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Archived questions from: 4 October, 2010 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

I don't want to come across to her as desperate. What do I do here?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4797 days ago

4 October 2010 (M) - Hello everybody.. My girlfriend doesnt have time for me but i do not care . I love her so much its hard to let her go. I think i have annoyed her asking her to go out more often since she usually doesnt trust most people in her life. I pissed her ...

Do I confront him... or just leave it be?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4952 days ago

4 October 2010 (F) - Heres the thing: I am not proud of it but I snooped around a few years ago and found my boyfriend's password to his email. I checked it once and didn't find anything suspicious. I felt horrible for betraying his trust and privacy but, I never said ...

Boyfriend caught on dating sites and texting other women...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4949 days ago

4 October 2010 (F) - Hi I am new to this. I just did not know where else to turn. I have no one else to discuss this with. My boyfriend and i have been together 3 years. He is considerably older than me but it has never been an issue for either of us. WE get on ...

Why wont my husband perform oral sex on me?

This question has 27 answers - newest was posted 4941 days ago

4 October 2010 (F) - I have been married to my husband for 11 years now and I am very hurt by the fact he will not perform oral sex on me I give him bjs all the time but he won't ever return the favor. I desire it so much that I often think about cheating to get oral ...

How do I deal with my boyfriend confessing he has no desire for sexual intercourse?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4953 days ago

4 October 2010 (F) - My question is how do I deal with my boyfriend confessing he has no desire for sexual intercourse? A year and a half before we met he found out he had prostate cancer. He had it removed, and right before we met he had surgery/ inflatable prosthetic. ...

He likes to dress up and put make up on... I'm scared he might be transexual!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4953 days ago

4 October 2010 (F) - I have been w/my bf for almost a year, and a few months ago he told me he was a CD. I am pretty good with it - it's fun to dress up together, I do his make up, and we have a great time with it. This weekend was our first night of dressing up and ...

He says he CAN'T marry me!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4919 days ago

4 October 2010 (F) - i trust him but he broke my trust but now I'm very worried what to do? i have to marry someone else but please please tell me how can i hide this from my futur husband that I'm not virgin. plssss plsss dont say that i should tell him the truth.... ...

He says I am too demanding, I say he is using me for his benefit!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4953 days ago

4 October 2010 (F) - ok, I have asked questions on here before.. and now I just need to know it is not me. I am 47 years old, divorced woman 2 kids. I am finanically independent. I have been with the same man for 7 years. He is also 47 years old with 2 childre...

Do I pursue something with him again or move on? I

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4953 days ago

4 October 2010 (F) - I've been dating this guy for about 2 years, we have had our ups and downs just like any other couple, I thought we were doing really, really well..he even took me out to California to meet his dad in August! But three weeks ago, he broke up with ...

Baby and baby daddy and sex blues!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4953 days ago

4 October 2010 (F) - First question: hey evryone.im going to be brief asking this.im caught between three guys.one is my babydaddy but im dumping him.im done with him hurtn me.he askd me not to give up on us but ive held on too long.this ex's just came back in my life...

The relationship changed after we slept together

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4953 days ago

4 October 2010 (F) - Hello all, I used to be the greatest girl ever. The one who was cute, sweet, sexy, smart and funny. He was contacting me on a daily basis and every time we went out together it was clear that we liked each other very much. I am not the kind of ...

Boyfriend driving me nuts complaining about his job!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4953 days ago

4 October 2010 (F) - My bf complains about his job constantly!!! I know its hard work and I know he stresses about money, I try to help him out but he won't let me. I don't know whether to encourage him to get another job or to talk to him about his negativity...but its ...

He's sending majorly mixed signals about his desires for a relationship and sex. Is he lying or being legitimate?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4952 days ago

4 October 2010 (F) - Hello Aunties and Uncles. I need some help. I appreciate all advice given! This is a book! I apologize in advance! lol I met a man online months ago. Our relationship began as just casual pen pals and we soon became online friends. A coupl...

Girlfriend abroad, afraid she loves it more than she loves me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4952 days ago

4 October 2010 (M) - So my girlfriend and I have been together for about 13 months now. We're both in our 3rd year of college. We met our freshman year during the 2nd semester and became quick friends, which is very unusual for me. I struggle with generalized anxiety ...

