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anonymous
writes:I am 37 (Italian) and two years ago I have met this 45-year old British guy. I think we quite liked each other since the beginning but nothing really happened between us (I live in the US, he lives in the Uk and we are both researchers) until a month ago. We kissed and, before it was too late, he said he was in a relationship and that 'he can t' leave her'. I was visibly hurt when he told me. I was only able to say that I really like him. He told me I am lovely and that he likes me too.. that I am funny, interesting, clever.'. He said he was sorry not to be able to offer me more. He said he is attracted to me and he likes holding me. He added that if he was not in a relationship it would be easier. He kept asking me if we will stay friends. Initially I said 'yes' (I was kind of shocked and could not think straight). Then I said 'no, I am not sure' and I left. When I returned to the US (we were in another country for work) I found a message from him. He was sorry for causing me pain. He said he didn't realize that our friendship might turn into something else. He added he wanted me to know that he likes me (he repeated he thinks I am funny, interesting, clever, etc.) and would like to be friends .. I am just so hurt and confused .. is he a womanizer or what ?
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 October 2010): No, apparently not, if he was you'd have not known about the other woman.
However, you are a lot of temptation for him.
Continue seeing him and you will become "the other woman".
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