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writes:I've been with my boyfriend for about three months now. I love him very much and things are going well. The only big problem is that he swears I'm going to move out of state with him when I get done with school. I have a daughter so that would mean moving her away also. I don't think I'm going to want to move with him. I'm not sure whether or not to tell him yet. He has kids that live down there already. He wants to be close to them. I'm just really not sure what to do.Please help! Reply to this Question
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reader, girlygirl720 +, writes (1 April 2009):
girlygirl720 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks guys, we talked and were slowing down. That means the world to me that hes willin to do this. I appreciate the feedback!
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reader, girlygirl720 +, writes (26 March 2009):
girlygirl720 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThats along the lines of what I was thinking. Thanks.
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (26 March 2009):
You should tell him now.
It's going to be far worse for him to be told last minute.
3 months is not a long time to be with someone.
Just tell him straight you've been thinking about it and you don't want to move.
He may want to stay with you till he goes, or he may want to split up there and then. But you have to be honest with him.
Be gentle but firm and just tell him you don't want to.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, superrrshawna +, writes (26 March 2009):
 3 months is not a long time at all, and I'm afraid you may be rushing things if you move in with him so soon. If he wants to move, let him... Try LDR for a while. If that works out, anything will.
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