Was it ok for me to say this to him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4953 days ago

4 October 2010 (F) - i like this guy but he is trying to control me. ive been through all this kind of stuff before. Now ive realized what he is trying to do i am breaking away from him. Was it ok for me to tell him 'look i really like you a lot and im upset but we both ...

My husband is infatuated with another woman. Can we get past this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4953 days ago

4 October 2010 (F) - My husband and I are going through a rough patch in our marriage- he's infatuated with another woman, who also happens to be my coworker and is dating his best friend. (Yes, some of you may recognize this situation from his Dear Cupid post.) In a ...

How do I get rid of my ex-girlfriend without hurting her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4952 days ago

4 October 2010 (M) - How do I get my ex-girlfriend to move on without hurting her? That’s probably a hard question I know as its probably inevitable someone gets hurt. We went out with each other for 11 months, she pushed me away several times probably because...

Troubled love, a constant cycle.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4953 days ago

4 October 2010 (F) - Hi I'm a 17 year old girl and I have been going out with my boyfriend for over 3 yrs. In the fall of 2009 he left me b/c his friends told him that he should live his life and experience other girls so he left me but he was at my house everyday ...

Possibly in love with my roommate... but is it worth the risk with his ex still around?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4953 days ago

4 October 2010 (F) - I tried to make this short… I’m sorry! I’ve signed a two-year lease with Frank while I finish my degree. We found each other on the schools roommate search and instantly hit it off. We had been talking/emailing every day for the month before we ...

Ex says he loves me, but slept with someone else

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4953 days ago

4 October 2010 (F) - My ex says he still loves me and wants me back, but I just found out he slept with another girl (one of his house mates). I have not confronted him yet, on my side I have told him I want us to be friends first before being involved again. I want to ...

Is this just a mind game or more?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4951 days ago

4 October 2010 (F) - Not sure if this is just a mind game for sexual validation or more.Thanks in advance for all advice, I work in a small office w/ about 20 people. To know my past I have been only w/men and have been very picky so I have only been with two and I am...

Am I a nag or does my partner have a problem with drink and drugs?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4953 days ago

4 October 2010 (F) - am i nag or does my partner have a problem? im 11 weeks pregnant with my 3rd child and been with my partner on and off for 9 years. i left him last year as he drinks 5 times a week and used to take cocaine spending 150 a week on it i just couldnt ...

I don't know how to behave whenever my boyfriend brings up sex!

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4 October 2010 (F) - Dear Aunts, So, this is a quick question. I do not have a clue how to behave whenever my boyfriend brings up something about making love and sex. W're having a long distance relationship so I understand how it feels not being able to meet in a reg...

Thought it was love but it was fear.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4953 days ago

4 October 2010 (F) - i been with my boyfriend for 8 yr. we have 4 lil boys but he is very abusive both ways im scared of him how can my babys and i leave with out getting hurt?please help...

What are some of the biggest regrets people have with relationships that go wrong?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4953 days ago

4 October 2010 (M) - This is a huge question and the reason I ask is because I don't want to make the same mistakes that everyone else makes. I would be grateful if someone could give me some information about the worst regrets or mistakes people make with ...

What am I supposed to do in this situation?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4953 days ago

4 October 2010 (F) - Need help guys...VERY confused right now! So Iv been in a relationship for a year now. Knew this guy all along, but we were never really friends, although i know he used to like me a lot. I left town for higher studies,got back, we got in touch ...

My so called friend has been spreading rumours that I am leaving my husband for him!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4953 days ago

4 October 2010 (F) - Hello, It has come to my attention from a reliable source that a male friend i went to school with and haven't seen for 22 years has said to someone that i am going to leave my husband for him!! he has also said he has met my children and tha...

Is my boyfriend still interested in me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4954 days ago

4 October 2010 (F) - how do i know whether my bf is not interested in me anymore. its been 10 months for a relationship before he used to call me everyday but now for the past 2 months it has reduced. he tells me that he's been busy lately with work n stuff. how can a ...

