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41-50,
anonymous
writes:So My Client and I went out for a official party once and I got drunk and there was a lot of flirting..Nothing happened but he did give me a talking to the next day. We spoke about it a couple of weeks later and said it's all behind us. My problem is I have a feeling he is still mad at me coz he always refers to the incident in almost every conversation. How do figure out what he is really thinking?
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reader, DrPsych  +, writes (25 November 2009):
 He is either mad at you because the flirtation didn't lead to anything more physical, or he is just joking with you because he realises you are sensitive about the issue. He is a hypocrite because it takes two people to flirt! It is not very nice and reflects badly on the sort of person that he is. I would say learn a lesson about workplace-type relations for the future and keep things professional and alcohol-free. As for your client, I think you need to address the issue head-on with him on the next occasion that he mentions it. You may have flirted but nothing happened, and you need to state clearly that nothing ever will. Ask him why he keeps mentioning it...is it the only interesting thing to happen to him in years?
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