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writes:well i have been with this guy for 8 years. iam 24 i was 15 when i got with him. when we first got together we was happy my mom realy liked him. well about 3 years later i found out he was doing drugs behind my back. we would fight all the time and i would leave him alot of times but i keep going back. now i have a daughter by him and hes been in and out of jail alot of times. the reason why i keep going back is because my parents split up when i was 7 and i dont want my kid go throgh the same things as i did. i know its the best thing for me and the kids but he has me bliving that i will never find any one else that would take me and my 2 kids in, that iam fat, iam ugly, and all kinds of things like that.. how do i get over all that?
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (23 September 2010):
Instead of looking at yourself and listening to him, take a look at him. He's in jail, he's on drugs, he lies, and he controls you. You can most certainly do better than him! Anyone on earth can do better. You're not ugly, fat or anything like that. And there are guys will take on women who have kids. Just read this site for questions from step dads and such.
Leave. There are millions of better guys out there. The guy you have us a druggie jailbird. You don't know what he's capable of, so just walk away, take the kids and enjoy the rest of your life.
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