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Archived questions from: 27 October, 2010 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

My life is a reflection of the movie "The Notebook"...I'm torn between my ex and my husband

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4923 days ago

27 October 2010 (F) - My ex and I had a child together and were together for 10 years. We divorced for stupid reasons and neither of us felt right about it but for some reason we went through with it anyhow. We were on again off again for 3 years until he finally married ...

Jealously to a whole new level

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4930 days ago

27 October 2010 (M) - Me and my Girlfriend have been actively in a relationship for a little over 2 years now. However we have expirenced a few problems in the relationship. The main of which being after a drunken text on my part to the wrong party, she has completely ...

He tried to hit me and then spit in my face!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4930 days ago

27 October 2010 (F) - Here's the thing, We had a argument which lead to him trying to physically throw me out, and then when i started to fight back he spit on my face. I love him but i feel like he went too far and now i don't think i can stay with him. He said sorry ...

I tried to get her interested in me, never planning on following through, and now I've got a problem!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4928 days ago

27 October 2010 (M) - I've got myself into an awkward position. I am married 12 years with two children, very happy and wouldn't change that for the world. I love my wife dearly. However, there was a similarly aged lady at work who I thought was quite attractive, she ...

My jealousy's slowing us down.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4923 days ago

27 October 2010 (F) - I am a very jelous girl. and i think my boyfriend is getting tired of that, and he thinks i don´t trust him. what should i do ?...

Why does he criticize me but not do anything to help?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4930 days ago

27 October 2010 (?) - I lost my job few months ago and been very stressed lately dat i'v lost weight. My fiance always complain abt my clothes dat r now bigger dan me bt he doesn't buy me anything. He buys himself clothes every now and den and sumtyms when i'm wit ...

Should I give him more space?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4929 days ago

27 October 2010 (F) - He said we could still be friends, and i want to. We still love each other but broke up 2 days ago. NOt necessarily because my my insecurity and trust problems.. assumptions, but it made us unhappy. I still want this and I think he does too, he just ...

How do I find a foreplay/fetish partner?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4930 days ago

27 October 2010 (M) - Hi, I have a fetish for cotton, namely cotton petticoats/underskirts. I also like foreplay and doing it partially dressed...I'm not interested in intercourse. I've been attempting to look for a partner to share my desires with, but almost ever...

Did he really mean that he doesn't want to be a boyfriend because he can't be a good one?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4929 days ago

27 October 2010 (F) - So me and my ex broke up 1 month ago. We were together for almost 5 months, which was my longest relationship. Anyway, he always said that if we broke up that he wanted us to stay friends. I usually stay friends so that's not a problem for me. Now ...

Should I keep my baby? It's all up to me....

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4922 days ago

27 October 2010 (F) - Ive been with my boyfriend for 6 months, and now im 4 weeks pregnant. Im 19 years old and I don't feel I'm ready to be a mother. I want an abortion but I'm scared to kill my baby, most of all, I'm afraid he won't be there during and after the ...

Should I walk out of her life? She doesn't want an LDR and has a boyfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4930 days ago

27 October 2010 (M) - So, i fell for this girl and it was the biggest mistake of my life because when she found it hard to have a long distance relationship she broke up with me. 3 days later she got a new boyfriend and it hurt me, really did kill me inside that i ...

What is my girlfriend thinking?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4930 days ago

27 October 2010 (M) - So heres my problem: My girlfriend hasnt been so affectionate lately so i brought it up with her and asked if there was something wrong and if she wanted to talk about anything. so she kinda gave me round about answers like "idk" and such so ...

Jealous partner, what do I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4923 days ago

27 October 2010 (F) - I've been seeing this guy for just over 2 months now, I've been really happy in the relationship, we are happy together and nothing has gone wrong so far, well that's what I thought. We went out to a party the other night and he went to the toil...

I don't want to spoil his new-found fun with his long lost daughter but how do I get him to see our daughter needs quality time too?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4930 days ago

27 October 2010 (F) - Hi my husband of three years, has a daughter by a previous relationship and hasnt seen her for 5 years. The Ex now says its ok for him to see her. I am ok with that, but in the 3 years we've been married he has worked almost every week 6 or 7 days a ...

The slightly immature girlfriend... help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4930 days ago

27 October 2010 (M) - my girlfriend is awsome. until a few months ago, we are constantly fighting and it sucks. she gets mad when i dont send her a txt message first to say "hey whats up?' i am a person who doesnt txt for no reason and i have told her that but she doesnt ...

