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36-40,
anonymous
writes:I was in love with my best friend for about a 2 years. i finally told her how i felt and after about 2 months she broke up with her boy friend and made it pretty clear she wanted be with me.so i was stoked and for about 6 weeks it was really great. then all the sudden it got uncomfortable, i dont know how it started, but when i started to realize it was happening i got all worried andd anxious made it even worse. conversations with her now are like pulling teeth and if i even so much as touch her its uncomfortable. For a month thing have been spirally out of control and i want desperately to change i but can only seem to make it go more wrong.it really complicated and hard to put in a short amount of words, but i love her and i just wanna be happy for a god dam change.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 March 2009): You love her which is the most important thing. If not then you really should end it. Maybe somethings caused her to turn so suddenly, be open and honest with her and see if you can hellp her with whatever is troubling you both.
You clearly love her and I don't think she knows how much you do and that you want to make it work.
Maybe she wants you to just be like her best friend who she can talk to like old times as a boyfriend. Talk to her, that's all you can do. She seems to be uncooperative convo wise which is a drag, but if it's meant to be, it'll be, if not, I'm sure you can go back to being best friends again. Don't worry. I have faith you two will sort it out.
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reader, RoxStar +, writes (18 March 2009):
 you are having a really hard time adjusting to this relationship because you were used to being the bestfriend who was in love, now that you have her you are like "whoah, what do i do now"
sit down with her, tell her how you feel. You love her, and truly want to be with her, also let her know it is going to take u sometime to adjust to being her boyfriend. to just be patient, but most important you must be patient.
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