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41-50,
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writes:I have a gf of 10 months. We really like each other. I visit her house every day for at least 6 hours. The problem is she wants me to come daily without gettin late no matter what and if i dont she gets all psyched. how do i stop doin that?Now, i have taken a job offer in a different country and will be leavin in a couple of days. I want to stop goin to her house daily. i have told her that after i move out of the country i ll keep in touch wit her constantly. but i know this will slowly fade away with time. we are not marrying each other which we had already decided. Now i want to stop seeing her daily. How do i do this without hurtin her and how to tell her that after i leave we can just be friends. Reply to this Question
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reader, tblondie1826  +, writes (23 September 2010):
Explain to her that you don't think long distance will work between you two, but we can still keep in touch. Explain to her how you felt controlled and crowded, but do it sincerely, just be open and honest. No matter what she will be disappointed, but you can't go on like you are doing.
Goodluck!
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