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We love each other but there is not that 'spark' and we are never comfortable around each other! Can anyone help?

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Question - (16 December 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 16 December 2010)
A female United States age 30-35, *arbieJ writes:

My boyfriend and i have been going out for a year now, he is a really great guy and everything but i always feel like we are not comfortable with each other i feel like i can't be myself around him and am pretty sure he feels the same way. Its always a bit awkward between us unless we are not sober thats when we go totally crazy over one another and express ourselves we spend time alone every weekend, when we are alone together we make out the sex is great and quite passionate but when we are not having sex the there is always a little bit of edge between us its like we are not comfortable with each other i always knew there was no spark; i mean we just can't connect emotionally i love him so much he feels the same way we like made plans to be together forever but i don't knnow how thats gonna work out? Please help if you can.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (16 December 2010):

u need to make`sure its about more then sex to him.

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A female reader, tennisstar88 United States +, writes (16 December 2010):

tennisstar88 agony auntCan you provide some back ground, like how you guys met, and started this relationship? Was it always very sexual, and were you guys always under the influence of alcohol? Need more information.

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