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Archived questions from: 23 October, 2010 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

My fiance got arrested, am I being selfish?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4934 days ago

23 October 2010 (F) - My fiance got into some trouble with the law a few days ago. We are all pretty upset about it, including him. When we went to bail him out of jail, he went straight to his dad and hugged him for minutes and broke down. He hugged me for about 5 ...

I think he is only with me because of our baby. How can I be sure?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4931 days ago

23 October 2010 (F) - I think he is only with me because of our baby. How can I be sure? He in no way shows that he loves me or even cares about my feelings. When I'm angry at him he never apologises and tries to make out like I'm the bad person. He never wants to spend ...

So sick of my husband!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4833 days ago

23 October 2010 (F) - please help ive been married for 5 years, my husband dont cuddle, kiss or have sex with me unless he has been drinking, he goes out to the pub lunch time and comes back when he feels like it and thinks its ok. he constantly complains about my son ...

Does he just want the physical with me???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4933 days ago

23 October 2010 (F) - Dear Cupid, I am in a relationship with a guy from past ten months.. but everything seems to have changed by now.. earlier he used to be all luvie-duvie, talking to me all night.. but now he wants to sleep early, does not want to listen to what I g...

Why won't he just leave me alone?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4934 days ago

23 October 2010 (F) - Hi, i was seeing this guy for a few months, i then saw he was quite a jealous person and was after control of me. Slowly i have begun to detatch from him and told him we are not compatible and just to leave it now, as for another thing i dont think ...

He's making me feel worthless... what do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4934 days ago

23 October 2010 (F) - I'm a 23 year old female who is dating a 27 year old man and our relationship to me is going nowhere. he never wants to listen to my feelings or how i feel. he is always right and im always to blame. i had to basically stop talking to my guy friends ...

I have a 30% chance of living so he dumped me for his ex

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4934 days ago

23 October 2010 (M) - I fell for this man, he was everything to me. I was diagnosed with cancer, which is spreading to my lungs...I have a 30% chance of getting through it...but when I saw messages on Kellen* phone (I was using it because mine was broken) I noticed ...

He asked me to be his FWB buddy and I said yes because I love him!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4933 days ago

23 October 2010 (F) - Okay. I'm 14 and I'm in love with one of my best friends (guy). He knows and he says he loves me too. I have known him for ages and we went out for a while too. Then we decided to just be best friends again but we are what he calls ' fuck buddies ' ...

I am falling for my ex's cousin!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4934 days ago

23 October 2010 (F) - For about a week my feelings for one of my closest friends have grown even more. We talk every night on msn because we don't see each other at school and talk for hours on end. And on Tuesday night I wrote on my personal message saying 'your so ...

Help me !! I want peace of mind and happiness

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4934 days ago

23 October 2010 (M) - I am almost 40 now earning well and feeling settled in life after building my career and struggling to get to this comfortable status. Just when I thought my life begins now... the so called hell broke loose. Pre- marriage : I met my wife...

My husband said I deserved to get cancer ...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4934 days ago

23 October 2010 (F) - I recently had a breast cancer scare and thankfully have just found out that whilst I'm Ill it's not cancer... Phew!! But my husband was really werid and uncaring through the whole thing and the final thing was when the results came back he said " w...

Hotel employee keeps hitting on me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4933 days ago

23 October 2010 (F) - I am staying a season at a bed and breakfast in a very small rural community. The innkeepers' 20 year-old son works for his parents doing odd jobs around the place (maintenance, shuttle driving, etc.), so I have to deal with him pretty often. Every ...

Dumped by text with no reason given, I am STILL MAD!

This question has 26 answers - newest was posted 4920 days ago

23 October 2010 (F) - I was seeing my boy for almost a year. Then he dumped me out of the blue, for no reason. He knew I was in love with him. He dumped me by text and insulted me. I would never cheat and I was a great girlfriend. Its been 4 months since the breakup and ...

This site makes me feel worse, not better!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4934 days ago

23 October 2010 (F) - I recently learned of this site via some friends, as 3 months ago I went through a very bad break-up with The Only Woman I ever loved and still love. And, with my recent introduction to and utilization of this site, I have found that it has only ...

I think he likes me but I am not sure ...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4934 days ago

23 October 2010 (F) - hi im a 15 yr old girl an i need some advice.ok so me and this guy friend i,ve known for some years have been flirting with each other at school and stuff then he found something i wrote in the back of one of my books with stuff i like about him(ya ...

