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writes:Ok me and my baby daddy was together for almost 13 yrs. bout the last two yrs its was more off and on with us even tho that we didnt have the boyfriend/girlfriend title but we was still doing things as we were and a relationship. my daughter and i often go over his house but one day my daughter came home and told me about this other woman so when i confront him about the situration he told me its someone that was interested so i just blow it off because technically we wasnt together so i blow it off. then like two week later she went back over there then my daughter told me that the same girl is pregnant by him and she showed daughter the pregnancy stick which my daughter is 9 so when she told me that i was pissed off but and the mean while we was still sleeping together was still goin on dates ect...because he was lying to me the whole time and i feel like he could have told me then on July 30 of this year they got married and im still very much hurt devastated confued and feel like i cant get over the situration because now i feel like im going into depression over this situration. what should i do to help me get over this? Reply to this Question
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reader, ladyval  +, writes (23 September 2010):
You should distract yourself. Try to spend more time with your friends, family or your child. maybe go on vacation with your daughter or one of your good friends. Who knows, maybe there u'll meet new people or nice man there.
Make a new haircut or go to get new nice clothes, start reading new book. maybe u had plans finally to finish knitting your sweater or painting your room. Move on! there is nothing to do with it. He is cheater and you're lucky to get rid of such a person. Think about him as a trash you finally threw out from ur life.
even if he is your baby's father..he isn't yours anymore. try to look around, maybe there are some nice guys around, you are young woman, you should have your private life.
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