I'm starting to feel like a doormat and don't trust her, so how do I include her in my birthday planning?

A male age 51-59, anonymous writes:

ive been in a close relationship with a woman for 2 yrs now. lately ive gotten to where i do not trust her and feel like im being used like a doormat. this is unacceptable, tho she shows signs of caring etc. my birthday is next wednesday. she asked me a few weeks ago what i wanted to do, which is good but...so how should i handle planning for and possibly including her in helping celebrate my birthday?

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