while he was messing around. Can someone plz give me their opinion and advice and what would you guys if you were in my situation? I still have feelings for him:(
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reader, SillyB +, writes (24 September 2010):
 REad "he's just not that into you" and "Why men marry bitches". Don't do anything that will make you feel upset and uncomfortable. The truth is, if he truly loved you he would have been with you. NO ifs and or buts. REad those two books, they'll prevent you from having a lot of grief in the future.
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reader, Cerberus_Raphael  +, writes (24 September 2010):
 Do not get back together with him. Seperated or not, he should have still been there for you for the sake of the child but he was busy with other women. So save yourself a heartache and move on from him.
I hope that helps.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 September 2010): No way to forget or forgive. Just think of your baby and do what's best for her. Good luck and remember, jealousy is human and people who criticize you for it simply want to change you to feel smug.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (24 September 2010):
 Aw it sounds like yes he did act very selfishly while you were raring your child, but darling he may have just got scared of fatherhood you would be surprised how many men get cold feet mind you this isnt any excuse, but he never cheated on you he was free and single to sleep with whoever he liked, at least maybe it is out of his system now and he realises its you he wants to be with, you have feelings for him so give it another go, take things slowlely and please dont bring it up in his face about him sleeping with these girls as you will only drive him away, at least he was honest with you. All the best.
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