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My bf's mom doesn't give me attention when I come over.

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Question - (18 October 2010) 1 Answers - (Newest, 19 October 2010)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hi. I've been with my bf for 15 months now and we love each other very much. He lives with his folks and I often come by, but never slept over. We're both virgins and all we do is cuddle. We agreed to start having sex when I'm ready. Anyway, whenever I come by, his mom doesn't give me any attention. She's never asking me anything about myself, she doesn't seem interested in me what-so-ever. We say "hi how are you?" and she's going to her room. I'm being as nice as possible, I sincerely compliment her when she gets new haircuts or prepares a great lunch. I never cross the line with the compliments, because it's not my thing. Otherwise, she asks me to sleep over when I leave late in the evening. I didn't tell anything to my bf about my thoughts regarding this, that she probably doesn't like me. But why doesn't she like me? And if she doesn't, then why is she insisting on me sleeping over in the same room with my bf? Any thoughts? Thanks.

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A male reader, Ven United States +, writes (19 October 2010):

It may just be the way she is. It could be that she and her son have a history that requires her to stay out of his relationships.

If she doesn't want you leaving at night, I don't know how that could mean anything besides she likes you.

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