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Archived questions from: 25 October, 2010 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

He isn't here for me the way I am for him! My grandma died and he hasn't been of any help at all!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4932 days ago

25 October 2010 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been dating for three months and our relationship is good and bad. we have taken breaks and end up missing each other too much and get back together before the break is over! but a few days ago my grandma died and he hasn't ...

I feel guilty and foolish for being open! So is it best to close up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4932 days ago

25 October 2010 (F) - My first boyfriend of almost two years is great. I can’t find many things wrong with him, in fact, next to him, I’ve been feeling almost inadequate! He is careful when he speaks. He tries to avoid conversations with emotional weight or bias. ...

Save my relationship with my mother!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4932 days ago

25 October 2010 (F) - My mother and I have a very stressful relationship. I reside in another city but due to a job change I will be moving back in w/ her, my brother, and her fiance. My mother and I, when apart, can often talk w/ out issue. However, when we are together ...

Boyfriend will not let me leave

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4931 days ago

25 October 2010 (F) - my boyfriend expects me to be with him all the time, and on the weekend he had some crisps and i ate one and he just flipped and threw the plate at me and it smashed everywhere, and he went off upstairs to the bedroom, so i cleaned everything up, ...

He says I'm the one for him, but I'm concerned about his passion for sports!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4932 days ago

25 October 2010 (F) - I am a 27 year old female and have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for over a year now. We live together now, and he constantly brings up marriage and children and tells me he has no question in his mind that I'm the one for him. I really ...

He says he doesn't want a label?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4932 days ago

25 October 2010 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have dated for 4 going on 5 months and for the other 2 months he wanted to be "talking" to fix our problems. But we never got back together. We are still "talking". Now he doens't want that. He doesn't want a label on it any ...

I don't want to lose her but girlfriend is playing games with me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4932 days ago

25 October 2010 (M) - hello i have a problem with my girlfriend that i have been with a year and a half we had a good realtionship but every couple of months she would leave her excuess was i was controlling she would get in trouble and and call me to bail her out any...

My daughter told me she is bisexual and I don't know how to handle this?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4331 days ago

25 October 2010 (F) - My 17 year old daughter has been trying to tell me she is bisexual for the last six months.I have responded with kids today are bicurious and that is what she is doing. Each time she mentioned it I would cut off the conversation, and say I can't ...

Iv been cheated upon in previous relationships and its making me insecure about my present one!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4932 days ago

25 October 2010 (F) - ive been with my boyfriend for a year and he's my bestfriend but im very inscure because previouse boyfriends have cheated on me i keep thinking everytime he's not with me hes with other girls and it makes us argue alot, i don't know what to do ...

Who do I believe? My girlfriend or my boyfriend? Do I dump him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4932 days ago

25 October 2010 (F) - i got invited to my boyfriend best mates party but fell really ill on the dy so was unable to go. later that night a my boyfriend kept ringing me but i was asleep so did not answert the phone. when i did wake up i had several missed calls. i rang ...

He said he loves me and is missing me and suddenly wants nothing to do with me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4932 days ago

25 October 2010 (F) - I have been dating a guy for 8 months previously we had been best friends for a few years. We have been having a difficult month due to moving home and him being made redundant. Then one day out of the blue he text me to say he wasnt happy, w...

Hes scared but says I'm the best thing he could ever hope for....why is he running away?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4932 days ago

25 October 2010 (F) - im gonna start off saying its Oct 23 i got out of a 5 year relationship in june he got out of a 3 year in july....he been coming my work constantly finally asked me out first of sep . Things were the best. We couldnt of hit it off more we hung out ...

I broke up with my boyfriend yesterday but I want him back, how long should I wait to call him?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4932 days ago

25 October 2010 (F) - I just broke up with my bf yesterday. he's 32. im 20. We've known each other for 8 months. I broke up with him because I couldn't trust him anymore. after breaking up he called me but I didn't answer so he sent this to me: "I am very sorry that ...

