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*rook_e_boo
writes:Hi everyoneme and my boyfriend have been dating for 2 weeks but its our 2nd time dating, before it lasted 3 weeks and i really really like him like a lot and he treats me really bad. he flirts with other girls in front of me even when were holding hands sometimes and its getting really ridiculous, i broke up with him the 1st time we dated because he was flirting with this girl tearrisa and i cried myself to sleep pretty much evey day until we got back together so being without him hurts a lot also. and i tried talking to him because my freind like made me. and all he said was he did not think i was the jealous type. my mom has been teling me not to date him for like the whole time ive been dating him and my friends kno how bad he is and they tell me to talk to him but when do he ignores me more than usual and i just can't take it anymore something needs to change.. when he is not being a jerk he is so romantic and sweet he is the hottest guy the jock everyone wants he has the perfect body and he is my dream guy exept when were around ppl Im Not breaking up with him but idk what to do???
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reader, Brook_e_boo +, writes (26 December 2010):
Brook_e_boo is verified as being by the original poster of the question i don't think he will break up with me but now im concidering breaking up with him... but i would proble feel worse when i do cause i see him every day so idk im not convinced
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reader, dirtball +, writes (23 December 2010):
 "Im Not breaking up with him but idk what to do???"
Enjoy your misery. That's all you have ahead of you. Enjoy the STD's he'll give you after cheating on you. Enjoy the shame you feel when he flirts with other girls in front of you. Enjoy being used and dumped.
Who cares about any of that? He's the hottest guy in school!
You're not a victim. Don't bitch about something if you're not going to fix it. 5 total weeks of dating and you've already broken up and reconciled once... LMAO! And so the cycle starts.
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reader, fi_the_tree  +, writes (23 December 2010):
 Yeah, something does need to change, you need to get a spine and then kick him to the curb!!! How dare he flirt with other girls in front of his girlfriend?? What a sorry excuse for a guy!!!
I know you feel love for him, but seriously, are you going to let him walk all over your heart like this?? Why do it to yourself? Someone out there thinks the world of you, but lets face it....IT'S NOT HIM!!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 December 2010): "he is my dream guy exept when were around ppl"
So, what are you going to do? Lock him in the basement to make sure he doesn't talk to anyone? Listen, you've been with him for 2 weeks and he's flirting with other girls in front of you.
The typical "jock" is probably the worst guy you could date in school. He knows he's popular and attractive which he uses to his advantage. Guys like this will only break your heart in the end and you can't change him.
You say you're not going to break up with him but don't be suprised if he dumps you sometime down the line. That's not me being mean but guys like him are very shallow and will move from girl to girl without giving any thought to hurting people.
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