He is finishing his labs and I feel neglected and sad... What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4930 days ago

27 October 2010 (F) - My boyfriend is busy with his final year report in the university. I feel so neglected by him he is still in his lab doing experiments at 1am................ =( What can I do to spice up our life I feel so sad......

What to do in this lose/lose situation?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4930 days ago

27 October 2010 (F) - iam so worried and i really need help. me and my boy fiend are in a long distance relationship (we talk on phone every night since we have met and text each other all day). he loves me and i die on him. my mom and his whole family know about our ...

Our anniversary plans have turned into a fight, should I apologize?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4930 days ago

27 October 2010 (M) - My bf and I had a petty argument this week while organising a weekend away for our anniversary, and he was really stressed out at work and I tried to help, but in these circumstances he is the better one to plan holidays as he knows who, what and ...

Is my husband in love with his best friend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4929 days ago

27 October 2010 (M) - Hello all, Let me preface this by saying that I am a man and my husband is also a man, so if that makes you uncomfortable this is not the post for you... So here it is. I'm not sure where to start so I'll start with my husband and I have been ...

Why am I feeling like this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4930 days ago

27 October 2010 (F) - why am i feeling like this,i split with my partner of 15 years then after 2 years we got back together again,it was good in the beginning,now i dont feel happy again i dont know why,he is a good man.i keep having panic attacks and anxiety.an ex ...

In the heat of the argument I told him he has a tiny penis! I know I have screwed up, so how do I fix this?

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 3802 days ago

27 October 2010 (F) - Ok so ive been seeing this guy for a while now almost a year. He told me before that he always thought he had a small penis (he had been drinking, in fact i dont know if he remembers telling me that) but hes not small hes like 6.5 in. Ive been told ...

He's proposed, but where is the ring?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4930 days ago

27 October 2010 (F) - My boyfriend proposed to me a few weeks ago...Kind of. Basically, the subject has come up once or twice, in passing. He knew I would say yes if he asked. We were lying in bed, drifting off to sleep, and he started to speak, being very hesitant ...

Is it normal for him to masturbate to porn whenever I am not at home?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4930 days ago

27 October 2010 (F) - my guy masturbates every time I am not home to porn is this normal? Even if we have sex on a regular? It always makes me angry when I find out , should I be worried ? I have talked to him about it but he says its normal but it hurts my feelings ...

Was I just second best?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4930 days ago

27 October 2010 (F) - Ok, so i was a bit bored the other day and decided to look through the guy im seeing's facebook not to check up on him or anythin just out of curiosity really. So anyway we've been seein each other since the beginning of the year but we started ...

Should I confront her again and let her know that I don't appreciate her calling my man?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4930 days ago

27 October 2010 (F) - I'm in a 5yr. relationship with an super guy. He's everything that I could ask for in a man. He's a real man. But I am having a few problems with his female neighbor. She's an attractive black female, but he says that she's not his type and not to ...

I really like this guy but the sex is terrible because of his small penis!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4930 days ago

27 October 2010 (F) - Ive been with this guy for 8 mnths,my problem is that hes got a small penis.its like 3 inches but i didnt mind until we had sex,i didnt feel anything nothing what so ever.is there something wrong with me?i need help.or is it too small.i really like ...

My girlfriend asked who I was attracted to when I first started school, I told her the truth and now she wants a break!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4930 days ago

27 October 2010 (M) - Hi everyone. Thanks for checking my post So here's the situation. Yesterday, I had a VERY rough day. I was talking to my girlfriend, when all of a sudden she asks me this question. "Who do you find attractive when you first entered school?"...

I think he rejected me by ignoring the bit about dinner, was he ever interested in me or was it just a bit of fun?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4924 days ago

27 October 2010 (F) - 3 months ago I started a new job. I never go into work situations thinking I'll meet anyone who might be boyfriend material, so I never expected this... I start work late, a guy in my team starts early, so he's always there when I walk into work...

Is my partner gay because he sends rude texts to his male friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4927 days ago

27 October 2010 (F) - hi so i have a burning question my bloke talks dirty to his mates and also send really rude and descriptive disgusting texts to each other what i want to know is is he gay ? might sound silly but id like oppinions from people who ,maybe do this or ...

There is no room at the Inn for our best friend!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4930 days ago

27 October 2010 (F) - I have 2 best friends, named Ashley and Mary. Ashley has a job and is going to school, and Mary doesn't have a job and is doing an internship and not getting paid for it, and I have a job and I'm going to school. We have all been talking about mo...

How do I get their father to take an interest?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4930 days ago

27 October 2010 (F) - I got married and had two kids with my husband. After five years i quit due to some misunderstandings with my husband. I left with my two kids whom i am still taking care of all by myself.My peers and relatives advices me to fall in love again an...