Some days its like World War II

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4932 days ago

25 October 2010 (F) - Me and my partner got together shortly after he broke up with his ex I was the main Reason I suppose and the fact he was sick of her leaving every 5 seconds and her using there child to get at him I try my best to put my feelings aside when it ...

I am having an affair with my first love ...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4932 days ago

25 October 2010 (F) - I've being married for 8ys but so much in love with my first love who's with someone. We meet and ended up in bed. I just went him bac. Please help...

Its got so bad I really do want to end it, but he is all I have. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4929 days ago

25 October 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for a little over a year and a half and things have gotten to the point where I don't know what to do with our relationship so I thought I'd reach out here. I'm 18 and my boyfriend is 23 when we first started ...

We've not spoken for 2 weeks following our fight, what shall I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4932 days ago

25 October 2010 (F) - me and my boyfriend had a fight. and the last thing my boyfriend said was ' my mind is upset n i dont want to speak anything just now or ill say something bad by mistake then it'll create more problem.. the next day i called he did not pick up and n...

Is it decietful to not confess to cheating in the past?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4932 days ago

25 October 2010 (F) - MOD NOTE Two questions from same asker combined. Q: 1 Can someone say that they have grown and matured after they have cheated on someone, if they plan to never tell their partner they cheated on them? Can someone actually feel that they will ne...

I invited her out but she wants to bring a friend ...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4932 days ago

25 October 2010 (M) - I know a girl for sometime and we do share some chemistry between us. Now I have invited her to come out for a coffee which she agreed to. Unfortunately her friend from overseas is also over to c her (didn't c that coming) and so she wants to bring ...

As soon as we were married everything changed!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4932 days ago

25 October 2010 (F) - I am a 39yr white female. I married a 46yr black male. This is the first time that I have ever stepped out of my race. Governor and I got together on 09/20/09 We got married 05/24/10. Prior to marriage, he and I had a wonderful relationship. ...

This feud with my friend has ruined everything! How can I get over it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4932 days ago

25 October 2010 (F) - I had a friend of 2 years and at the time we became friends, I had a boyfriend. Me and my friend were so close, we were like sisters and I cared about her a lot. I hope the feeling was mutual. There was a lot of competition and jealousy in our ...

Am I being too harsh on her?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4932 days ago

25 October 2010 (M) - hi dearcupids, me again lol :( i just want a bit of re-assurance that im doing the right thing. - me and my ex are trying to be friends, she initiated the breakup with a modified LBJF talk...so i tried to convince her that inst what i wa...

Is there a way out of this mess? I feel like I cannot cope anymore....

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4931 days ago

25 October 2010 (M) - I am an Orphan brought up by one of my Uncles who is no more.At the age of 27 one of Aunties(Uncle's side)took pity on my bachelor life and proposed to get me married to some one whose parents my Autny had known for years.As it turned out later on ...

Why does he behave this way?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4932 days ago

25 October 2010 (F) - Iam a married woman and developed a friendship with a married guy in one of our projects.This guy is very religious, which actually made me his friend as i too have an inclination to spirituality. But every now and then he stops calling or seems to ...

How long should I wait and should I send flowers?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4932 days ago

25 October 2010 (M) - I broke up with my girlfriend three weeks ago. I did not contact her for a few weeks, but then decided to contact her and ask her to meet up to discuss us. We had a lovely dinner and I asked her if she wanted to try again. When we broke up I asked ...

I need help, I just want him out of my life!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4932 days ago

25 October 2010 (F) - There's this guy who has a creepy obsession with a close friend of mine. He's head over heels for her, but she simply isn't interested. Well a little while ago I was at her house, we were just chilling. She got a call from the guy that likes her and ...

Should I listen to my heart or my head?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4932 days ago

25 October 2010 (F) - I have been with my partner for nearly 20 years,we split up for 2 years, but have been back together for 2 years,during the time we was apart we both had relationships with different people,it didnt workout for me because the guy i was with had ...

