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writes:hello everyone....i am scared please help !! me and my girlfriend have had many phone sex chats and masturbate on phone. she rubs her clit with a pen refill. recently she has got irregular periods and strange sensations near her clit area which she said are painful sometimes and are making her go to the loo very frequently. she also has the problem of kidney stone which is not yet declared to have come out. she got tensed about it and suspect it to be because of the masturbating stuff we do. we have not done anything apart from only kissing. please help ...i am scared! am i in any way to be blamed for whatever is happening ? how should i support her and calm her down ?
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reader, DoubleM  +, writes (18 March 2009):
 In support of everything "jessica04" contributed - and you are of no blame whatsoever. Her masturbation may have revealed some other possible problem, which is good if it prevents a worsening situation. She probably needs more medical examination. It may also simply activated the preexisting kidney stone thing. No guilt, dude. Just be supportive and good for her.
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reader, jessica04 +, writes (18 March 2009):
 Kidney stones are from mineral deposits that build up in the system and don't get flushed from the kidney. As far as I know, it's not from a UTI.
However, if she is using foreign objects that aren't clean as tools to masturbate with, she may have given herself a UTI, or, Urinary Tract Infection. These can turn into kidney infections if left untreated.
If she is already seeing a doctor for her kidney stone, she needs to ask him to put her on something for UTI or kidney infections.
You two did nothing wrong. Just have her talk to her doctor. And next time she masturbates, she needs to make sure her hands are clean, and that anything she uses as a dildo is clean. Also, if she can urinate, even a tiny bit after wards, that will help flush bacteria out of the urinary tract.
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