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writes:So I've been dating this girl for 1 1/2 years and shes is the most amazing person i have ever met hands down. My problem is that recently at a party she had sex with one of my "friends". They started texting about personal things behind my back and he gave her advice on our relationship that was hurting behind my back. I want to take her to come back to me so bad but she is to busy trying to decide if she wants me or this other guy. She regrets that affair ever happend and is broken between the two of us. What should i do. And I even suspected them before it happend and i cornered him at the store and asked him if he would do this to me and he said no. I want her so bad but i dont know what to do.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 May 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionYou know what i am getting to that point even though it is hard for me. Whenever she comes and talks to me shes is crying and balling her face out wanting to make it work, and whenever she leaves she has her sister and the other guy, whom i wanna give the beat down of his life, make her think its okay. I told her if she really needs to think about it get away from anyone that would influence that decision, and what shes doing is really starting to tell me what she thinks she wants and is pushing me away from her. thanks for the advice so far everyone.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 May 2010): I think you are so hung on this girl to the point that its gone beyond desperate! Sorry to be harsh but she cheated on you AND then can't decide if she wants you back...and you are still keen to stand on the shelf saying..."chose me, chose me!". One of the reasons she will not respect you enough to be REAL sorry for cheating is that she knows whatever she does will be cool with you!
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reader, Cherry_Blossom99  +, writes (19 May 2010):
 Hi, you need to let her go! It doesnt matter how much you love her, or if she is the most amazing person you've ever met - she cheated on you with your friend. She slept with someone else. She knows that you love her and she is amazing which is why she loves having two men who want her and she is keeping you hanging. if she loved you like she should there wouldnt be a choice to make. Could you sleep with someone else whilst being with her? 9 time out of 10 a leopard does not change its spots so just move on and there are plenty of amazing people out there for you to find who will treat you as well as you treat them. Good luck xx
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (19 May 2010):
My friend, believe me when I say this. Let her go. She has totally blown any trust you can have in her. And she still can't make her mind up about who she wants, which means that for the rest of your life you will be worried that every time she goes out she is seeing him. Take off those rose tinted love glasses and look at what this girl has done to you. She has cheated on you with your friend. You can't trust her with anything at all. Believe me, there are a million better women out there.
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