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There's more to life than men! What can I do to refocus?

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Question - (11 June 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 12 June 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Can anyone give me any suggestions for things I can do to make me feel more positive about my life. I'm very lucky in a lot of ways with my family and friends but I've been used in relationships over the last few years, especially by someone married that I got caught up in and now I feel completely degraded.

I met someone at the start of the year who I thought would be everything I have ever wanted but he decided he didn't want a relationship after all so now I'm back on my own and feel really rejected.

I thought if I could find something to put all my energy into and can forget about looking for someone all the time I might feel better about myself and realise theres more to life than men! What have others done in this situation?

Thanks

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (12 June 2009):

thanks for your suggestions, im about to start my second degree luckily that will take my mind off things even if it usually is stress and i do actually love dancing anyway so that might be a good idea. I will just have to find a partner to go with now!

Thanks for your thoughts

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (11 June 2009):

have you considered dancing. i saw the richard gear movie and fell in love with dancing. it refreshes you, it revives, and releases you.

you have nothing to lose, so maybe you should try this........good luck

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (11 June 2009):

Well done realising that there is more to life than being in a relationship. You are brave to contemplate going it alone - a lot of people are scared to try this and believe me, when you do try it, it gives you confidence.

You need to find some interests, groups to join. Go to your main library and ask about activity groups in the area. Also you might like to join a class and learn something you have always wanted but never done.

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