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Archived questions from: 7 May, 2008 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Am I doing something wrong because I'm not attracting girls?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5839 days ago

7 May 2008 (M) - Any night out where I receive no female attention always feels like a disappointment to me. How can I lower my expectations and just let the night flow? I haven't had a girlfriend for a while, so I'm on the look out, but as of yet I've had no luck. ...

Should I break with him or just take a break?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5839 days ago

7 May 2008 (F) - the 11th is me an my boyfriends 8 month aniversary an he doesnt even wanna do anything but hang with his friends. and i wouldnt mind if he didnt do this on a regular basis. this is an everyday thing.i always ask him if he wants to hang out just me ...

My boyfriend refuses to tell other people we have a relationship!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5839 days ago

7 May 2008 (F) - my bf is tell people he is NOT my bf!so people hate me and are tell me he is not my bf.but on MSN he says he love me so much. but y people hate me today 4 life one friend telled me i was to in LOVE to see he is not in love.he said i will tell people ...

My boyfriend is falling into drugs again, what should I do? I need help desperately.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5839 days ago

7 May 2008 (F) - This question seems so simple to answer from an outside perspective but for me it has been tearing me apart for months. My boyfriend and first real love is a drug addict. Since we first met he has had a problem with controlled substances,(benzos, ...

I told him that I needed to work and he got really cold, visibly annoyed. What should I think of his attitude?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5839 days ago

7 May 2008 (F) - Hello, Its exams period and the whole year has been very stressful as its the last undergrad uni year and we are both ambitious. We've been out together for more than a year now and before we were best friends for a year and a half. I love him...

I think part of the problem is that she doesn't realize that I'm in love with her, or why

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5839 days ago

7 May 2008 (M) - My girlfriend seems to have control of the relationship. Lately I've been impatiently waiting on her to call, and anxious all day until that point, while on the other hand, she seems fine without talking as often as we used to. I feel like we're ...

Will this one last?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5834 days ago

7 May 2008 (M) - My girlfriend says she needs space. Not break up space, but just time for herself sometimes. We had some issues during spring break and when she left back to Minnesota(we have a long distance relationship) things have seemed different. We used to ...

Should I lower my standards to suit?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5839 days ago

7 May 2008 (F) - My ex broke up with me yesterday. Of course I'm sad, but at least I'm calm because I know I did nothing wrong, although he's very mad and hurt towards me. He broke up with me because he couldn't cope with my past anymore. Yesterday, when he...

To who ever might be listening and may have or be in my shoes help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5839 days ago

7 May 2008 (F) - To who ever might be listening and may have or be in my shoes help..... My fiance and I have been having financial problems for the last year, it has put a strain on us but I thought we could make it through. About a month ago I came home ...

If he's not happy anymore with her I don't want to be the reason of problems between them?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5839 days ago

7 May 2008 (F) - i am 30 years old and i met a wonderful man who is 36 years older.I am mature enough to understand that i am not in love with him but i feel very much connected.We like each other very much and i find him a very deep,emotionally intelligent ...

Did I creep her out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5839 days ago

7 May 2008 (F) - hey guys there is a girl who i met in the summer, and we flirted a lot, she was always touching me and staring at me and i cud bet my bottom dollar she had feelings for me...then she went back home...across the globe to her home, this was august ...

Am I over-reacting or is he just stringing me along?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5839 days ago

7 May 2008 (F) - Ok, I really need some help. I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years now.I put up with alot like the fact that I havent met his parents who he says are racist whom he still lives with and other things.The big problem is I keep caughting him in ...

How should I react to my 'best friend's' behavior and treatment of me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5839 days ago

7 May 2008 (F) - My best friend showed me her true colors, after she has started working, she has changed. It was her birthday, and I arranged for her surprise party. I had to coax her by saying that it’s her birthday and she must buy me lunch. She was so irritated ...

My childhood friend slept with my BF a year ago; she keeps telling me she wants to be friends again, do I forgive her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5839 days ago

7 May 2008 (F) - My best friend since childhood slept with my boyfriend. It has been a year since I have talked to her and I dumped the guy. She keeps calling me telling me she wants to be friends agian. Should I forgive her? I'm afriad she may try and do the same ...

Help, the love of my life is a wuss

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5839 days ago

7 May 2008 (F) - My boyfriend of 6-7 months, who I haven’t seen in a while due to hectic work schedules, has been acting really distant lately and avoiding me for the past couple of weeks. When I finally threatened to break up with him he told me that I'm the nicest ...

His mother is a cheater and liar - does he take me the same way?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5838 days ago

7 May 2008 (F) - Hi everyone My BF grew up in a broken family. His mother cheated on his father, she also lied couple of times. She tried to come back to his father many times (11years on and off), but only to use him and than go back to someone else. My BF ...

Is he leading me on? What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5839 days ago

7 May 2008 (F) - I have been dating a guy for 7 months and last month we had a massive argument, which stemmed from his ex girlfriend still texting him. Although i know he has no intention of ever being with her, I just overreacted and couldn't control my emotions ...

I could not make love to her. Is she still seeing him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5839 days ago

7 May 2008 (M) - my ex was is bipolor, and we was together for 2 yrs i looked after her in most ways loved her cared for her and much more but i could not trust her . we split up for 5 months and she contacted me to meet and it hit off , but a few days seeing her ...

He likes me, but doesn't want his family/friends to know he likes fat girls?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5836 days ago

7 May 2008 (F) - I've been dating this guy for 6 months now and he doesn't want to introduce me to his friends or family. When I asked him why I havent met his family yet he said it is because I'm fat and he's not sure if they would approve. I've been ignoring him ...

My boyfriend cheated with my sister, I cut contact with her but I am still seeing him. I keep justifying his behaviour, is this right?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3947 days ago

7 May 2008 (F) - my younger sister slept with my boyfriend. he admitted it to me, she still hasn't, well she did but in a round about way but then quickly took it back when i asked her did she do it rather then " i know you did it, why?". when she found out he ...

I caught my BF cheating with his ex of 4 yrs. He wants to get back together and I might be pregnant... what to do??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5385 days ago

7 May 2008 (F) - First off I will give a little background information about this very complicated situation. I (24 yrs) will call my most recent ex boyfriend Paul(27 yrs) and my other ex boyfriend John (24 yrs). I know this is a little long but it explains my ...

My llife long friend introduced me to her ex boyfriend, now we're a couple, and it's created problems...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5840 days ago

7 May 2008 (F) - A girl friend i've known almost all my life has always been in love with this one guy. They dated a while but it didn't work out because they both realized they're better off frends. After they broke up, she has been crying about him for about 10 y...

He says he can't handle my past, and he doesn't wanna lose me. He says I have to help him overcome this. My question is, how?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5840 days ago

7 May 2008 (F) - Hello, I've been posting about my boyfriend not being able to cope with my past. Recently, he had broken up with me, today we got back together. Please, help me help him. When I went to talk with him today, at first, he didn't wanna see me. H...

Pros and Cons....is he worth it? He's changed a few things, will he change them all?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

7 May 2008 (F) - My boyfriend, 30: Pros: Buys me flowers. Cooks dinners time to time. Helps clean house, dishes, tends the yard. Tells me I'm beautiful almost every day and that he loves me. Always calls me. Wants marriage, babies, the works with me. Good looking...

There obviously is no room for "compromise" as he evidently wants no more sex than we already have.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5840 days ago

7 May 2008 (M) - Myself and my boyfriend of almost four years have the problem of me wanting sex and intimacy a lot more often than he does. In the beginning this wasn't a problem as he wanted it as much as I did, but now he is less interested. It came to a head...