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He's in a dilemma with his ex-wife, daughter and myself

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Question - (9 July 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 10 July 2009)
A female United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

Dear Cupid,

I have been dating this man for about 2 months but we have known each other for about 7 months. When I initially asked him out he said yes but then said he was already seeing someone but it wasn't serious. He said he didn't know what to do because he didn't want to hurt her feelings. We agreed we'd be be friends and if things changed then we would go from there.

Within 2 weeks time he said he was only seeing me and we were sleeping together. Shortly after that he said we should be friends because he is so busy. About a week later we started seeing each other again and thing have been good until now. He said he's going back to his ex-wife because of his daughter but he says he loves me. He told me he hopes it doesn't work between them because he wants to be with me just that he has to try for his daughter.

What should I do? Is he being truthful and just being manipulated with his child? He still talks to me and bought me a gift but doesn't want to be with 2 women at once.

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A female reader, Renee okc United States +, writes (10 July 2009):

This s.o.b. is full of it wake up and smell the coffee are you serious he doesnt have to go back to her but then he says i hope it doesnt work out with the wife you have got to be slow to accept any of these bogus excuses that he is throwing out you are ill if you decide to wait on him any longer he may have feelings for you but he is seeing the both of you or how would they be hooking back up get a grip please girl he is playing you i dont even know the man and i can see through this crap

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