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writes:Hi...I need a guy's point of view on this...and obviously if a lady would like to add, then all help would be appreciated.It's to do with porn! (like thousands of other questions on here!!) why does it seem to be such a problem?My husband's been watching it recently...well looking at pictures of sex or women...although he didn't masturbate...(which I don't understand)...what's the point of looking if you're not going to release? Was he 'perving' over the pics of women? What do you guys think if you do look at pics? Doesn't make me feel too good if I know he's perving over other naked women...I feel jealous! Now I can hear you all saying that I'm acting insecure etc...but I just want to know what you think when watching it? I know I'll never stop it and I enjoy it at times too, it's quick and easy...I guess I'm just after a bit of reassurance : )
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (25 November 2009):
 Why does your cat look out at the window at pigeons?
Why do we look at cooking shows?
Why do we look at fast cars we can't afford?
It is just looking. And part of it is as simple as "you are not supposed to" which makes it... I wouldn't say exciting, but there is a hunting part of it. Just as your cat pretends catches when its belly is full and it damn well knows a piece of newspaper on the end of the string ain't real prey, your husband looks partly out of conquest. Not real conquest but a play version of it.
And don't tell me you never look at men. No woman watched Titanic for the acting.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 November 2009): well when men do see porn or naked women they nearly always get aroused by it but when it sometime comes to marriage they don't masturbate about it because it is the fear of divorce that goes to them.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 November 2009): If he is still having sex with you then it may be that he is getting himself into the mood haha. Well I used to do that if i was really tired for my ex-partner before she came down anyway. So a possibility.
Coming from a guys perspective, I know some people might disagree but i mean the agreement me and my ex had is that if i dont know the person whom im masturbating over then obviously im not going to have any sexual relations to this person and she means nothing to me,
Masturbating can have its benefits such as prolonger ejaculation, it can get the person in the mood.. loads of reasons.. if i were you id try to change your state of mind.
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