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writes:I just recently found out that my girlfriend lied to me about something. We met in Brazil in January, and unfortunately had to be apart for two months, as she had to go back to Scotland and I had to stay. During this time, we were a full-on official couple though. We talked on Skype everyday, and one day she sent a couple of sexy photos to me. Pictures she said she'd taken especially for me. The fact that she would do that for me made me feel great. Made me feel special.But today I feel immensly gutted after having found out that she had sent the very same pictures to another guy in november last year, three months before we met. She left her e-mail on, and I took a peek at her outbox. So now, I don't know whether to confront her about the lie or not? I obviously do not have the right to look through her e-mails, I know that, but do I have reson to be upset? Reply to this Question
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reader, NotaJerk  +, writes (4 June 2009):
+1 with Kelly and Rifraf. Was before you met, even though she lied, just be happy u got some sexy pics. Let this one ride. Dont make her feel like you are crazy by checking her email. I would keep in the back of your mind, and if something else happens then sure confront her. But i think you should let this one go.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 June 2009): looking at her mail is wrong but do as icelordess said and tell the truth x
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reader, kellyxxx  +, writes (4 June 2009):
 Don't confront her, it was before you met so its non of your buisness. I know she told you a lie by saying she'd took the pics especially for you but she probably just said that to get in your good books and to make you feel good. I'm sure she did it with good intentions, in a relationship you need to pick your battles carefully, this wouldn't be a battle that I would choose to fight. Leave it for now! And don't read her emails again! X
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 June 2009): You'll be a clown NOT to mention nothing.
If this is your women.... You better confront he
Doesn't matter that you took a peak in her in/sent box
SHE LIED BRO!!
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reader, inluvbutsad  +, writes (4 June 2009):
 U shdn't have read her emails but yes you have d right to be upset,I think u both shd sit and talk to each other.It my be possible she wants to move but at d same time she didnt want to break your heart.So just talk to her
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