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Archived questions from: 13 May, 2008 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Ready for a change - I want him to trust me when he's not there.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 241 days ago

13 May 2008 (M) - I have been with my boyfriend for over a year. About 9 months ago I kissed a guy and we have talked about that. He likes to go on Internet chat rooms and talk to guys and mess around with them through chat. He has never cheated on me. However, ...

Does my ex still have feelings for me? Or am I imagining it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 77 days ago

13 May 2008 (F) - I have posted on here before and got some good advice. My ex bf of 3 years broke up with 1 month ago and started dating a new woman a day after we broke up. He met her while we we were out clubbing together and they had known each other on and off...

My wife has a fetish for firemen and is causing 'accidents' because of it. What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 241 days ago

13 May 2008 (M) - I'm 25, and my wife is 24, we've been married for 2 years now. In the past few months and weeks she's recently been causing "accidents" - and I know why. I found a note in the kitchen when tidying up one day saying "must cause accident so hunk...

She's my friend and I told her I liked her. Now she tells me to leave her alone after a huge fight.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 239 days ago

13 May 2008 (M) - Hello, I have a frined that I recently started to like so I told her that I liked her and we got into a big fight because she didnt like me and now she says to leave her alone and never talk to her again. If I had known she would have reacted ...

I fell for him, he's married - she's pregnant, now I'm heart broken

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 227 days ago

13 May 2008 (F) - Hi.....iam 21 years and iam in a heartbreaking dilema...i started seing this guy ( @ the time 32) when i was 19.... The thing is that it all started so sudden @ work...you know the passing by the office..the eye contact...then one day he took me ...

I think my friends have spread rumours about me...should I forgive or plot to get even?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 240 days ago

13 May 2008 (F) - Today at school my friend really hurt me. Her and this boy went and told everyone that i am not a virgin. It's really affecting me becasue people are calling me slag and becasue i am normaly quiet and keep out the way people are saying "its always ...

My boyfriend doesn't want to talk about his past, which includes him being raped at age nine and then sexually active

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 241 days ago

13 May 2008 (F) - HEEEELP my 3-month old boyfriend confessed to me that he was raped by hi's cousins friend when he was 9 years old. But thats not it. After he was raped the first time he was raped by more people, girls AND boys, as he claims He also told me ...

My long distance partner is confusing me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 241 days ago

13 May 2008 (F) - Hi all! I have posted a question here a few months ago about my long distance relationship. It has gotten better, still no flowers, but he calls a couple of times per week, we txt each other frequently as well as email. He is comming over again - ...

I'm hiding something from him, because it'll make him angry. I'm confused, advice please?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 226 days ago

13 May 2008 (F) - Sorry, this is long... My boyfriend doesn't trust me. I am to blame of this, in part. He has trust issues because of previous girlfriends and being abused as a child (I didn't know about this until it was too late). But the thing is, he's always ...

Did he ever really get over his ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 241 days ago

13 May 2008 (F) - hi. i met my boyfriend in march and he had an affair at that point with a girl from another island closeby afetr he had just brokne from his ex girl which he was dating for 9 years..from what he said he wanted to move on thats why he was trying o...

Can you tell me how I can truly know if he loves me or just really just wants to be friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 241 days ago

13 May 2008 (F) - He says he just wants to be friends but he calls me every day. We are together every weekend. When I feel like we are getting close I can feel him back off. I love him. He wants me with him but he wont talk to me and tell me his true feelings...

I'm scared I'm going to get hurt again, in this weird situation we're in...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 241 days ago

13 May 2008 (M) - Hi all, I wanted to share my weird situation with you and to maybe get some good advice.. The deal is, me and this girl broke up some months ago, we've been together for almost a year. She couldn't continue seeing me the way it used to be cause...

I'm a tired, sad mess

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 239 days ago

13 May 2008 (?) - This is really hard for me to admit, but i think im falling into depression or something. I'm just young, but am in a long relationship and things seem to be getting harder and harder. the good times are so good, but the bad times can be awful. H...