Long distance, online relationship - will this work?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4952 days ago

4 October 2010 (F) - ONLINE dating question Situation: met a guy on a online dating site. Super hot and educated...real busy though...seemed really into me but he lives in chicago n me cali. When we talk, he mostly talks about his work and some worthless conver...

I want to show my girlfriend that I love her but she's not easily impressed!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4953 days ago

4 October 2010 (M) - Me: I'm 19 years old, I'm in college, I live 1 hour and 50 mins. away from my girlfriend. (I have a car) We've been together for 1 year, 2 months and 14 days. We love each other to death, and I trust her more than I would even trust my mom. (I...

We have only been together for 8 months and I'm worried we are not having sex enough!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4954 days ago

4 October 2010 (F) - This might seem like a strange question to ask, but I'm wondering if I have anything to worry about! Me and my boyfriend have been together 8 months, spent nearly everyday together in that time. But the thing is our sex life had dwindled down to...

How to deal with a friendship/FWB gone wrong?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4954 days ago

4 October 2010 (F) - I never thought this would be me. I never thought I would be in this type of situation, ever. Especially not with someone who I thought was my bestfriend. Me and my "bestfriend" had sort of a fwb thing going on while he had a girlfriend. This...

Should I see her again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4953 days ago

4 October 2010 (M) - Ok, me and this girl have known each other for 8 years online. We fell in mutual love just over a year ago and found out 8 months ago, we had been dating since. I recently visited the city she lives in to work, however my VISA runs out in a we...

If he is not interested in me then why is he acting this way?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4953 days ago

4 October 2010 (F) - So I have been talking to this guy on and off for over two years now. We met on an online dating site but never met in person. In the beginning he seemed really interested in a relationship and he talked to me all the time.He would always tell me ...

Is it worth fighting for my relationship, or shall I let him go?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4954 days ago

4 October 2010 (F) - I've been together with my boyfriend for 3 months, he's recently taken custody of his 2 kids. But I'm very unhappy as he's treating me the same as he treated his ex wife. And I have spoken to him about it and he tells me I'm being very silly. ...

Is online flirting considered cheating?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4945 days ago

4 October 2010 (F) - Is ONLINE flirting considered cheating? My boyfriend gave me his Facebook password, and I check his messages (he doesnt know) and he's always flirting with this girl, he even asked her to be his sideline girlfriend, she said no but they still ...

Boyfriend thinks if we move into together I should pay double his rent because he has a car!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4954 days ago

4 October 2010 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend now for 8 months, i am 27 and he is 28, and he is very sweet and kind and very caring. Recently, well today I was discussing perhaps moving in together in the future. I am living with a roommate and he is living with ...

3 years after break up he is still so messed up!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4954 days ago

My boyfriend treats me like a kid!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4954 days ago

4 October 2010 (F) - I'm 16, my bf is 18; he treats me like a little kid all the time! Seriously, I know I'm still growing up but really! So is he! I really do love him but I'm tired of being treated like a 10 year old... help?...

Weird behaviour -- is she breaking up with me, or pregnant?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4954 days ago

4 October 2010 (M) - I have been dating this girl for almost a year now. The situation is complicated. She is married, her husband knows it is over. They sleep in seperate rooms just in the same house until her house sells. Neither one of them can afford to the morgage ...

She wants to try again, but I'm not sure

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4951 days ago

4 October 2010 (M) - I meet this girl online about 2 yrs ago. And from that day on we have talked. So about 4 or 5 months that we have been talking I went in saw her. I live in oregon and she lives in boston. So I went in saw her for the frist time and it was great we ...

Is it love or dependency for your husband?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4954 days ago

4 October 2010 (F) - I know dis female who husband cheats on her. his last mistress he actually fell in love wit. He actually left his wife, wanted a family and was getting a divorce to be with her. After the affair the mistress ended the relationship and he went back ...

I'm a female in love with a gay guy

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4954 days ago

4 October 2010 (F) - Ok, so I really need to get this off of my chest because it's been on my mind constantly for the last couple of days. I'm 20 years old. I have this teacher assistant in my english class which I really believe is gay because the way he talks and plus ...