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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I have been in a relationship for almost 2 years now and i love him but we fight alot. I have dreams very often about a guy who i liked even before i got into the relationship and i think about him all the time and im pretty sure he has some kind of feeling for me. But he has a girlfriend and i dont want to break up with a great guy to see if something else will work out and then it ends up not working. What should I do?
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reader, PeanutButter +, writes (20 May 2010):
 I think you need to first address any issues in your current relationship that might have you feeling as though you are not fulfilled enough that you even consider thinking about another guy.
Regardless of your feelings for someone else, you must be true to yourself and not hang on to a partner just because leaving him for someone else might leave you single - it is hardly fair on your current partner if he is a throw away commodity that you WOULD let go if the other man said HEY, I WANT TO BE WITH YOU!!
You should probably try and step back from the other guy for a while and really try to get him out of your head for the sake of your relationship and his.
If you really can't do this, you need to be honest with yourself with your current partner and let him go.
If the other man isn't interested in you, that's ok. At least you'll be being honest and true to yourself, your partner and the situation.
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