Help! I think he gave up on us too easily!

A female age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Hi, my bf broke up with me recently, but I don't think he made the right choice. Here's the thing, he's been selling a lot of his stuff, trying to find a new job, and new apartment, has been cutting off connections with old friends, etc. To me, it seems like he's going through a hard time in his life and doesn't know what he wants. He broke up with me, but we tried to fix things a few times after, but each time he preferred to give up than to keep trying. I've known him for so long and this isn't like him. Should I trust my instinct and keep hoping he'll snap out of it, or should I just move on? We're best friends, so I still plan on being around. It's just hard having to adjust. Any advice would be great. Thank you

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