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Archived questions from: 8 October, 2010 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

She say's she wants me to grow in my walk with God before we can have a relationship???

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4945 days ago

8 October 2010 (M) - I met a great, pretty girl at my college late this past summer. It felt like there was chemistry from the start, we were talking every day, hanging out a few times a week, texting alot, talking about fun things we could do in the future. It seemed ...

I am close to getting married but feel I might be making a BIG mistake

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4949 days ago

8 October 2010 (M) - I thought things were settling down after a recent spate of arguments between us. Here is a bit of background: I've always had a problem with my time management. I try to get around this by just forcing myself to set my watch faster etc. This...

Partner lied about marital status and now I'm pregnant with his child

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4949 days ago

8 October 2010 (F) - I have been with my "fiance" for over a year now. When we met he informed me of his situation, that he was divorced with 3 children and that he wanted to be with me, marry me etc. Fast forward to now, I am now pregnant with his child and long s...

I have fallen in love with someone else

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4949 days ago

8 October 2010 (F) - I know I will seem like a very selfish person but I need some advice. I am a 28 year old mother of two daughters and I have a wonderful husband who would do ANYTHING for me. He has always been respectful and tried to show his love. He is also a ...

The only time my b/f is nice is when he's drunk?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4948 days ago

8 October 2010 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 2 yrs. All of a sudden, we haven't been getting along at all. Seems the only time he's nice, is when he's drunk. Last week, I went out for drinks and a game of pool like I always do with a c...

I broke up with my boyfriend three weeks ago .............

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4947 days ago

8 October 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been out for about nearly a year. 5 days before our one year anniversary (bf+gf) i broke up with him. he messaged me the day we broke, that once he gets his life back on track, he'll come back for me again. the reason w...

We're supposed to be going to counseling together, but he hasn't went yet!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4949 days ago

8 October 2010 (F) - help!! ive been with my boyfriend now for 3 years. we have 3 kids together an have been threw alot!! there has been more downs then up an im currently doing counselling to help me change into a better person. the problem is he is ment to be doing it ...

I just can't get over him, please help

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4946 days ago

8 October 2010 (F) - Hi, I cant seem to get over my ex boyfriend! we broke up nearly 4 months ago and then got bk together but now have been broken up for over a month now! i cant remember any of the bad things that happend between us just the good and i miss him s...

Are her actions and remarks sarcastic?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4949 days ago

8 October 2010 (M) - i have been close friends with a beautiful woman 29 yrs old for 2 years now. i let it slip because of a situation that came up, that i have been in love with her. all was fine till that moment. she said she felt very awkward and i think she is ...

Living in fear of in-laws

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4948 days ago

8 October 2010 (F) - I got married to my husband last year in march and have been living with his father since. At first his father and I had a good relationship but lately he's changed he's a bit rough. I've talked to my husband about it and he has assured me that it'...

Hurt, confused, used

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4949 days ago

8 October 2010 (M) - my ex and i had some easy fix issues in our relationship that never got worked out because when I wanted to talk i was met with attitude. when we were at a dinner date the other day and with her knoledge i was fumbling through her new new phone I ...

My life is a mess and I feel trapped! HELP!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4949 days ago

8 October 2010 (F) - I'm 17, and I just can't DO this anymore. I don't know. I'm so bored, alone. Trapped in my city and I hate it so much. The only thing keeping me going is the promise of going to Univerisy next year, but that's stressing me out and I don't know. I'm ...

My girlfriend is hungry for a woman and doesn't want me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4942 days ago

8 October 2010 (M) - My girlfriend is bi-sexual. She got her last experience with a woman 3 years ago. She's hungry for a woman.. she want one badly.. so badly that she does'nt want me anymore! It's been 6 week we had sex and she's saying it's simply cause right now ...

She rejected me, is there any way to salvage our relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4949 days ago

8 October 2010 (M) - Good evening people! I need some advice here - just like everyone else posting on this website. I've fallen for one of my closest female friends. The rumours were circling around the school were quite rife, so she already /kind of/ knew befor...

I'm nervous to watch porn with my man!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4947 days ago

8 October 2010 (F) - I recently saw my boyfriend watching porn, he does a few times a week he didn't know that I knew, it bothered me but I decided to ask him if we can watch together, he of course is all for it, the problem is I'm not quit sure how to act, I mean I ...

When his daughter is here I'm invisible!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4949 days ago

8 October 2010 (?) - I hate to be 'one of those women', but I don't understand why I feel this way. My boyfriend and I have been dating for over a year now. We both have one child from previous relationships. He a daughter (4) and I a son (3). We have also been living ...

I am stuck in a situation and do not know how to help myself.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4945 days ago

8 October 2010 (F) - I am a grown up person, divorced with a grown up child and I should know better, but I am stuck in a situation and do not know how to help myself. I know that I should leave him specially at my age I must know better. I think/know he is dating...

If I keep acting like this I'm going to lose my best friend!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4949 days ago

8 October 2010 (F) - Hi guys, I've posted on here before about this same problem but I'm still having trouble dealing. I fell for my best friend completely after we slept together a couple of times and I just can't seem to get over it and I'm worried I'm going to end...

