A
female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:My co worker who is engaged asked me to do hot yoga with him and told me we would be sweaty and probably be stepping to our underwear or sports bra. He also said I make him blush. I turned him down with the yoga. He pays special attention to me too. What is he doing.... So confused
View related questions:
co-worker, engaged, underwear Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
male
reader, The Realist  +, writes (19 October 2010):
 I would say that he interested in you and I wouldn't consider this sexual harrassment unless he is very forceful or just that creepy. He may have been totally serious and hot yoga is something he does all the time and is just trying to be flirty and start some sort of relationship.
If you're interested in him then maybe suggest coffee or something like that first or tell him that you're not interested in him like that. Only then after you made it clear that you do not want this kind of attention can it be any kind of harassment.
A
female
reader, Indie23  +, writes (19 October 2010):
 This is sexual harassment. The things this guy are saying to you are making you uncomfortable and confused and this means they are not appropriate.
You don't have to put up with this, talk to one of your superiors about his behavior and hopefully they will be able to get him to back off.
Indie.
...............................
|
