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writes:i recently left the father of my two children i had enough of all the misstreatment. he verbaly humiliated me, ocacionally pushed me around. he is very weird somedays he treats me really good but other days he doesnt stop telling me he hates me and thati am a bitch. i told him to leave me alone but for some reason he still doesnt get it. he is messing me up i have low self esteem and i am depressed. i was a very outgoing and fun person before, now i just want to give up on life and man i dont know if i hate him or still have feelings for him i really need help ?
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (13 November 2012):
 That's brilliant, glad to hear a good outcome and I am happy that you have your life back, hope you have a happy future.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 November 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwell i left him july 4 2011 its been going good i have a new job at a restaurant bar / nightclub i enjoy life i also fell in love with a new guy who loves me like crazy i never thought i would get over him but i did and i never felt so good in my life thanks to those who gave me advise my god bless u always for that
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 October 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you i will take ur advise it is very help full...:]
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reader, aunt honesty +, writes (18 October 2010):
Go and visit your doctor and he will get you some medical help with some group or councellor. He has torn your self confidence apart and ripped you shred by shred you need to get away from this man and cut all contact with him, change your number and delete his and any other way he has contact with you, if he lands at your door tell him you will ring the police if he lands at you again. Tell him you want nothing to do with him.
Is there anyone that could maybe take the children to his so that you dont have contact him while you are sorting your head out? This will take time and believe me it wont be easy but your doctor will help you and if you dont have the children go out with friends and do fun activities and organise nights out to bring up your confidence.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 October 2010): i'm sure it will get better with time. you left a bad situation and should be very proud of just that. just give it some time, keep your mind occupied with other things (your children) just be yourself again. No one is watching to make fun of you, hurt you, hummiliate you or embarass you anymore. Enjoy it and give it time. im sure it will be ok.
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