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Archived questions from: 18 October, 2010 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Boyfriend admitted that sometimes when he feels bad he starts fights to make me feel badly too

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4940 days ago

18 October 2010 (F) - I know this is long but please read it because I am in dire need of help. My boyfriend and I have been going out for about a year and a half and everything seemed to be going great. He goes to uni in Swansea and I go to uni in Cardiff so we ar...

Engaged guy wanting me to do hot yoga????

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18 October 2010 (F) - My co worker who is engaged asked me to do hot yoga with him and told me we would be sweaty and probably be stepping to our underwear or sports bra. He also said I make him blush. I turned him down with the yoga. He pays special attention to me too. ...

Help with emotionally damaged girlfriend

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18 October 2010 (M) - Hi guys, I've got a issue that I would really appreciate others input on. A little background information first though. I'm a friendly, reasonably successful, mid-twenties guy. In February my previous relationship ended (was a very long relati...

Help! I think I'm falling for my ex's cousin

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18 October 2010 (F) - Me and my ex broke up about two weeks ago, and now I don't know what's going on, he's acting all weird around me and I'm confused. He's playfighting with me, sticking up for me when guys insult me and he's just teasing me. I think I still love him, ...

Does he really not love me?

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18 October 2010 (F) - Hi, I have quiet long story and difficult relationship. I am going out with my boyfriend for over 2,5 year. But by the time he has a girlfriend also because they have a child together.He doesnt love her but he have been scared to loose the cont...

Should I dump him for being controlling about my eating habits?

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18 October 2010 (F) - My boyfriend tells me that I shouldn't eat as much as I do, and then when I started getting self conscious about it, or "listening to him" it all went down hill. He noticed at first that I wasn't eating as much as I used to, which was what he ...

Ultra conservative girlfriend will not even make out now and its really very depressing to me

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18 October 2010 (M) - This is long, but please read. I really need some advice So my girlfriend and I recently, like 2-3 weeks ago, decided to finally start experimenting with sexual desires (ie handjobs and fingering) after 2 1/2 years of dating. Everything was g...

My bf's mom doesn't give me attention when I come over.

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18 October 2010 (F) - Hi. I've been with my bf for 15 months now and we love each other very much. He lives with his folks and I often come by, but never slept over. We're both virgins and all we do is cuddle. We agreed to start having sex when I'm ready. Anyway, ...

Dating a messed up former escort, I care, but should I walk?

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18 October 2010 (?) - Ok, this may sound messed up but it goes like this.. I basically met this girl who is an escort...I paid her for sex twice. I have used escorts for a few years, and I never thought too much about it. Anyways, to cut a long story short I ended up...

Boyfriend does not support me emotionally

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18 October 2010 (F) - I'm not too emotional; I need emotional support. It appears that my boyfriend is unable to support me emotionally. When I attempt to discuss a concern with him, he discounts it as me being overly sensitive and too emotional. I believe that my ...

Shadows from my past came knocking at my door, what should I do?

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18 October 2010 (M) - My wife and I have been married for 16 years we have children, and well at least I was happy and I truly loved her. Many years ago I caught her cheating it broke my heart but I forgave her and we continue to live together and we were actually happy. ...

Over a $20.00 tip? Are you serious?

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18 October 2010 (F) - Hello to all. I have a situation and I am looking for some advice. I hope someone can help me out here. My boyfriend and I went out for dinner last night. We hadnt gone out in awhile so I agreed to go even though I had just gotten off a 8 hour shift ...

He won't share his most simple things with me, should I keep trying to have a relationship with him?

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18 October 2010 (F) - I´ll start saying I'm from Brazil and have feelings for a guy who is deployed in Afghanistan in the USAF. We chat often in Skype and have known him for 4 years now. In all this time, I haven't asked him his middle name and when I asked him today, he ...

"My girlfriend says she wants to be single but she sounds uncertain and I want her back"

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4936 days ago

18 October 2010 (M) - Alrighty 'o , So me and my gal have been together for around 11 months now , we have had our ocassional mis understanding where I didnt give her enough attention , but now she complains it's to much... I love this girl so much and I really can't se...

I love this man and I want the best for him, even if it means him being with his wife.

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18 October 2010 (F) - 6 weeks ago, I started seeing and falling in love with this man. He had been off and on with his wife for 6 years (she cheated several times 6 years ago). He was sure that he was ready to file and move on with his life...and he did file and got a ...

My husband needs to clean up! Please help!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4939 days ago

18 October 2010 (F) - I've been married to my husband for almost 19 years. We have no children and probably won't at this point since we are both in our 40's now. We have cats we love and adore so this kind of fills the parenthood gap for us. We are pretty happy and get ...