My boyfriend cheated and lied like he was going for an emmy!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4920 days ago

27 October 2010 (F) - My boyfriend charles and I have been together for a year and 5 months. We have a three month old baby boy. During the last few weeks of my pregnancy we took a break. during this break he proposed that we would only have sex with each other we would ...

He just doesn't seem to make an effort anymore!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4930 days ago

27 October 2010 (F) - since my boyfriend started his apprenticeship 4 months ago he has never set foot in my house, i always have to go down to him. which until yesterday never bothered me. it was my birthday yesterday and he never even made the effort to appear. am a ...

We broke up, but now she is cheating on new b/f with me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4928 days ago

27 October 2010 (M) - Ok ill start off by saying that i dated my ex for 2 and a half years and we were friends for like 6 months before that. We took everything slow and we fell in love with each other. we had some problems at the end and she started ignoring me and ...

Sexy chatters don't know they are neighbours who don't speak

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4929 days ago

27 October 2010 (M) - Is very strange but its truth one of my friend from 2months chatting with a girl he'll ask her everything about sex dirty talk everything and she didn't see his face and never know him even she know he's stranger also ready to have sex with him but ...

I am hooked on the calls from a married man

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4930 days ago

27 October 2010 (F) - I am in love with a married man. We have known each other since High School. He has been married for 29 years. We have been talking for 1 year, we have never touched. We have talked about sex 7 or 8 times, the other times we talk about families, ...

I was a spoilt brat used to getting my own way

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4931 days ago

27 October 2010 (F) - I am 20 years old and i havnt had the best figures to follow i love my family but they arent educated and i appreciate them for getting me to where i am, i am the first o go to colege in my family besides my father who i didnt live with growing up, ...

Husband bullies teen daughter from previous marriage how do I get him to stop?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4900 days ago

27 October 2010 (F) - i met my husband when my daughter was 1 he was great with her till she hit puberty now he hates her. He blames her for everything expects perfection from her and hardly acknowledges the things she does he calls her lazy, putrid and a spazz. I have 2 ...

After two full on weekends he has stopped texting me goodnight

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4929 days ago

27 October 2010 (F) - i met this guy and he has took me out every day over the weekend for the past 2weeks and i think we have fallen fast for eachother we have this feeling like weve known eachother forever! im very confurtable with him we talk about everything together ...

When is it the end?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4931 days ago

27 October 2010 (F) - how do you honestly know when your relationship is at a end point...

I begged him not to break up with me

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27 October 2010 (F) - Hi,My boyfriend and been together for three years. He and I was in love but lately we been arguing and we broke up. He told me we have to be friends because he says he is scared. I beged himm but he wants to be friends with me and still talk to me. ...

Dating a week and his already in love ...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4929 days ago

27 October 2010 (F) - my boyfriend and i havent been dating for very long (one week) and hes already told me he loves me. my problem with that is..i dont feel the same way. i care about him and love hanging out with him and our friend who for now im going to name c. also ...

He doesn't help with our daughter much...what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4931 days ago

27 October 2010 (F) - Ok, So I (26) have been in a relationship with my boyfriend (25) for 2.5yrs. We live together and we have a 15 month old daughter. It seems every 3 months he gets very irritated and will pick a fight with me over something small, but it wi...

I don't get any attention from him....am I wasting my time with this guy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4930 days ago

27 October 2010 (?) - Dear Cupid, I need to know whether I should stay or go, my boyfriend of almost 4 years just doesn't seem too interested in trying to make our relationship work. A few months ago we stopped having sex and he stopped wanting it and so did I, I thought ...

Lately, I've been distancing myself from my boyfriend..and don't know why?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4930 days ago

27 October 2010 (F) - Hello im wondering if anyone can give me advice on what i am experiencing at the moment. I am nearly 22 and my bf of 6 months is also the same age. He is my 2nd relationship. I broke up with my 1st bf of 2 years about 5 months before i met my ...

Doubts or insecure?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4930 days ago

27 October 2010 (F) - Dear Cupid Me (28) and my boyfriend (30) have been together for a year and 6 months, of which we have been living together for a year. We are very happy together, respect, love and treasure each other and best of all we are best friends. I know ...

Am I just crazy and paranoid or what?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4917 days ago

27 October 2010 (F) - This may be a long description but you have to get the whole story. My boyfriend of 5 months and I met at work. He had a girlfriend at the time. We always flirted and had a good time when working together and we made each other laugh. One night he ...