My boyfriend of 2 years has changed so much, could he be cheating?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4932 days ago

25 October 2010 (F) - I'm 15 and i've been dating my 15 year old bf for almost 2 years and i know him better than he knows himself sadly. we use to hang out every single day for as long as possible. we go to different high schools. we used to cuddle kiss hug all the time ...

Should I get married , will I ever be happy ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4932 days ago

25 October 2010 (F) - i am 32 years old unmarried girl from india, wanted someone with true love but i dont know how i got stuck with a married man,since 7 years i kepton loving him, we did foreplay also, but never let him do the penetration, as i just wanted my husband ...

Does fighting make a relationship stronger?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4932 days ago

25 October 2010 (M) - I have a problem. My gf and I have been fighting quite a lot recently, and we always say were sorry, but the fights get worse and warse, is it true that fighting makes relationships stronger? Because she is giving hints that she wants to give up on ...

Our sex life seems to be the only thing holding us together

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4927 days ago

25 October 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and i have been arguing alot lately. He doesnt seem as happy. He never wants to go out on the weekends anymore. Or sex life seems to be the only thing holding us together. how do i know thats not the only thing he wants? he still tells ...

Why is he ignoring someone he wanted to date?

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25 October 2010 (F) - My boss told me he was interested in me and i told him i feel the same but didnt want to rush into anything but i do want to get to know him. Well we have been having great conversations, we have fun around eachother but havent had time to go on a ...

Why is she exploding at me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4932 days ago

25 October 2010 (M) - ok im 16 years old and ive never been so confused in my life. my girlfriend's mom took her fone and when she got it back i asked her what was wrong and she said forget it and when i told her i wanted to help but i couldnt unless she told me what was ...

LDR-I don't think he even enjoys talking to me anymore

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4928 days ago

25 October 2010 (F) - So I've written about my guy before. But pretty much we are in a long distance relationship, we began dating in college. I'm in grad school about to finish and he is working for a law firm 1000 miles away. First he was nervous about passing th...

I didn't treat my friend well, now she won't have anything to do with me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4933 days ago

25 October 2010 (F) - if anybody will help, do you think all problems have a solution?? i have a problem that is just making me so depresed i had a friend who i didnt treat well sometimes shes mad at me or feels she needs a time apart.But it has been months already and ...

He asked if I was going to talk to him, but he is the one who stopped talking to me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4933 days ago

25 October 2010 (F) - September 15th was the 3 year anniversary of my bf and I. On Monday, September 19th, he had got home from work and called me and told me his parents were arguing and his mom was packing up and "going to a tradeshow" for a week and left him $1000. My ...

I took his money as a joke and he called me a thief and dumped me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4932 days ago

25 October 2010 (F) - My problem is this: My bf and I were fighting lately and that night we were also arguing for silly stuffs. I regret for all my actions while I was drunk and I did things that I shouldnt do for example, that night, my bf and his brothers were pla...

I was having sex with a married man, now he wont talk to me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4925 days ago

25 October 2010 (F) - i am single and the man i started seeing is married but is here working in my state.he says his wife wont come down and see him and she dont really have much to do with him when he is home.before we started having sex, he was my customer at a ...

Boyfriend gives me trouble but I just live with it...Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4932 days ago

25 October 2010 (F) - I have been in a twenty year relationship with a man from Mexico, I am from Europe and it has been a very strange relationship, one where it's as if we are together becuase we are lonely. We both got together when i had recently got left behind by ...

How to deal with my co-worker who is also my baby daddy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4933 days ago

25 October 2010 (F) - About two years ago I met a man at work. He was charming, sweet, made me laugh, and above all seemed to respect me. We went out on several dates during our first year together, we drank, laughed and just had a great time. Then the unthinkable ...

I have this bad bad problem with my best friend and boyfriend! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4933 days ago

25 October 2010 (F) - Hi, I have a problem my best friend is in love with me, but i have a boyfriend. We've been best friends since 1st grade, and i dont think of him that way only as a brother, we call and text and hang out a-lot, but he always makes me uncomfortable, ...