How can I stop this feeling?

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18 October 2010 (M) - I have been with my girlfriend for nearly two years. We recently started living together. Im starting up a business, and so stressed. Im not the worlds tidiest person but I do make an effort. She does get on my back at this a lot, I tell her i...

Away Backpacking - How or When Can I Break Up?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4932 days ago

18 October 2010 (M) - I've been going out with my girlfriend now for several years. Sometimes things are good, but a lot of the time I just want to end the relationship. We argue a lot and then just end up making up again. Much of my love for her has died and I now care ...

How to get even with my boyfriends ex mistress?

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18 October 2010 (F) - how to get even with my boyfriends ex mistress, who has now turned on me, although i have done nothing to her in any shape or form!!!!!!! She has hacked into our electric account, mobiles, accused us of assault, (we did not)came to our home, proper ...

My life has, up until this point, been a catalogue of disaster, but I want life to be better now.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4938 days ago

18 October 2010 (F) - I am not sure if I have been and am being emotionally abused by my father. I am 35 years old, and have never moved out of home (apart from a small period of time at university) because my Dad has said that I would never been able to cope and I am ...

Does everyone here think I am about to make a huge mistake if I go out on a date with him?

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18 October 2010 (F) - Hi everyone. I got some good advise over here in the past so thought I'd try again. So, a few months ago I was involved in a very awkward situation with two childhood friends both in love with me (rather, one in love, the other one confused as it ...

My boyfriend's lady friend doesn't want me around!

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18 October 2010 (F) - Bf of 5 yrs has platonic(beyond doubt)unattractive lady friend nad I have befriended her at my insistance!I have eaten out with her,got her blind dates,girly goss together n the 3 of us have been out.However when my BF visits her from time to time ...

I finally left! Why doesn't it feel better?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4184 days ago

18 October 2010 (F) - i recently left the father of my two children i had enough of all the misstreatment. he verbaly humiliated me, ocacionally pushed me around. he is very weird somedays he treats me really good but other days he doesnt stop telling me he hates me ...

She says she didn't cheat, should I believe her?

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18 October 2010 (M) - My girlfriend has had this guy "friend" for i don't know how long. Longer than she has known me. She went to go hang out at his house one night. She ended up staying the night over there. I saw her the next day and she said they were just watching ...

It feels as if the spark is going!

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18 October 2010 (F) - I am confused, on what to do. I am 20 but quite mature however by having a abusive childhood this has affected me alot. My B.f (A)who I have been with 3 months is lovely, no 1 has ever treated me like h has. But recently it feels spark going he ...

I am angry he lied to me, or am I just being silly?

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18 October 2010 (F) - My boyfriend used to be a heavy pot smoker but now says he hardly does it anymore. However, the other day while I was out he kept asking when I would come back to his house and when I said I was close he said he had to go out for a while to run some ...

I worry that if she keeps flirting, he might change his mind!

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18 October 2010 (F) - Well me and my boyfriend went out for 10months, before he broke up with me due to not missing me when we werent hanging out. Then like 2 weeks afterwards he told me he found another girl. They went on like 5 dates, and even hooked up. But even dur...

He doesn't talk to me much and his work takes priority

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18 October 2010 (F) - my boyfiend doesnt seem to talk to me much anymore, and his words were " but theres nothing to talk about" i dont see him very much,and work always seems to come first in absolutly everything, i know i really really like him and have deep feelings ...

I am so angry he cheated on somebody with me!

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18 October 2010 (F) - So i invited this guy from my college round for a party, by the end of the night it was just me and him, we spoke for ages and felt closer to him, which later led on to the most amazing sex i've ever had. a couple of nights after i went to talk to ...

Please wipe away my tears

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18 October 2010 (F) - i have a relationship of almost three years with my boyfriend,and we now staying together in the same house.am famaliar with his family and he is famaliar with my family also..for the past month i started to suspect he is cheating on me,i went to an ...

Pregnant with my abusive partner's 2nd child and find out he is married

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18 October 2010 (F) - I am pregnant and have a 9 month old with my fiance. He is emotionally and mentally abusive, gives me hell, won't help around the house, etc most of the time. Although he has his sweet days... he blames his anguish on his job ( he is a corrections ...

Why would my boyfriend do this? am really hurt:(?

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18 October 2010 (F) - my boyfriend told me his ex messaged him on facebook and said she misses him.. she then added him on facebook and blackberry chat and theyve been chatting since. she says she wants him back..i asked my bf if he loves her he said he lov...

