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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:I wrote last week about my friends brother stroking my hair behind my ear and asking if it was a flirting gesture, well this week, I don't know what has happened but all of a sudden he has been mean to me and then today he has been nice to me.I just wonder what his motives are? Is he still flirting?I defended him this evening when I went to my friends house. Even though he is 8 years older than my friend, he still lives at home, with my friend and their mum.He was saying he had forgotten something and his mum who is a bit of a cow, yelled at him and called him stupid and it caused a rumpus, so I jumped in and said I'd go get some for them. They all looked shocked when I jumped in and then I wished I hadn't cos my friend accompanied me to the shop and asked what was wrong with me. Since she nor her mum had seen his previous gesture, I said that I was embarrassed, which I had been.So last night he had been a muppet with me and tonight, when I was leaving he stopped me at the door, and engaged me in conversation, then when I was almost out, he looked like he was about to lean in and kiss me, when my flaming friend appeared saying sarkily, 'Haven't you gone yet' So then I basically ran off.So what's going on?I am so confused and I am unsure of what to do next. Thanks x
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reader, dirtball  +, writes (24 September 2010):
 If you want to know what's up, you need to get him alone and talk to him. Say that you've noticed he's been flirty and you were wondering if he was interested in trying something.
Then again, he doesn't sound like the best catch in my book. Based on the age you have listed, he's somewhere between 35 and 40 and still dependent on Mommy. Not a great sign for stability, but hey, there may be a good reason for it too.
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