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writes:Hey guys,So heres my situation.Last night i was with a guy i like.It was only our second meeting but things got on and we started making out and before i knew it there was sex.I know i should have waited when i think of it now.Moreover i was so so tired and sleepy, and because i'd known him for such a short while the emotional comfort was missing.The chemistry wasn't happening and i felt void doing it.I told him im tired and i must have come off too passive because he got annoyed finally and walked off in the middle. Now i know that was a insensitive thing to do. But our chemistry before the sex was actualy amazing and he had said he really liked me. Should i be the one to apoligise because he thought i was too cold or unresponsive? I want to win him back even as a friend. Or should i let him get back on his own? What do i do? Reply to this Question
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reader, Cherry_Blossom99 +, writes (19 May 2010):
 I think you should apologise, explain that you were very tired and not feeling your best, and remind him of how much chemistry you had before and how much you like him - you may need to cool things off and just hang out as friends for a while x
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (19 May 2010):
I think you need to apologize. That was most likely a very deep blow on his male ego. If he did think you were cold and unresponsive, then you need to go talk to him. And since you did slightly say that you were tired in the middle of it, he will have been thinking that you weren't interested in the slightest.
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