He is happy, I want to be happy too!!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4941 days ago

18 October 2010 (F) - Hi all, I am not one to quit. Therefore in a relationship why do I feel like I am giving 100% and my partner is not. I have been with him for 3 and 1/2 years. I am 8 years younger than him and feel like his mother. We both work. I pay the bills ...

I hate that I can't be the child my family deserves!

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18 October 2010 (F) - My parents and I have not been in a good relationship recently. We use to get along just fine, but now all we ever do is fight. I've always had a trouble mind, I just hide it from them so they don't think I need help or anything. All my parents ever ...

Do I really love her or I just sympathize her? I feel happy with her, she loves me very much, but I don't want a kid now.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4910 days ago

18 October 2010 (M) - Long read, please be patient, thank you! I am 28 years old and as of now I have a total of 4 relationships in my life, none of which except for the currently on-going one lasted more than a year. The current one I am dating I met through intern...

She is distancing herself from me and it hurts!

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18 October 2010 (M) - Single in relationship with colleague who is divorce for 2 yrs. I really love her company and often meet physically and satisfies our desires. lately she started maintaining distance which makes me alone. i cant take it and its hurts. ...

He got mad when I wanted to chill out with a male friend

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4937 days ago

18 October 2010 (F) - So I started talking to this guy on Facebook. And my homecoming was a week later, so I invited him to my college to see me for homecoming. He said he was coming, and surprisingly he did. My college is 5 hours away from where he lives, so I knew he ...

I cheated on my LDR

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18 October 2010 (F) - hello there. i'm here because i cheated. it's killing because he's a great person with a great heart and amazing intentions. about a day ago, i cheated on him. i've one of those people who have always said "i'll never do that!" but i did, and now ...

Girlfriend decided on a break and slept with her first love and lied about it, now we're back together...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4938 days ago

18 October 2010 (M) - My girlfriend slept with her first love on our break, which was her idea. I also agreed just because it was a heated argument and we were both angry. After a couple months we started seeing each other again and things were going great. She said ...

I don't understand why she wont even talk to me!

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18 October 2010 (M) - So this girl Taylor seemed into me. I had a girlfriend but we weren't doing good and it ended. So i was going to ask Taylor out but then she said it would be best if we stopped talking. i'm confsued. she wouldnt even tell me why. she just bye. she ...

I love her but she loves another

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18 October 2010 (M) - I luv a girl in my school blindly..now i was scared 2 ask her out..but then i thought that i will ask her out...but before i could a boy of my class who is better then me asked her and she accepted..now they love each other...i cant take this...i ...

Do curses and bad spells exist?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4940 days ago

18 October 2010 (F) - Can psychics tell you if you are cursed? I'm not too familiar with psychics, and most explanations are confusing me. I am wondering if good psychics will be able to tell you whether or not there is a curse on you, directly or indirectly, ...

Boyfriend afraid to leave his mom to work on our relationship

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18 October 2010 (F) - Dear Cupid I am a overly concern about certain happenings in my relationship. My Boyfriend is afraid to leave his Mother house so that we can pool our salary to start a family. he doesnot directly come out and say it but saying he have to hel...

Is he hiding from himself or his past?

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18 October 2010 (M) - What kind of man changes his telephone number and his identity weekly/fortnightly,his he hiding from his true self or his past i can help wandering why he behaves in this way i find it bizzare behaviour pretending to be someone else when your over ...

Why does he contradict himself?

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18 October 2010 (F) - Can someone please tell me why a man would contradict himself,when i first started dating my boyfriend he soon started to point out that i should dress more sexily low cut tops mini skirts etc so i did as it was to his liking and i felt ok as i only ...

Why did boyfriend start treating me well after treating me badly?

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18 October 2010 (F) - Me and my bf have had a sour relationship due to his lies and verbal abuse. He constantly threw me out and aftr i go back to my hometown it is then the nxt day he calls me up beging me to come back. Almst like he just wanted a nite to himself and 4 ...

I'm so hurt and confused .. is he a womanizer or what ?

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18 October 2010 (F) - I am 37 (Italian) and two years ago I have met this 45-year old British guy. I think we quite liked each other since the beginning but nothing really happened between us (I live in the US, he lives in the Uk and we are both researchers) until a ...

Boyfriend says he loves me, yet is putting out personal ads on craiglist

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18 October 2010 (F) - I have been going out with my bf now for 1yr and a half. We moved to a different state together and are living together.He "says" he loves me and am the only one for him and he wanted to get married and have kids. Then i found out a couple months ...