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writes:okay. this might take a while. soooo.i been with this girl for a year. we have been on and off not down to me. the first time she dumped me she gave me no real answers as to why, it took a while to get back together and then we did and everything was perfect. she suddenly started acting funny around me, asking for some space, i had no idea what i had done, later on she dumped me for a second time. which hurt alot. i promised myself i would not get back with her, knowing she had done this twice to me, then i found something out. she was depressed and felt that she couldnt talk about it to me. she also had servral suicide attempts, which is very out of charachter. i wanted to be there for her but didnt no it was happening as we had nc. now im back in her life as friends but for the first time ever, she knows im not interested in her and now she wants to ring me and text me all the time, rather than the other way around. i still love her, just trying to prove to her and myself that i dont, just seems like a full circle turn around and seems like i have some control finally, because for a year i havent. i dont even no wat im asking, i guess im thinking does she actually love me, and only dump me because of what she was going through, do you think i should try to move on but always hold a place in case she wants to come back, or is this a definate no go back after it has happened twice. thankyou for listening to me moan
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 May 2010): I'm really sorry to say this, but you are her plaything right now. She knows now that she can have you whenever she wants.She dumped you the first time because she was bored, then she wanted you back because you were interesting again. She started to act weird because you might have been boring to her.I'm not saying you're boring, I'm saying she likes the attention you give her but she doesn't want it forever.It's good that you're finally taking a stand and now that you are, she thinks you're interesting again. So don't give in, she will continue to hurt you over and over if you let her walk all over you.Good luck and stay strong!
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