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writes:my ex was is bipolor, and we was together for 2 yrs i looked after her in most ways loved her cared for her and much more but i could not trust her .we split up for 5 months and she contacted me to meet and it hit off , but a few days seeing her someone had text her mobile, and i ask her who was that she said a guy she was texting when we split up then i did not feel god about it at all which anyone would feel. so i ask questions and i felt strange we went to bed that night and i did not feel easy lying next to her and i just cuold not make love to her as things was not right i felt she possible could of still seeing this guy so , the next day i invited her to mines , we had a drink and sat talking to her about it and she started to cry saying she wants to go home so i then said that she could not drive as she was drinking do you thing she was or had being seeing him at the say timewhat do you think as we are now split once again
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (7 May 2008):
Well the fact she cried about it may mean she feels guilty about it, or it may mean she felt you were being horrible to her.
She had every right to text a guy when you were split up and they may just have been friends. You could have asked her about it and asked her to cut contact with him rather than accusing her of cheating.
The fact you have split up over this so easily says your relationship is very unstable and if you now have trust issues then you are going to have to ask yourself if you think it is worth the effort.
Good Luck!! xx
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