He's sneaking around, how is it my fault?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4948 days ago

8 October 2010 (F) - After being with my boyfriend for eleven months, we were on the computer together. He was going through emails and I happened to catch a glance at something. Knowing he would flip out if I brought it up that exact second, I wanted to do a little ...

How do I get my daughter to see what a jerk her boyfriend really is?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4947 days ago

8 October 2010 (F) - I need advice. My daughter has bee dating her boyfriend for 4 months now. She thinks they're serious. He turned 21 a few weeks ago and chose to spend his birthday with another girl...."just a friend"...because she promised (after he and my daughter ...

Does it mean he really doesn't love me if he can't respect me enough to tell me the truth?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4949 days ago

8 October 2010 (F) - Does it mean he really doesn't love me if he can't respect me enough to tell me the truth? I see lying as a lack of respect. And I have doubts that true love and disrespect can co-exist. People talk about lying to someone to "not hurt them," b...

Do I bite my lip for the sake of the kids?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4949 days ago

8 October 2010 (F) - ive been with my boyfriend for over 8yr.yes we have children together,but i notice about 2yr. in we were so different we have nothing in commin just are kids,i stayed so long because we have kid,but i do have love for him,but i am not in love with ...

I ditched everyone to marry him and then he changed his mind! Now he wants me to drop everything again!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4944 days ago

8 October 2010 (F) - Dear cupid, i feel so lost and confused i'm not sure of anything anymore . i'm 19 and i just got engaged to my boyfriend of 1 yr and 2 months i'm really young i know but i love him so much he's all I've ever wanted and i can't picture my life wit...

Seriously ill past acquaintance wants to get back in my life again...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4943 days ago

8 October 2010 (F) - Hi Now this may seem heartless even merciless if being extreme but this is how it is.... I knew a woman who has 4 children a few years ago. She was living in a refuge and I allowed her into my home to get away sometimes. The thing is...her c...

Is her love for me as two-faced as her love for her family?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4949 days ago

8 October 2010 (M) - Have i mis understood or do i simply walk away? Last night i told my girlfriend of my paranoid jealousy and told her i didn't want her to go to skegness on the 80's weekend with her sister. She told me she would help me and stand by me and suppor...

Is there any hope? He wants space!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4945 days ago

8 October 2010 (F) - i have been with my boyfriend since may, we met hit it off right away and saw each other everyday. only 4 weeks after we met he had to move home to where his family was which is about 3 hours total on a train. i left the decision up to him about ...

I Love Him, But Can He Forgive My Past?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4948 days ago

8 October 2010 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost two months now (not long huh?) and everything was fine last night. we were out with some friends having a meal and we had an arguement on the way home (i've been staying at his for the best part of a ...

A lost 15 year old

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4940 days ago

8 October 2010 (F) - Moderator's Note: Two questions combined. Soo, I have a crush on this one guy at school, and I thinking I'm actually starting to like him. I only have 1 class with him, so I don't see him often. We hang out with different groups. The only thing we...

We argue alot after sex! Is it because I'm not satisfied?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4949 days ago

8 October 2010 (F) - I have a problem in my relationship which is really starting to get to me. My boyfriend and I have been together for about 9 months. He is loving, kind and generous. The problem we have is in the bedroom (or so I think). When we meet up, we ar...

Did I make a huge mistake and push him away?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4949 days ago

8 October 2010 (F) - I met this guy Jacob at church and weve been hanging out alot, and i kinda started liking him in the beginning and thought he did too..time went by we started getting to know each other more and more and i felt he really liked me so i kind of told ...

How can I stop fighting with him and just make him happy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4949 days ago

8 October 2010 (F) - Ok, now with a man i would like to know what's the best thing to really make him happy? And how do i seriously stop myself from arguing and fighting with him? I love him dearly and i want to make this work but i know the arguing pushes him away... ...

I get close to them and then the spark is gone?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4949 days ago

8 October 2010 (F) - Help i need advice asap please :/ Hi well my problem is me i and the way i treat my guy friends.I am 18 and have yet to have my first boyfriend,but i have a bunch of guy friends and well it has been causing some drama in our tight group.My main pro...

She is losing faith in me and I don't know what to do!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4949 days ago

8 October 2010 (F) - My fiance and I have been engadge for one month, one month ago we were in malysia and bali, it trully was the best holiday that I have ever had. She too agrees.in 20 day of the holiday, we never had a disagreement, argument or anything negative...

I think he's rather take my friend to homecoming rather than me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4949 days ago

8 October 2010 (F) - Apologies for the longness in advance. This guy that I kind of like (and used to "like" me) asked me to homecoming. Of course I said yes. But what bothers me is that he makes me feel like an option. It may be I'm overreacting but it seemed l...

Should I tolerate my girlfriend spending time with a guy who likes her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4949 days ago

8 October 2010 (M) - Situation: My girlfriend and I have been in a relationship for over a year and since about 2 months ago she has mentioned how she has made a new guy friend and they have on a number of occasions since been out for drinks, dancing, and dinner (but ...

Why do I keep baming myself that its my fault the relationship failed?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4945 days ago

8 October 2010 (M) - my girlfriend of four years broke up with me. she is an english teacher and she got 2 master degree, 1 in english n 1 in writing. she is asian which came over to this country more than 30 years ago, she always have great family support. when she was ...