She is not over her ex but I have fallen for her, should I tell her how I feel?

A male age 41-50, *ndromedam31 writes:

I am love with my friend whom I know like from a year. She recently broke up recently with her boyfriend and it was difficult for her to get over it coz she never wanted to break up. But this guy just told her that he doesn't have feelings for her anymore. But she started expressing the things she did during her relation with her ex boyfriend and she used to cry a lot. She tells me that i am the only the guy whom she can express her emotions and i gave her space for her coz she really needed it. I am helping her now as a friend financially and emotionally. Giving her opinions or tips on how to manage things around. But now i am starting to have feelings for her but the problem is i can't tell her coz she is still not gotten out of the previous relationship completely. What should i do "should i wait till she gets out of the previous relationship" or "tell her wat i feel about her". She is in constant touch with me as she calls me daily and i have no issues regarding that as i have given her complete freedom to express whatever she wants. Please advice i am looking forward to your replies.

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