Can you guys explain to me why my boyfriend goes for lapdances?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 183 days ago

13 May 2008 (F) - On saturday, i went to my boyfriends aunty's 50th. The hall was packed and i was ready for a good night. A few weeks ago, i found out my fella had gone to a strip club in london with mates and had a lap dance -thats fine.. its just he'd not told me ...

Please don't tell me to stop caring, because I need answers for closure so I can move on

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 221 days ago

13 May 2008 (F) - This is driving me crazy! My bf broke up with ME about 1 month ago. One of his mates has made this break up like hell for me... The friend has been constantly messaging me and passing along things that my ex supposedly says. And he tells my ex anyth...

I aborted his child against his wishes-Is he still holding this against me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 234 days ago

13 May 2008 (F) - i am a lady aged 25 i had an abortion in feb 2006 against my bfs will.he really wanted the kid but i felt we were not ready for ababy at that time.he told me that we forget about the past n later that year i got pregnant again but gave birth to a ...

If anyone could help me please, does he like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 241 days ago

13 May 2008 (F) - i was just wondering, if anyone could help me, plz! theres this guy i like...we've become very close friends...and i am now friends(and close) with his friends because of him, and now they text message me! But he doesn't! I mean all of his friends ...

I know it is unfair for me but my heart has been ruling my head. What should I do?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 240 days ago

13 May 2008 (F) - Hi everyone, I need your help. I believe you see clearer than me. It is a really long story. I have been here before. I once said I was and still am in love with this guy who twice my age and who is a divorced man with kids and an acoholic as well. ...

Does he like me or is it just a game he's playing?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 241 days ago

13 May 2008 (F) - hi im Leighton, I am 16 yrs old i met a guy that i instantly fell for and he seemed to like me aswell. He would call me to see how i was and to meet up with me because we lived close. Over a couple of months i fell in love with him even more as...

I am really scared that this might be the end of our relationship as it has gone so stale

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 239 days ago

13 May 2008 (F) - Hi if anyone can give me some advice i would really appreciate it. I am so confused at the moment. I have been with my fiance for 4 years, i am 22, he is 28 and we have a beautiful 18 month old baby boy together, and have bought a flat together. ...

He said it was all in fun, and that receiving her messages and contact made him feel good.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 241 days ago

13 May 2008 (F) - I have had some personal family crisis problems in the past 3 months, and had not been very nice or very effectionate to my husband. In the weeks that I had my problems, he started talking to a 23 year old girl on line which was harmless at first...

I am a victim of trust because of her ex.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 241 days ago

13 May 2008 (M) - Hello all, thank you for taking the time to read and give your opinion about my situation.. i met my GF on the Internet, she lives in Japan and i live in Canada.. to make it short, her last relationship went sour when she open the door to a room to ...

I'm not sure if he likes me for my body ...what do I do?!?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 241 days ago

13 May 2008 (F) - Ok so ive been dating my boyfriend for about almost a full 4 months and we kiss and stuff but to be honost he has almost no sexual interest. He will put his arms around me but he wont touch me or anything. I mean jsut last week we were at my house ...

Confused and madly in love with someone I'm not sure of

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 242 days ago

13 May 2008 (M) - There's a girl that I've liked for a number of years now and recently we were at a party where people where talking about things and one of them upset her and caused her to run away, I went to find her and when I did she was outside crying, I sat ...

I have liked this guy for a long time and it's beginning to get me down

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 239 days ago

13 May 2008 (F) - I have liked this guy for a long time and it's beginning to get me down, but I can't move on because he's on my course and in my friendship group. I don't know what to do, in an ideal world I would cut all ties with him but I don't see how this is ...

How do I do break up without hurting her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 242 days ago

13 May 2008 (M) - Does it seem like I'm thinking this through rationally, am I being an asshole, or both? My girlfriend of a year says she loves me, and is always good to me. We have fun together, but she never hangs out with my friends, and when she does, she do...