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writes: I keep telling my boyfriend not grope me in certain place because I don't like it but he won't listen. Well one day I was at his house (he's 22 and I'm 16) and we were making out he started touching my chesty bits. I kept telling him to stop but he just ignoring me. So I pushed him off and slapped him (hard) on the cheek. After we then had the worse fight ever.and I went home in tears, he told me that I'm being a f***ing bitch and all he wants to do is express his love for me in a text. I didn't reply cause I was too upset to talk to him. I was to busy crying the whole night. Should I break up with him?
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reader, RJayy16  +, writes (12 June 2009):
NO do not break up with him, just tell him that you dont like to be touched there because it makes you feel uncomfortable, Tell Him that You want to go slow and not rush into things and that if he loves you he should understand that and respect your feelings
if he continues to do it, then maybe consider breaking up with him, but dont break up with him yet if you still care about him, and ignore what other people say about 'it doesnt matter if you love him' it does matter and you don't want to ruin a relationship
Hope i helped
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 June 2009): Don't kid yourself that he's doing it out of love. He isn't.And don't stay with him 'because you love him too'. You're better off without him. He'll just make you do something you'll regret for the rest of your life.Get rid of him, you deserve better.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 June 2009): Yes. He doesn't respect your wishes.
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reader, always.you  +, writes (11 June 2009):
 umm if you said no its a no!
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 June 2009): Yes, please break up with him.
First, he does not listen to you.
Second, he does not respect you at all.
Third, he will probably do more than just annoy you when he keeps trying to show his love for you by doing everything that you asked him to stop doing.
Fourth, if you dump him now he will respect you and you will respect yourself. You will grow and learn that mature relationships are those were both partners respect each other and appreciate each other.
Please find a more suitable boyfriend that really makes your heart flutter and that you are happy being with when together.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 June 2009): brake up with him if you dot like it hes treats you baddly so let it go
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reader, ilovebowsandcherries +, writes (11 June 2009):
 YES definately hun!
that's very unfair that he is treating you like that not at all respecting you!
he's 22 as well so he clearly is looking to more sexual and you're obviously not ready by telling him to stop groping you because you don't like it.
you need to get out of there hun find yourself a decent guy your own age who treats you with more respect :)
he's very spiteful to do that and go against your wishes swearing at you too that's very unfair.
Hope this helps hun.
x x x x
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 June 2009): This is the disadvantages of the age difference although its not a biggy but its stil 6 yrs, and your very young.
his a 22 yr old man that has done probably everything with a girl and his at the age where thats on his mind alot.
your 16 and you may not have done much, and your not at the age where its on your mind alot ecspecially for a girl.
ask yourself if you trust him, is he only for one thing, does he just want sex?
are you ready to go further with him?
if yes then go ahead but tell him to go slow.
if no then explain that your not ready and that by him trying all the time its making you think that its just sex and you get really upset by it
hopes this helps x
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