I guess this is how heartbreak feels

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4934 days ago

23 October 2010 (F) - eh I guess I should start with the story first before going straight for the question, seeing it will be confusing if I don't. I have this crush. I have a crush on my teach for two years, he's 26 and I just turned 18, last month. He's always so k...

My ex asks a lot of questions about my private life ...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4934 days ago

23 October 2010 (F) - My ex who i have a child with,asks me alot of questions about me and my private life not just about the child, i was seeing him for around two years.He then left me and got married 3 mounths later.Do you think this is a controll thing or a bit of ...

I beleive my ex is stalking me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4934 days ago

23 October 2010 (F) - I been dating this guy wll over an year. Things started to go bad when his child mother came back in his life. She started to cause problems. We resolved our issue and move on. Now months later she back. I accused him on playing on my phone and ...

My boyfriend complains that I am not pulling my weight!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4934 days ago

23 October 2010 (F) - My relationship is on the verge of breaking... or I think ...and the sad thing is that I am not sure how to fix it or if it can be fix at all. The thing is that I moved in to another city to be with my bf about a year ago. About 6 months ago, I ...

We think she has become an attention whore!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4933 days ago

23 October 2010 (F) - I have known my best friends, "Yve" and "Kali" for my entire live. I'm the youngest of our trio however I was always the most "Mother Hen-ish", but as recently as two years ago Yve became much more independant than always clinging onto me. At fir...

He is a good guy but often bails out on me, tells lies and puts me on the back burner!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4934 days ago

23 October 2010 (F) - I've been with this guy for almost 5 months now (we're both 19). He's a good guy. He means well, and I know he cares about me. The only problem is his lack of maturity. He's a month away from possibly losing his license for a year, and he's yet to ...

My boyfriend has reneged on giving up weed now that I am pregnant!

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23 October 2010 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for over 8 years now and over the course of high school and college. Now, we are both out in the real world working full time and building our future together. My boyfriend and I have both smoked pot recreationally, ...

My married neighbour keeps flashing her cleavage at me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4934 days ago

23 October 2010 (M) - My neighbour lady is 36 years old and married. She is always showing her cleavage by bending down in front of me. I don't know it is accidently or not. We are also friends. I likes her very much and wants her. But i don't know if she wants me or ...

She is so perfect I wimp out and can't talk to her!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4933 days ago

23 October 2010 (M) - I have been falling for this girl for a little while now, she is everything a guy could ever want. pretty like drop dead gorgeous funny smartest person I know even if her grades don't reflect it and she has an amazing voice for singing. toda...

Married co-worker keeps staring at me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4934 days ago

23 October 2010 (M) - Hello. I am 30 and work in IT. I am married and have a seven year old son. I have always been faithful to my wife (and any previous partners) and will continue to remain. I am trying to figure out what to do about a married female co-worker...

My ex-girlfriend was a compulsive liar, but I still love her!

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23 October 2010 (M) - i have had a compulsive liar of an ex gf and she even went as far as to say her ex bf hung himself. even though we broke up a year ago i have started to love her again and am gettin jealous again that she with other guys even though its just to make ...

I'm scared to move in with my boyfriend and his father, they are difficult to live with!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4935 days ago

23 October 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I are pregnant and even though i spend the night at his house daily I still don't live with him 100%.Im a little scared to move in cus he's a difficult person to live with, and so is his father.Im scared that if i move in we'll ...

My marriage is such a mess!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4934 days ago

23 October 2010 (F) - How can I get past this, or should I even keep trying? My husband of 21 years had to fly to Texas because my father in law was dying. I had to remain home because of extra expenses of me and the kids. My husband shared a hotel room with his brother, ...

Should I tell my mother I am addicted to porn?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4914 days ago

23 October 2010 (F) - I watch a lot of porn and I know I should not but I do because I'm addicted. Should I tell my mom so she can block it? Or do you no ways to become unaddicted ?! Please help!...

Will my boyfriend notice that I am a virgin?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4934 days ago

23 October 2010 (F) - i'm 22 yrs old and i'm a virgin by december im going to cabo to be with my bf and he thinks im not a virgin ive masturbated and donde sexual things but never had a man in my life and im freakin out and im scared to be with him will he notice im a ...

I am afraid a guy I met online will tell all and the life I have built will crumble

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4930 days ago

23 October 2010 (M) - Hey everyone heres my problem . i started at a different college for the second time . quite quicky i was put on the rugby team . for many years i had / still am unsure about who i am - seeing as so many people have played cruel mind games...